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Recently I was out with the lads and crossed paths with a woman I was previously interested in, we said hi etc and couldn’t stop looking at each other … a few days later she messaged me saying it was really good to see me etc … so to cut a long story short, rather than just keep texting and...

This is a weird one …. how to combat social anxiety around girls you like … I get the overwhelming feeling of anxiety when I’m in the company of woman I find attractive. It’s like I get brain freeze and I can’t think straight, this can be really annoying and I don’t even know where it’s come...

Hey I have this female friend, which I had feelings for ... we would do things together all the time, things like long walks, days out ... out for drinks and even a theme park. With all this happening I tried too make my move and she didn’t really reciprocate, I took this as she wasn’t too...

So I’ve decided that it’s time to really strive for self improvement. Currently on day 56 no weed (still testing positive tho) I’ve stopped smoking cigarettes around day 60. Back in the gym from January, used to train a lot a few years back so I’m already putting weight back on quickly...

A while back I posted a thread about me being hung up on a friend of mine ... cut a long story short I made a move and she went all weird on me. Which is fine I took that as a thanks but no thanks, anyways I kind of pulled back as don’t really need more friends, not what I’m after. It’s now been...

Decided to make my move on a girl I’m friends with .. took a chance. We kissed she reciprocated but was shocked ... we’ve been out a few times since but nothing got mentioned about it .. so I called her out on it yesterday ... because at the moment she’s getting my time for nothing ... so I...

3/4 years ago I was in the best shape of my life ... and I became complacent and lazy ... so I’ve decided I need to get back where I was.... - joining the gym again in July - going to start tanning - get some fresh summer clothes and treds. - stop smoking cigs and weed ( currently on day...

The inner beta always trying to break out ... for example ... Girl texts asking if I wanted to do something later .. but it’s something I really don’t feel like doing so I say I’ll pass ... she replies ‘ ok no worries ‘ And this is when I feel the inner beta tries to break out ... I start...

last week I created a thread explaining my current situation with my long term friend who I recently got he hots for ... Now there was some solid advice. But since I posted that thread ... I can now see how I have been her orbiter ... she loves it aswel, it’s like what ever your mind is saying...

So is weed a game killer ?

Hey, It’s been a while since I was last here but I currently have a situation where I’m not sure if I’m reading the signals correctly. I have a female friend of about 18 months, we met on a dating app ... dated a few times got a little bit physical and then things just dropped off, most...

Hi, it’s been a while ...... Met this girl just after Xmas ... we started texting .. met for drinks multiple times now ... it’s been around 5 weeks ... me personally isn’t looking for something too serious ... she wants a relationship. Thing is it’s been almost 5 weeks now and we’re not...

okay I'll cut a long story short there's a girl (been friends a while) always kind of had sexual chemistry when out etc... anyways I took her on a date in November which went well.. and none of us really pursued it afterwards .. last week I commented on a fb post of hers and she messaged me...

Hey SS'ers, So I've had a bad few years after my longest relationship .. and somehow fell into the cannabis trap, and I've used this almost everyday for the last few years ... I used this drug as a crutch. But as of late I'm sure I've abused this recreational drug and it's messed me up. I seem...

hey Guys/Girls, Been away for a year or so ... so looking forward to catching up on people's threads ;) Dan

Hi, I'm looking to start my own business and have deceided to go with - Tower Scaffold Hire, the reason being that there's a huge demand for scaffold hire for one off jobs where it's only needed for a few days or weeks only. But to start I may just buy 8 x 7M height aluminium tower scaffolds...

Okay does anyone think Mary Jane holds you back from gaming women? Like I've been a heavy user since around 15 year old ... 32 now and am currently on day 5 cold turkey. This sh!t is hard, the withdrawals are real man insomnia, sweats, loss of appetite, sick, irriatable and loads others, but...

Im now 32 years of age and the best asset for any guy to have is a great personality... unfortunately for me I have pretty decent visual looks ... body,face and nice tan etc ... but my personality is sh!t when I'm around women ... how can I improve on this .. or am I too old and set in my ways...

Hey! Been a good while since I was last here .. but good to be back. To cut a long story short I was on holiday last week and met a bird and hit it off ... kissed and cuddled in the sun but no sex, exchange numbers etc .. okay fast forward a few days once we're both back home and I message her...

Okay so I seem to be going through a rough patch at the minute .... I had a pretty bad year last year and hit rock bottom .. No job/money/no women etc.. Since then I'm back in work and have decent amount of savings ... The only thing that's no going well is my love life. Id say I was a fairly...