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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Thanks, Lozzboss. I love this group!
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    So my ex came into where I work today (coffee shop) with another guy. We have been broken up for 10 months on the dot exactly today. Anybody have any ideas as to why she would do this? I didn't even notice she came in at all, my co-workers asked me if I saw her after she left which I didn't...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Mauser96 I would only entertain the idea if she reached a level of complete desperation and even then it's questionable. She hasn't shown me that so def no. Just keep ignoring her.. Still a little tough but I know giving her any attention will do no good. Been hard to find another female I...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Yeah, Mike.. It's weird... Some days I don't miss her at all and then some days for no reason at all I will??? Sucks D: I think of it like a video game where the boss of a level is about to die and then begins to flicker.. I feel like the flickering of emotions is the attraction dying but...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    So my Ex and I haven't spoken or any contact in over a month.. She text me happy thanksgiving late that night and I of course ignored it... Now she likes every status and pic I post on fb?! I mean every single one of them... Any idea why she's acting like this??? She broke up with me 6 months ago.
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Haven't posted in a long time but just wanted to say that I haven't had too because I'm completely over the ex! :D I don't feel like I'm the best at giving advice but I did just want to encourage anyone going thru NC that you will make it and if you focus on bettering yourself the new you...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    The key here is to create a life for yourself that is better than what you had with your Ex. It is possible to accomplish. Then as you are reaching your goals you don't allow the Ex, who is probably washed up by now, in on your success. It's still about you though, and not about her. She...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    @SoSuave666 That was awesome and I needed to hear that as it is completely true. @Johnsy1979 All I can say is that my heart goes out to you man.. Post in here when you need too. Good guys with great advice. @Between_the_Lines awesome post too!
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    A friend of my Ex fb messaged me and was telling me how done she is with my Ex.. That she over exaggerates, as well as FULL BLOWN LIES and has got her caught up in a bunch of crap. Stuff I already know about her ha. She also told me how my Ex has already branch swung to another guy after the...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Well man I'm glad to hear your moving on and having some victory! Thats awesome! Congrats! I feel if I could just meet a cool chick that I enjoyed spending time with who was more than just a friend then I would finally be free! But so glad to hear your doing good!
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    CerwinVega, no man.. Not really had any opportunities... I'm not into random hook ups, not my thing really... Would be nice to find someone to build something with and get to that level tho! How are things going for you and that chick from the Salsa class?
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    I think another reason I'm finding NC so difficult is there is a ton of sh*t I still feel like I need to get off my chest! I guess that's the attention she's seeking to get though. Hopefully my silence will say it all for me...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    @MattTheW I of course still miss her even though I don't want to be together... Struggling to let go even though I know it's best and what I plan to do. I let my emotions get the better of me and cloud my judgment. I posted in here right away and talked it over with a friend at work who...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Well you guys are helping me see the light.. God bless everyone of ya! It's actually all starting to sink in slowly but surely... She didn't contact me for any other reason other than to ease an emotion of guilt she was feeling at the moment. Nothing else. Simply that. Contact back has had...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Dude... I want to get to the point where I can not reply back but couldn't shake the feeling yesterday... I never initiate contact, it's always her. I did say stuff like of course I wanted you in my life, I loved you and blah, blah, blah.... I kept it all past tense and didn't offer any hope...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Everything you've said makes so much sense... She will never be pleased. She very much craves attention. Reason why she makes up crazy stories... Her family is crazy and she always talked about how they never gave her any attention. She had to raise herself. Just thinking about this...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    I agree too. It's hard but I agree. I gave her attention but she was needy and I could have improved but that could be said about many things in life.. Always room for improvement. This girl was a compulsive liar tho.. But just white lies about silly minor stuff so I overlooked it. We...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Of course she didn't say anything back.. Whatever... Smh. I appreciate everybody's feedback. I read what everyone said and took it to heart. I just wasn't strong enough yet to ignore her. What she said was too emotional and got me all worked up. She can only say the same stuff to me...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Thinking about it too still... If she had just said some old stupid stuff like, "How have you been? Haven't talked to you in awhile??" Something like that would have easily been ignored! I felt in my gut, after giving it a few hrs. I should respond.. It was eating at me...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Yeah, man... I just felt she was accusing me of not caring and then I felt to not say something just proved her point even more... I've been NC with my last gf, before this one, for 2 yrs. I NCed her before I even found this site or even knew what NC was lol. She was a piece of work let me...
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