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So yesterday at work I was in a conversation with a couple of my co-workers, another dude and a woman, all around 23-25 age range. We were discussing the specifics of a product, and the other dude said it's price: "Oh it costs X," and such and such. I recalled that the price was actually...

A girl I was with a while ago sent me this message: "But I am allowed to miss you?" The last time we spoke, I basically wished her well, but also said that there's not much point in us writing to each other as we used to. The question seemed odd to me...why would you need to ask permission? If...

Today, I was at Starbucks doing some work. There was a girl sitting across from me, and I struck up a conversation with her. The interaction went alright, but during the exchange I asked a couple pretty mediocre questions, such as: Do you go to school nearby? Where are you from? How do you like...

When you're with a girl who seems to be interested you, lets you touch her etc., how do you react when she stops your advances? On one occasion, I was hanging out with a girl, we were vibing really well. After a while, I told her to sit on my lap and she said no. I asked her a couple more...

I've lately started to make approaches, aiming for 2-3 women a day leading into a least a 10 min conversation has been my goal. I've done this for the past 3 days, and talked to 10~ girls. From my results so far, none of the interactions were 'bad' so to say...but they weren't great either. I...

Lately, I've made a great deal of improvements with regards to my career prospects, physique, developed my knowledge through reading, etc. - in general have done a great deal of self-development. My social skills are the best they've ever been as well - I'm comfortable with approaches and...

Just saw this quote today, damn it really blew my mind. This brings me back to an old post I read from SenorFingers, he talked about feeling the Fire of Time, and man it is burning - it never stops. On this short span of time we have on Earth, why would you want to hold yourself back, really...

I separated from this girl at my uni a year ago, and she's since graduated and gone back to her home country, nepal. Nepal was hit by a big earthquake just recently, and I want to know if she's safe. When we separated she told me not to contact her anymore, but I still care about her to an...

A girl "friend" of mine (friend is a tentative term here - we've sort of known each other for 4 years, but we aren't particularly close, more like well-known acquaintances) asked me for help on her homework for a class I had already taken, as she was having trouble. I strongly considered not...

I've been wondering, is it better to risk coming off as too aggressive or too passive? I've talked to a few women who have told me about how they've had to rebuff some men's advances, that they were repulsed by how a particular guy tried to get physical with them. I would rather not be that...

So I had an impromptu dinner with a classmate of mine; afterwards I got her number. I had her enter it in my phone, and then we parted ways. But uh, I kind of switched apps on my phone or something before saving it, and I lost her number. >__> Pretty lame, I know right? We hardly run...

Context: I'm an undergrad at uni, she's an international graduate student from China, quite cute, just my type. We're in a class together which meets once a week for 2.5 hrs; before and after class, we usually chat a bit. I've gotten some decent kino in, and she seems receptive. I was showing...

Last summer, I separated from a girl. Prolly not even fair to call her an ex, more like a girl I had oneitis for, we didn't even have sex - we came close, I had her on my bed, her shirt off, but I was nervous or something and wasn't getting hard; so I panicked and made up some excuse and we...

In the initial stages of meeting a woman, I've been told that you want to demonstrate that you are attracted to her physically - be a sexual being, whether that be through kino, making strong eye contact, through conversation, etc. And we know that women like feeling desired, they enjoy...

I met a girl the other day, international student from singapore, super cute, great smile, just my type. :D But, she's rather quiet. Not only does she not talk much, but even her actual voice is quiet, heh. Anyway, when we talk, it's always me initiating a conversation thread. She'll...

Lately, I've been undergoing huge changes in my personality and sense of self. I've also been tossing aside many of my presumptions about life, careers and work, and about women. I've truly been trying to swallow the red pill, but I've become a bit disillusioned. Read this reddit thread's...

I've been thinking quite a bit about my past with women, and the kinds of attraction dynamics I've seen/heard/read about. There are 3 cases, to my understanding: 1. The woman is not interested in you -> acts like a good girl around you. 2. The woman is interested in you as 'boyfriend...

So I had a breakfast appointment with a girl this morning. In hindsight, this was pretty dumb, as I rarely eat breakfast because I get up so late (11pm or so). Anyway, I stayed up until 7am goofing off with some friends, and we were gonna meet at the dining hall at 9:30. Predictably, I...

He mentions, "BTW, I now disagree with what I wrote there about the girls initializing dates/romance. I have never, in my life, seen a girl initiate a date for romantic interests. Girls will flirt to tell you they are interested, guys confirm your interest by asking for their number." (the...

An odd thought popped into my head the other day. It seems kind of understood, but why do women like being led/dominated in bed, enjoy things like doggystyle, etc. Is it a consequence of biology (sexual positions are inclined to put the male on top in other species), or social/environmental...