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I like the 'Schrodinger's Cat' metaphor... you don't know the current state until you open the box. Yep... only way to know for sure. Hit the ball back over the net and see what she does with it. You could get ghosted... or you have a date and something to work with. REMEMBER: Until you...

Always assume when you are interacting with women, who are working, is to assume she is just being friendly because it is her job. Only one time in my life did I ever actually pick-up a waitress... ONCE, and that was... wow... 30 years ago. Typically, I ignore any buying signs I get from women...

Well yeah... get out and do stuff... only way to actually meet people. The only advice I can add is to sign up for things you are REALLY interested in. If you only join classes to meet and bang chicks it won't work well for you. Women, by and large, are very intuitive... if that is the only...

Who has time to 'date' anymore? Who has the money to invest in this effort? At the end of a very busy work day... I would rather go to the gym or yoga practice then going out hoping to get laid.

I really don't think women really care what sports a man participates in, just that he is fit and makes him more interesting. But women who are into music, will be more interested in someone that plays an instrument. It's whatever the woman finds interesting. In school, being on a popular...

Friendships form because of common interests or history. You cannot really be friends with someone (man or woman) if you have little in common. I have female friends, but these friendships are not as deep as my male friendships. Also most women do not know how to be friends with men that are...

Agreed. This is a big part of it. But a boy, that grows up around men that are successful with women, will develop attractive traits. If you had older brothers that were good with the ladies... it was because they were fit, socially successful, and had attractive characteristics.... you are...

There is no such thing as 'a natural' all behavior is learned. Men that appear to be good with women learned this because they grew up in an environment where they observed family members and friends that had attractive characteristics. This can be learned, but it is very much like someone...

Most women learn at a young age the art of flirting to get what they want. This is their default. It's not necessarily serious... just what they do. Many men misinterpret flirtation as romantic interest. When this happens and she IS NOT really attracted to the man, they are also skilled and...

True.... Well... it is true for me. even back when I was a lot better looking and younger... and the club scene was hopping. I failed I'm guessing 75% of the time. But I used to go out to have fun... getting chicks was just something I did when I was there... I like meeting new people and to...

Life has to have balance. And if your life is the endless pursuit to get laid… well you have no balance. Same it true who is endlessly pursuing money. Or drug addiction… anything really. For a PUA… well if the night ends without getting laid… your time spent is a failure. You will have...

We all have women in our past we think about. But I don't regret anything. There are reasons women drift out of our lives... and most of that has nothing to do with the man.... so spending too much time worrying about what you cannot control is a waste of emotional energy.

In my experience, women accepting dates then later cancelling never really wanted to meet up. She just didn't know how to tell you no when you asked. Why do they do this? Simple, they do not want to get into any uncomfortable discussion with a dude as to 'why' she doesn't want to meet up...

Just don't be a push over.... no one respects anyone that allows others to walk all over them.

I don't know why anyone would have 'heated' discussions with women they are dating. Dating is supposed to be fun... if it's not fun then what is the point? When things like this happen with me, I just chalk it up to an absence of compatibility and walk away. Too many women in the world to...

I'm terrible at texting, so I don't do it. No way you can really tell the mindset of a woman over text. She probably has at least a few guys doing this and is just juggling text messages. But in this case, you didn't really ask her out. It is always best that you make things very clear what...

Have you had this issue with other women? How old are you? At my age this occasionally happens, but I'm in my 50s and it's totally normal for a man my age. It sounds like you are not really attracted to her... this is normal.

The better looking a woman, the less empathy she has for men. It's been like that since pre-history. As long as a woman believes she has options, she cares more about how a man makes her feel than how the man feels. The only way to counter this is for a man to care more about his wants and...

Yep.... cat's out of the bag... nothing can be done about this.

I don't go to clubs and bars anymore as a habit and when I do, I'm not alone. It's really not possible for me anymore to be in that environment and actually have 'fun', so I don't do it. So I don't have any advice other than to go with the intent to have fun and meet people. Just strike up...