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    Divorced 3 years later and the Challenges

    Hmm. Your post caught my eye. . Prime_Beef is a bit older and done this. Mercifully, my marriage to my ex was short..2 years, but painful. After divorce, with shared custody, the games started and went on for years. Similar to your situation, she'd disappear with the kid, fought in court...
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    Moving to my fiance's country after marriage... is it worth it?

    Not so fast... Make sure your assets are in the appropriate trust, including any llc. If you move there and things go south, they will not be able to grab your money. Knowing Asians better than most, I will tell you what you think of family values is light filtered thru smoke stained lenses...
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    I've Fu***d up. ONEitis, Monogamy as goal, the works...

    Yes, married redfit good to start, be aware if and when she moves out she's going to hit the c*ck carousel.
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    GF's Sexual Past...Might Break Up With Her

    Couple of things.. 1. Always double as an approximate number what she tells you. They rarely count the guys they f@ ked bit didnt orgasm or otherwise ring her bell. 2. Why early guy special? Mental memory imprinting. When people are young, on an emotional roller coaster, they have a hard time...
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    Losing Wife

    I hope you read my previous post. I've seen a lot of these cases unravel. While you're in an advantageous position is when to move, provided you know it's ending. That time is now. It's better to have the power and not use it than someone else has the power and use it against you.
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    article: The reason why men marry some women and not others

    Marriage is both over rated and under rated. I clearly see the benefits for my son vs his peers who come from single momma families. Stability is very, very important for kids success.. problem is, both parents have to understand and sacrifice.
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    Finally, finally get it

    Just think, that could have been a high interest continuing payment..with a balloon payment at the end!
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    Losing Wife

    You're being foolish. Get what is yours according to law now . Situation will change as time progresses but there's too much money on this for people to be 'honorable." Take it from someone who's been there and knows. Prime_Beef
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    Friends

    Friends? Or associates? I frequently hang out, drink with, ride, camp with, work thru issues with (investment advice, motorcycle repair, or kids playing, coordinating, etc) many people, both men and women. Usually there's something being done or a shared activity. Most of these are...
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    Men In Relationships

    Hmm, rarely here but I'll bite. I love being in relationship with my wife. Been 11 yrs. Change,..ealier on caught myself being weAK in a couple issues, complicated stepchild issues (my child) court constraints. Not much would change except take more care of my health fitness. Very important...
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    Girl Flakes So She Could Smoke Pot

    You did right. She told you early on she's not that into you. Then on this date she invites you to her house to smoke with friends. .tells you straight up come over she doesn't want to get dressed up for the bar. (You're not worth the effort) Likely another stoner friend just pumped her and was...
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    I need help !

    Quite a tale. . Not sure why or how you tolerate it. Twice. Common denominator here is you. 1. You don't seem to have love of yourself. At first sign of mercenary behavior on first wife''s part you should have cut that, never mind getting involved at all. That's after the unwise act of...
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    I dated this dumb bytch...

    If I was a single guy like you, I'd love it. No questions need be asked; you know EXACTLY what you're dealing with. Takes away some mystery for sure but saves on wasted time. I wish there was more of it! Only thing better is if they wore a sign.."damaged goods"
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    Dealing with male aggression

    Hmm.. You can give a snarky response back that should be on point. If you don't have a good come back or can't come wipe with one quick, you should just smile, look at your girl and say "that's my brother /friend! Always like that!." That said, you better toughen up. Men bust each other's...
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    Wife cheated on me....need advice.

    You are in a tough spot financially. The above link advice is good. I've been thru this many years ago. You should file paperwork, you can petition court in many states for her funds which are currently community property to be used to help you legally. Check your state's legal aid at court or...
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    Wife cheated on me....need advice.

    You cannot win at this. If your kids are nearing 18 then maybe a reason to attempt to buy time if nothing else. Have a friend going thru this now. My question for you is: will this person be there for you taking care of things for you if you are deathly ill or injured? Why would you count on...
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    Regain attraction for you?

    ACORHH Another Case of Other Rooster in the Hen House. How you deal with it is up to you; stay, go talk, walk. Something piqued her interest and it ain't you. Happens sometimes when lots of drama. Consider yourself lucky, it happened a year and a half in, no kids. Imagine married 10,15,20...
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    im the other man

    Stupid. You were the other man, you are expecting or hoping for a woman you had an affair with to leave the husband, father of her child to be with you? You hope to have a stable relationship with a woman who lied to her man, committed adultery, and hurt the bond between the child and his...
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    She is not sure about me.

    Another rooster(s) visiting the hen house and she was comparison shopping on your date. For whatever reason you didn't measure up enough for her to jump off the Lillipad. Could be she has a man. If you want the lay you need to step back, play it cool from that angle.
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    Work - you job and status

    Sodbuster is correct. Being in business for yourself puts the hardest boss in the world in charge...the one you can't lie to or blame! Add to that you are where the buck stops. If one of my employees doesn't do something or fails to show, it very likely could be you. These are things I know...
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