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    Reaching 40, successful, no luck with women

    Dude my german scks but all of my gfs at least for the last 5 years have been 95% german . Excuses all the time . It’s a confidence thing. No need to read further . You have confidence issues and it smells from afar . If i can smell it , try to imagine how easily the women can smell it.
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    Is there one girl in your past that you will never forget?

    I do remember all of my exes cause each one was unique. I dont remember those that i hooked up with and even if you put them in the same room , i will never recognise them . My latest ex takes the cake and I believe the one that really defined me and changed my course . What we had was unique. I...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Came from a break up recently and i did make a post about it where i keep it updated but many of the details that you guys mentioned are spot on . My ex started pulling the plug 2-3 months before we really break up but she was weak to let me go cause i was always indifferent. The first and only...
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    Falling lower

    Got a new update . Since my last post i met my ex in a club where i just said hi from afar and went my business . She was with some friends of her on some birthday . That was like 3-4 weeks ago . Since then i didn’t see her or had any contact whatsoever. Also i started dating an extremely hot...
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    Falling lower

    That’s true and for the first time Im going to agree with you .That was not any closure whatsoever. For what do you need any closure? Give me a break . There wont be any reconciliation in any other way or form. As i already said , I did that for the kid cause it was unfair for him and i didn’t...
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    Having sex in a nightclub

    There are many options. You go outside to a hidden corner and do your thing . Most people would look away . Another option is in the car , preferably if it’s bigger than a twin sitter, (tried it in my Z4 but i had to open the roof , not suggested) A very good female friend of mine was living...
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    Falling lower

    So been some time till i posted here . I got some updates . I just met my ex today and we went for a coffee. Actually it wasn’t intended. Wanted to cross the road and she drove in front of me and extra she didn’t even acknowledge me . Thought it was rude but anyway ,her kid was inside and saw me...
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    Falling lower

    Update:. So yesterday in my city there was a big party that usually happens once a year and is considered the party of the year . So as a multiple business owner i had to be there to show my presence . I went there early because i had things planned later that night and i wanted to be over with...
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    Falling lower

    I didn’t respond to your first post because it was stupid but you keep going . First of all i did send a letter . Not for her , but for me . That way i was able to remove any guilt that i had on the relationship because i also did stupid things and it’s normal . 2nd i live in a small town ...
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    Falling lower

    I appreciate your words , yes you’re right and I believe that’s the only thing left to do . I did everything I believed I could do with zero effect, i have to accept reality. Hopefully from all of that i was able to remove the guilt i had when we broke up so I believe things are much better for...
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    Falling lower

    Update: long post since my last post few things happened. Since her friend last time told me that she was thinking about me all the time and that she’s not doing well , i did the unthinkable and wrote her an 8 page letter and send it to her . On the letter i wrote about our good times together...
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    Article: It’s true: owning a flashy car does make you more attractive

    I daily a wide cherokee xj 98 . It makes it stand out anywhere i go and in Europe it is considered something not so common. I keep my flashy cars in the garage away from people’s eyes . Don’t want no bad luck .
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    Falling lower

    I’m feeling at lowest at the moment since the last 3 weeks . Her friend told me while a bit drunk(that means she said the truth) that my ex still having thoughts about me and that when i implied she has a good life she said not so good . I do believe that my ex has an inner fight with herself...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Technically ,when you throw someone out of your house ,it is dumping. What were you expecting her to do ? Cry and bang your door back till you open ? You are posting the whole time about her . That’s enough indication that you’re still considering her back . It’s not bad to admit . It’s good...
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    Falling lower

    Quick update. One of her good friends visited my business. Seemed weird at first but i was very friendly with her and she was also very friendly with me .She used to look at me the whole time while she was on her table like she was trying to see how i am psychologically, that’s what i thought...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Dude i don’t want to be the devils advocate here but since you were the one who dumped her , why would you expect to reach back to you ? That would be extremely low for her and it would also seem low value to you as well . As for the money , forget it , no woman has enough honor to do something...
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    Falling lower

    Been a few days since i stopped dreaming about her . Since we broke up i dreamed every single day about her . It was torture. She is still on my mind constantly but not with the same intensity as before. Whenever I’m busy with something and i need to think, she’s gone . Whenever i do something...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    The way i see it, as my recent ex had also a kid that i loved as my own, maybe she really had interest for your kids . Since she contacted your mother and not you, she did it to show that she don’t want to contact you or makes you think that she’s doing it for you . If you accept the gifts then...
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    Falling lower

    I never tried to get her back . Always followed no contact. We would meet on the road and start talking again and usually resume things from where they ended . The last few interactions felt different. She was distant and i could feel things were different. I do believe her friends played the...
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    Falling lower

    My feelings fluctuate. When i interact with a person, the thoughts completely vanish. Then as soon as I’m alone again they come back .No matter if I’m working or not. Yesterday it was the first time since the break up that i really felt that she’s gone from my life . It’s not like i wasn’t...
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