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    Screwed her…now what?

    Girl who works for me showed some interest, so I called her in for a couple meetings and opportunity to flirt and build rapport. We made a date and she cancelled because she got covid. In addition she wasn’t showing high interest in messaging giving slow responses but she got 2 jobs so I just...
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    Good date, struggling with follow up...need advice

    Hi guys So I went on a date with a girl, it went well we had some fun going to a winter fair and then had a drink after. Conversation was good and she was sharing stuff about her past meanwhile I was using kino regularly touching her hands, leg and putting my arm around her waist etc. When the...
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    Was in a bar...

    3 guys come in and I over hear them talking about women. One guy goes "whats the deal with women waiting the same exact time to reply as me to a message, I wait 4 hours, she waits 4 hours, I wait 1 day she waits 1 day and I know she's read my message within a few minutes!" It got me thinking...
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    Wait or Initiate?

    Long story short I had a great date with a chick lots of kino, laughter and eye contact. She initiated by texting me the next morning after the date. So that night I called her but she didn't answer and texted me the next morning to say sorry she would call in the evening. But she didn't call...
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    Dealing with girls who don't want to be seen as sluts

    A lot of women are programmed whether it is by society, religion or friends to put their guard up against men who want immediate sex. These women don't want to be seen as sluts or get used and therefore are nervous/wary of getting too sexual too early. So what's the best way to deal with girls...
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    Girls being defensive

    Why do girls get defensive? Talking to a few chicks right now and one of them I asked when she last went on a date. She got all defensive about it. I questioned her and she said she didn't want me to start asking her more stuff like when she last kissed or had sex. She admitted in the end that...
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    She asked if I'm free but then didn't respond? WTF?

    A chick that I have a first date set up with this weekend messages me to ask "Are you free?". I respond 10 minutes later and say "Yes what's up?". She hasn't responded to that. WTF? Can anyone make sense of this? What should my reaction be?
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    Girl playing phone games?

    Met this chick and got her number. Been talking to her on WhatsApp and conversations have gone well. Seems to be a spark there and she thinks i'm "hot". After a few days of WhatsApp, she said she wanted to talk on the phone so I said sure lets do tomorrow and suggested a time. She responded by...
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    Physical Contact on Dates?

    Been on a few dates lately and having good success in initially attracting women and getting them to go out with me. But I keep getting "you're really good-looking and a nice guy but there's no chemistry" line. I think its down to lack of physical contact. But how do I touch a woman on a date...
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    Offered 2nd date but what to do?

    Went on a date with a chick and it went pretty well. We chatted loads and I made her laugh. After the date she text me on the way home so we exchanged texts and I asked her out to dinner next weekend. She replied and said yes to dinner but is busy next weekend so could do weekday before xmas...
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    Have to give women what they want?

    Was in a bar with 2 friends chatting when one of them says "you have to give women what they want, there's no point beating around the bush because in the end you have to give her what she wants", the other guy then agrees and says "yeah exactly right". Now both these guys were in their 40s...
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    Marry or Dump?

    Contradiction of sorts I know but that's where I find myself. Been with this chick for 2 years had quite a few up's and down's. Now I'm approaching 30 and thinking of settling down but not sure if its the right thing to marry this girl. And if I decide not to marry her then I'm wondering if I...
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    Meet up sh*t test

    Arranged to meet my girlfriend today. She emails in the morning and asks me how I'm feeling. I tell her I'm not 100% but okay (she knows that I recently suffered a head injury playing football). She says if I'm not 100% that we should leave meeting today and can re-arrange. I told her that we...
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    Considering women abroad, a better deal?

    Was talking with a friend at the gym the other day and we came to the conclusion that in a lot of developed western countries the woman is the prize. She is the Queen. For example if you go to a bar or club, women are in demand. Over here women get in free to a lot of places men pay for entry...
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    Back Down or Stand Ground

    Been with my GF for over a year. I'm in control, she needs me more than I need her, she is dependent on me emotionally and intimately. I'm pretty dominant over her. However every so often she will get really mad at me about something and use this to put me in the wrong so she can grab a sense...
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    Jealousy/orbiters?

    Ok so I'm in a LTR but my GF is the very social type. She occasionally uses guys in her life to try and make me jealous. These guys are not close to her, it's just people she see's at the gym/work colleagues. She acts like she's best friends with guys when she's only had a 2 minute conversation...
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    Texting back GF

    If you text a girl and she doesn't reply to what you said but replies 4 hours later asking you "what you're doing" how should I handle it? Should I ignore her for the same amount of time? If I do this she might get upset and be like "fine going to bed" or "are you mad at me?". How should I...
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    1 year no sex..help me!

    Been in a relationship with a girl for 1 year now. We're both Asian. When we started dating she said she wanted marriage and that she wouldn't have sex outside marriage. She's a virgin and never had a boyfriend before. So I played it cool and agreed that marriage could happen if things went well...
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