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    What if a girl you are getting to know asks you for favors?

    Inspired by my latest thread I really would like to know your opinions on this subject. By a girl you are getting to know I mean someone you texted or talked on the phone but never met. By favors I mean not a very small thing but something that requires a bit of work. In my case it was...
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    Girl I barely know asked for help then went NC

    Met this girl through online dating. We had a few conversations on the phone: Deep, long conversations about all kind of things. We were planing to go on a date and made up a day and time. Few days before the date she texted me and asked for help, she wanted me to translate a few things for her...
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    Good first date, mediocre second date

    Hi everyone, Sorry for my english, I am from germany. I met this girl online and after a few texts and a phone call we decided to meet. First date: She cancelled but made a counteroffer for the following day. I said ok and picked her up at her place. We went to a restaurant to eat something...
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    She went cold all of a sudden few days after a wonderful date.

    Hi everyone, Met this girl online, she is 20, I am 32. Went out on a date, had a great conversation, lots of touching, kissing. She told me how cute I am and that she thinks im a great guy. After the day we texted every day, she told me how great the date was and I told her the same. I asked...
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    She seems to be uninterested after 2nd date. What went wrong?

    Hi everyone, i met this girl (24 years old) during the day. First date was a week later. She came to my place (it was her idea), we cooked and had a lot of fun. I tried escalating many times and she let me kiss and touch her a bit but nothing came from her. I wanted to go further but she...
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    Why is she behaving like that?

    Hi everyone, met this girl online, everything seemed great. She seemed like a good, intelligent and nice girl. Few red flags appeared, for example that she has been abused in the past / has a big tattoo. We had good conversations and a good connection. Had Sex on the second date and at the end...
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    Girl i am seeing is still on dating site after good dates..

    Hi everyone, i met a girl on a dating site few weeks ago. First date was great, so much chemistry, fun and a kiss at the end. The conversations were good, we have much in common and she seems like a decent, good woman. I always let her chase me, doing most of the texting and she was asking me...
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    I think I never want a relationship again..

    Hi everyone, it sounds sad and the thought is depressing but after all my experiences and reading about how women are, i think I dont ever want a relationship again. I always believed in real love and I was sure I will find a woman I can have a great relationship with. This belief is almost...
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    Still a chance after my neediness and jelousy ruined it?

    Hi everyone, i had 3 dates with this young girl, the last two dates were spending two days at my place, since she is living a bit far away. The dates were great! Sexual stuff happened and she seemed totally into it. One week after the third date we set up a new date but i noticed that she...
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    After great first date she is getting emotional over her ex!

    Hi guys, so I met this girl through a friend, got her number, kept texting short and called her to set up a date. The date was great. She was friendly, we had good conversations. There was a connection and she seemed really interested. We were kissing and she seemed really into it. She told me...
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    Failed again after second date! What am I doing wrong?

    Hi everyone, so I met a pretty hot single mom online. First date we had a nice conversation and really fun but I noticed that she was looking away really often.. Thought she is not interested, as she didnt contact me the next days. I texted her but she seemed distant and cold. Then I asked her...
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    She is not sure about me.

    Hi everyone, Met this girl and we got along really well on the first date. the day after she texts me that she only wants to have a friendship. I said im not interested then she comes back again. Things seem to develop really nice, she starts to get more affectionate. Date 2 - first kiss. Then...
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    Finding girls is 100 times harder for me because..

    Hi everyone, it is because I am only attracted to black women. And in my country (in Europe) there are not many of them. Maybe 1 percent of the population, if any. Most of the time I am doing Online Dating because otherwise I would rarely meet some of them. If I am walking around in town for...
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    So I started a regame, how to proceed?

    Hi everyone, Started to regame the girl from my other last threads. I lost all my attraction due to wrong behaviour. After about one month I texted her something light/funny. After a few messages she asked me if I got to know some other girl. I said yeah I met a few here and there. She said...
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    Try again after getting rejected possible? Someone did it?

    Hi everyone, based on my other thread, I want to ask you if trying again after a girl rejected you can ever succeed? In my case, I was rejected after the third date, before everything was perfect and the connection was strong, she showed big interest. End of the third date I behaved weak...
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    Good woman despite all the red flags?

    Hi everyone, i am talking here about the woman from the other thread, that I lost due to wrong behaviour from my side. She was very open and honest with me, she didnt hid anything from her past. I had a good feeling that she is a honest person and that she isnt the type that would lie or...
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    I am loosing the girl i am dating, please help!

    Hi everyone, so i met this girl and we had a really awesome connection. Things were developing great. We can talk for hours without geting bored of each other, we also got the same humor and opinions about many things. On the third date we got intimate and had so much fun together. But then...
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    She doesnt really love me right?

    Hi everyone, so I met a girl 3 months ago, she seemed really interested. Always wrote me, wanted to talk to me, made small gifts. The sex was really good. She told me she loves me and other sweet stuff. We got closer and closer and had a deep connection. She told me nobody understands her like...
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    Red flags with this girl?

    So I met this girl online, and we were talking a lot and got along very well. She was showing signs of high interest, always calling, texting, telling how much she likes me. After the first date she told me that she doesnt need to be on the dating site we met anymore, because she really likes...
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    Thinking about dumping her for that behaviour. Right?

    Hi everyone, so the girl im dating right know always seemed to be loyal and on time. She showed signs of high interest. Few days ago she told me she would call me at a specific time, I said ok. It was like we made up a "phone date". Then I heard nothing and after a half hour she called and...
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