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  1. DiegoSantori

    A haircut can change your life

    Example 1: Old: New: Example 2:
  2. DiegoSantori

    Pook: "Women want smart guys but not 'melancholy' filled philosophic guys". Your opinion?

    This is what Pook writes in his book: "Years ago, I was at my 'most natural state' when I would rant about philosophy, politics, economics, and so on. As you can imagine, this bored the women (women want smart guys but not 'melancholy' filled philosophic guys). My actions were so...
  3. DiegoSantori

    Is "being likeable" and "being attractive" interconnected?

    "Likeable" people are often positive, respectful, polite, confident, do a lot of the listening, smile, open up & make eye contact. Is "you're a likeable person" a compliment? Does it mean that you're attractive? Or is "being likeable" and "being attractive" not interconnected? What if you're...
  4. DiegoSantori

    Today I realized once again how powerful looks are (no negative thoughts involved)

    Today I was walking down the pedestrian mall when I saw that guy surrounded by three women. He had a shaved head and piercing blue eyes. The very first second I saw this guy and his girls, I already noticed how one of the ladies playfully touched his shoulder and teased him a bit. All three of...
  5. DiegoSantori

    How Instagram cured my oneitis

    Yes, I was one of the guys who believed that this one particular woman was a goddess and that nobody else in the world could possibly measure up to how perfect she was. The way the sunlight glinted in her hair was hypnotic and everything she said and did sent me on a rollercoaster of emotions...
  6. DiegoSantori

    Don't spend your money just because you have it.

    Don't spend your money just because you have it. That's stupid. If you trade time for money, your money shouldn't be for consumable frivolities. It's not for designer clothes, or iPhones, or a Mustang GT. Unnecessary excess on depreciating assets is a poor business decision. If you are...
  7. DiegoSantori

    People like you more when you care less

    Lately, with how busy my life has been, I haven't been able to text fairly regularly with anyone, if at all. As a result, people start texting me more. I've ever gotten a few numbers out of it, and these women will occasionally go "talk to meeeee ;-)" or "are you still interested because you...
  8. DiegoSantori

    Guys aren't your friends either!

    Are all guys your enemy? No, but the vast majority of them are and you have to worry about them more than you have to worry about women. Women aren't your friends, but men aren't your friends either. Some of them are you associates at the very most. The average guy with an average SMV is the...
  9. DiegoSantori

    How has SoSuave changed over the years? Where there certain trends? Who was the most striking user?

    Can you mention specific changes over the years? Like a certain topic or movement or target group that was characterizing this period or a specific year? Are there SoSuave "legends" who attracted a lot of attention due to their statements? Has SoSuave in general become more positive or more...
  10. DiegoSantori

    If it doesn't come to you naturally, don't try it.

    There are things in life that always came naturally to me like friends or professional achievements. I never asked for a friend, yet there were always guys who invited me to parties and wanted to gain my friendship. My professional life is just as trouble-free. I've always done my best and the...
  11. DiegoSantori

    Advice I received from a 50 year old man

    -Figure out early what is important; you cannot do this early enough -Don’t spend so much money on liquor. I could have bought a brand new SUV by now -Pick a few things and do them well and stick with them, quit chasing random crap -Select a career you love regardless of the money, cause you...
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    So, apparently one sentence was enough to destroy the happy atmosphere...

    Last night, one of my bros and I were watching a football match between Germany and Italy at a live public screening. As fans of the Italian team, we were in a clear minority at this event and at first, we couldn't spot any other Italy supporters until we saw some gorgeous women wearing Italy...
  13. DiegoSantori

    How old are you?

    I've got a feeling that the majority of SoSuave users are quite old. Let's see if this poll will confirm my suspicions.
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    Woman reveals what she learned from dating a high-profile professional athlete

    - There are 2 main ways of connecting with a professional athlete: 1.) You actively pursue him at a club, restaurant, store, or at one of his games and hope that you are showing out enough for him to be interested in your flirtation. 2.) You will be introduced to each other via a mutual friend...
  15. DiegoSantori

    This short video is the reason I'll never do cold approaching

    Cold approaching is a waste of time.
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    Quotes about attraction that will make you think

    - All turn offs display either oversensitivity, or under-sensitivity. - The oversensitive guy is fearing too much what she might think, and he's fearing losing her too much. - The under-sensitive guy is too challenging. - Be a man who reveals little. - Be a man who gets women to share much...
  17. DiegoSantori

    Are these lyrics by a female singer perfectly describing our current generation?

    Song "No" by Meghan Trainor "I think it's so cute and I think it's so sweet! How you let your friends encourage you to try and talk to me But let me stop you there (oh, before you speak...) My name is no My sign is no My number is no You need to let it go You need to let it go Need to let it...
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    Simple & trivial question about being alpha/beta

    Simple & trivial question: Is a man who is deliberately sitting alone in a room full of people alpha or beta? Some people might say he's alpha because he doesn't care about what's normal and what other people think. Others might say he's a beta foreveraloner with social anxiety. It seems to me...
  19. DiegoSantori

    The major reasons why some people climb the corporate ladder very quickly

    Measures that will only take you so far: - Knowing someone - Being part of the old school - Old boy network The most critical and important skills for climbing the corporate ladder: - You can do the job. Being tall, sexy, good looking or charismatic is the icing on the cake and will make...
  20. DiegoSantori

    Proof that high status ain't everything

    First and foremost, I don't care if you believe me or not, but I'm working part-time as a male fashion model and the money's fine. Lying to you wouldn't even make sense in this case. It would be a waste of time. I'm 25 and there is this chick who's 5 years older than me. She knows about my job...
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