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    Field Report: Emo club - best night out at a club in living memory

    fluffy, it is lame, which probably explains why I was frustrated in the above post! Tried to, but she replied she had basketball training on the night I told her to keep free (sounds likely as I know she plays for a club every friday) So all I could say was, "ok well I'm flat out the rest of...
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    Field Report: Emo club - best night out at a club in living memory

    OK it wasn't a complete flake-out in the end, but I still think something's up. Turns out the girl is painfully shy and "hates talking on the phone anyway. never been a big fan" She replied to my text 6 hours later saying she left her phone at home. So I tried to call about an hour after this...
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    Attention Admin: Your 10-post rule sucks

    agreed, this rule is terrible
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    Field Report: Emo club - best night out at a club in living memory

    wow seems like another frustratingly flaky chick I've found... we traded just a couple of flirty/chatty texts the following afternoon and everything seemed OK for a follow up. Tried to phone today to set up a meet, and it rang out. Phoned again 2 hours later - nothing. So sent a harmless text...
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    Telling the difference between low interest and shyness...

    Lol, very nicely put Craig. I think the best you can do with these types is isolate them and ask personal rapport building questions about their family/study/work, and find interesting stuff about them to empathise on or joke about. Usually effective when asking about their childhood -...
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    This 10 post limit has really killed the forums for me

    Completely right, but let's justify why it's bad rather than just saying crap like it sucks donkey ****. The announcement says we should "pick and choose" what topics we'd like to reply to. Correct me if I'm wrong, but aren't we as DJs, encouraged to say what's on our mind without hesitation...
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    I made a big mistake asking out my co-worker last night

    Indifference buddy. You can just go about your day-to-day activities and talk to others. Act like you don't care and within a week or two, you ACTUALLY won't care. If anything she'll feel awkward! And she'll see you in a different light for being so cool about it. This happened to me...I just...
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    Field Report: Emo club - best night out at a club in living memory

    cheers Enryu, why not suggest to a local mainstream club to hold a punk/emo night, say on Thursday? If you get enough friends together who are interested in lending support or have contacts in the industry it just MIGHT work... HBCute and I have traded a few texts since then (she said she...
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    sick of club game - havnt had a girl in ages

    hey mr fantastic, I felt the exact same thing as you so decided to go to an emo/punk club instead. I'm passionate about this kind of music and the venue suited my personality. I just wrote a detailed field report on my adventures there last night so check it out...
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    Field Report: Emo club - best night out at a club in living memory

    HBChubby was clearly interested in me based on her body language and behaviour, especially after saying she likes a “Big Cox” (A footballer from her favourite team named Cox, who’s the tallest guy in their squad). I teased her on having a thing for another Big Cox (fat jolly guy from a travel...
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    Field Report: Emo club - best night out at a club in living memory

    To give you a bit of background, I've been jaded with the whole club scene for a while now. Night game and clubbing is definitely not my strength as I still suffer some approach anxiety. Last time especially was a bad experience - my mate and his girlfriend tried to set me up with her frigid...
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    F*ck buddy sorta got raped....impacts on me

    lol you guys are pricks :D the words "sort of" were used as a way to suggest it wasn't rape in the stereotypical serious form. Things happen as I described them...no need to get all technical! yep as some of you have suggested I definitely see it as a play to win me as a BF...sex is her final...
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    now THIS is the ultimate AFC example

    it must surely be a stunt to stand out from the crowd.... You can tell because the first thing he says to the judges is "I've never kissed a girl" - it seems irrelevant and unrelated to the audition. If he truly believed in no kissing before marriage he wouldn't be so keen to flaunt it everywhere...
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    F*ck buddy sorta got raped....impacts on me

    iqqi iqqi....you don't need to remind me the definition of androgynous :) and isn't rape defined as sexual contact WITHOUT consent?
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    F*ck buddy sorta got raped....impacts on me

    haha this girl is creative with words... so when she says androgynous she means "different to other guys" (as explained by her), which is a term thrown around on this forum quite a lot
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    F*ck buddy sorta got raped....impacts on me

    Firstly great advice MacAvoy, definitely not going to lie about wanting more....I'll continue on as I have been for the last few months...she knows my thoughts on sex out of a relationship. And to clarify one point, she never used the word rape....I interpreted it as rape. There is violent...
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    F*ck buddy sorta got raped....impacts on me

    She's more like a friends with benefits as we get along really well, and have hung out a few times without any sex involved. Definitely not a booty call situation here. I hadn't seen her for more than a month, mainly due to the Christmas break but also because she lives so far away (more than...
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    Bad flakeout by girl at work!

    Answers - haha let us know how this one turns out...be careful about not taking any more bullsh1t from her. MacAvoy - yeh I agree with you....I've worked on and off at the place for nearly two years total, spoken to many girls and only asked out two. The first became my long term GF. (now you...
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    Bad flakeout by girl at work!

    Some sadly hilarious sh1t happened at work today with a girl that flaked on me. To be honest, since finding this site this is my first REAL rejection (i'm not counting approaches or numbers pre-date) I'd slowly got to know her since around September last year, had very good rapport, awesome...
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    FR: Door open, opener; that worked.

    yeah dude, just sit next to HB8 as before leaving a spare seat on the other side of you. When 9.5 enters later beckon her enthusiastically to sit next to you. Introduce the two girls straight away and that's it! Now you are center of attention
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