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yeah, I think that's the most likely scenario.. Pretty much my plan too, since I don't think either of us is interested in a relationship or anything, then I'm not going to start trying to arrange a date... simply get some after work drinks going and try and lead one thing to another.. If...

if you wanna smoke, smoke, if not don't, but don't start because you think it'll help you get chicks.

Ok, quick situation report simply cos its p*ssed me off today. I work in a pretty small firm, theres about 40 staff total, and its finance so its pretty much at least 80% guys.. To top it off of the few of us that are under 30 all the others are in LTRs/married/have kids.. so essentially...

I agree with most other people here.. you will not meet so many young SINGLE (that is the key there.. single women) again ever.. I went from uni not really worrying about women because I was an AFC didn't really have a clue, and thought "One day it'll happen" It didn't.. Now I've left I'm...

I'm in a similar boat.. but you've still gotta have a certain mentality in order to pull it off even to get the gold diggers.. I'm quite lucky in that I landed a fancy job a couple of years ago, I earn more than double the average salary for a guy my age (25), plus if the company has a...

The rapport thing is true, I was expecting since we'd got on so well thru email that she'd not be so closed off when we met.. Last girl I was with was very open with me and would tell me how much she cared about me, enjoyed being with me and so on, while we were together. Need to remember...

I think this is the most important line in my original post Coming to that conclusion so early was a mistake, and I shouldn't have done, she didn't seem like a shy or insecure girl at all, I think she was just waiting for me to prove myself.. her conversation was very open and she was asking...

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Went on a date with a chick from the internet yesterday, first date I've been on with someone from online actually, and was interesting, really hammered home how key body language and non-verbal signals really are. well, it started a couple of weeks ago when she saw my profile and sent me a...

sounds like you are not feeling confident in yourself about the way you look. Is your posture ok? are you generally in a good mood, feeling happy.. if you're not in a good mood people notice and you don't look attractive.. do you notice the difference if you psyche yourself up in a...

I think I definitely need to let guys i'm out with know when there's a chick im interested in but I'm choking.. I think part of the reason I don't have a problem with calling chicks is when I'm thinking about doing it I'm usually home on my own in my room, so there are no other people to...

yeah I think thats the right tactic.. if there's someone with you to encourage you along it works better.. Its weird, for example one of my friends has no problems approaching girls but often wusses out of calling them or only texts them since he for some reason is nervous about phone...

I know, my point is those are situations that alot of people find stressful that I have no problems with.. I want to achieve that level of.. well, just not caring... to women. Exactly i just need to get at it and keep going, there have been nights out I remember when I've just been in the...

aahhhrgghh... Even when I'm getting repeated eye contact and signs of interest I usually can't bring myself to actually walk over and say hello, I'm fine if I "accidentally" happen to end up at the bar next to the chick that's been paying me attention but going up to a girl on the dance floor...

ok.. no reply to my email.. initial reaction was well never mind at least I had a go.. she was obviously only so friendly since she was probably on coke.. Although yesterday my flatmate said something about how he vaguely remembered the girls saying they were off on holiday this week, so it...

That's very true.. but its come to the point where even if I'm not thinking about the past my natural behaviour is not to approach and think of some lame reason why I don't want too, half the time I can't even think of a reason, so I just accept that I'm scared and forget about it and think of...

I agree with the others.. she rejected you.. deal with it. You've no reason to be entitled to revenge.. she's done nothing wrong.. not being attracted to someone is not a crime! Get out of the mindset that if you treat someone well they should always automatically be attracted to you and...

Thats the question... I have low confidence when it comes to women, but I know what it feels like to be able to have complete confidence and security in yourself, just in another area.. jobs.. I'm lucky in that I'm pretty intelligent and I came from a good family, I did well in school and my...

exactly, whats the worst that can happen?? obviously you realise the reason for me making such a big deal of this is my lack of confidence in myself as someone girls are interested in dating, I'm convinced (thru past experience of acting like a wussy AFC) that girls aren't interested in being...

ok, my original plan is out.. most of my good mates are away or otherwise engaged this weekend, so chances of me organising a night were we do exactly what I want are slim.. not good.. may have to just use the email to get in touch, give her some info about some good cds/clubs to check out, say...