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    Oh boy - Block...Mute...Stay Friends...what a mess

    thanks guys... Blocked/muted and insurance cancelled. Insurance co. is contacting her to inform how she wants to move forward (her own policy or cancel). Mike
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    Oh boy - Block...Mute...Stay Friends...what a mess

    Alright. Had an amazing relationship with a girl for about a year. Intense, beautiful, connected, chemistry. We had both come out of bad relationships, and mutually agreed that neither of us wanted to get married or have kids. She used to give me a playful "gagging" look whenever she thought...
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    My LTR broke up with me. I'm devastated. And confused out of my mind...

    Hey guys... She still left her stuff here. I was getting tired of it being here, so my way to my new place I decided to drop the stuff off at hers. On my way, she called me and told me she was at an afternoon party in Hollywood. She on mushrooms and needed a ride. So, yep, I picked her up...
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    My LTR broke up with me. I'm devastated. And confused out of my mind...

    I am in uncharted waters here. If this was a girl I just met, it would be easier to handle that. I just have no clue how to pivot to that...as my emotions and thoughts of "what could have been" are interfering. Anyone else here been able to swap from an LTR to FWB scenario? If so...the...
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    My LTR broke up with me. I'm devastated. And confused out of my mind...

    Hey guys... Thanks for the replies...been off line. I appreciate the facts being pointing out that I was obviously blinded by everything from the get-go. I obviously have further mental issues that need to be dealt with...as I keep going back and forth being happy she is gone...all the way to...
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    My LTR broke up with me. I'm devastated. And confused out of my mind...

    Hey guys... Past year has been absolutely amazing for me. I met a girl in class... And the attraction was pretty unbelievable. I've never experienced a situation where both myself and a girl were so instantaneously drawn to each other. Things happened fairly quickly... And at the very...
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    Girl accuses me TWICE of being a liar, when I'm not expressing EXACTLY how I feel in the EXACT moment...crazy?

    Things were pretty intense when we met... Very very connected and we were very very sexual from the get-go. I know she's addicted to me sexually because of how I make her feel. Within the first couple of weeks, she said that we had to see each other twice a week..otherwise she would have to...
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    Girl accuses me TWICE of being a liar, when I'm not expressing EXACTLY how I feel in the EXACT moment...crazy?

    To answer the above question... Every time I see her we have sex. Once, sometimes twice a day. The sex is crazy. Last night I remembered she knows where my spare key is....
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    Girl accuses me TWICE of being a liar, when I'm not expressing EXACTLY how I feel in the EXACT moment...crazy?

    I've been dating this girl for the past couple months. It was very very intense from the get-go... And things were actually going quite well. One thing that seemed like a weeeee bit of a red flag is that on the third date she said she loved me (who can blame her right? ) I'm not one to judge...
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    Being exceptional in bed...and the dreaded "I love you" that comes with it...

    Hey guys... When I sleep with women, I am EXTREMELY in-tune with them both emotionally and physically. I just always connect with them on a much deeper level, than something purely "physical". Not sure how I do it...but it is something that I cannot switch off. It sounds like this should be a...
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    How can one strategically avoid a girl without coming off as a douche...?

    Good point... Actually...most people know me in the area, as I pretty much engage everyone I meet...so all good... :)
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    How can one strategically avoid a girl without coming off as a douche...?

    Hey... I actually have noooooooooo problem being "Friend Zoned". There are other girls out there...and she may have hot friends...haha... I am just going to be aloof and not engage or say hi, etc. when I see her...unless she initiates first.
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    How can one strategically avoid a girl without coming off as a douche...?

    No no no. That is not what happened (not back to front)... :) Just to give a weeee bit more detail here: Met her on a walk...engaged her...tested the waters. Saw her again a few times...engaged. Sometimes it was just quick convo...sometimes it was more in depth. However...MOST times I see...
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    How can one strategically avoid a girl without coming off as a douche...?

    mmmmmm...well...I did eat her puppy.... ;) Nah, I did nothing wrong at all...but it almost feels like she is treating me like I DID do something wrong. I suspect that is just my bruised ego...
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    How can one strategically avoid a girl without coming off as a douche...?

    Hey guys... A mega hot girl move into my area back in November. We run into each other every few days walking our dogs. Even though I have her number...it turns out I misread her IL. I was basically trying to get to know a girl who had no interest at all...haha...WHOOPS! Not a big deal...
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    First date in almost years...totally bombed...and went from nice to nightmare.

    A lot of really good advice here guys…I appreciate it (though not sure if I can quit being Canadian…hahaha…) :rofl: Yeah…I was closer to 5 years too long in my LTR. I probably need to get things off my chest from that disaster, so therapy I'll check out. In-between talking to Frenchie, there...
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    First date in almost years...totally bombed...and went from nice to nightmare.

    Thanks guys... Yeah...the crappy thing is I keep replaying in my head what I "should" have done...what I "shouldn't" have done. Placing blame on this entire fiasco on myself. Telling myself that I was the problem, not her. That I was reading into everything (probably based on my prior...
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    First date in almost years...totally bombed...and went from nice to nightmare.

    The ridiculous argument (which resulted in her unmatching/blocking me) all started when I mentioned that the past 8 weeks she never really seemed that into me. On one hand, she wanted me to see how much I liked her (which obviously wasn't enough because she immediately accused me of only...
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    First date in almost years...totally bombed...and went from nice to nightmare.

    Yeah she kept saying over and over again for 8 weeks, how "communication" for her is key....yet... Never wants to communicate. Relies on messaging only. Never tells me anything about her, never asks anything about me, and many times when I wrote something to her, she would read it in her own...
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