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    I’m retarded, missed all the red flags

    My life is a shell of what it was before this woman came into it. I knew the things that should have stopped me from getting involved with her but ended up getting with her anyways and ended up having a kid. She has gotten mad at me for needing to go to the bathroom before helping her build...
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    Kinda weird question but..

    Hopefully someone here can give some valuable input lol Best ways you know of to maximize cvm? Got this girl right now that is all about it all over her face so looking for tips. I had a buddy tell me years ago to make sure you’re well hydrated. Anything else?
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    Work fun

    Went out with this chick about 2 years ago. Get dinner and go back to my place after to Netflix and chill and maybe 10 min into the movie she decides she’s gotta go lol ghosted/friend zoned me after that. Now today she started working for me. Just messaged me after her first day and sends...
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    What would you do?

    Not that my hamster is going lol I can just never text her again and be fine. But curious how you guys would advise I play this. Went out with a Tinder HB8 last night. 2 hours, couple drinks each in a bar. Towards the end of the night when we were getting ready to go, she got a little...
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    Need advice for dating 18 yo

    I’m 31, sister set me up a date for next Saturday with her coworker that’s 18. All I know is she’s apparently a hard worker, mature and ambitious. I’ve also done work for her family before (months before ever knowing of her) and met both her parents. Spent 20-30 min talking to them...
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    Ready to move, US women are worthless

    I live in an area of about 150k-200k people. Mostly retired people. That and the fact that I work a lot (6 am to 10 pm was getting normal for me the last several months) makes it hard to meet anyone. I’ve met a few from OLD but never works out. Decided to pay for a month on tinder to get...
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    How to ask out customer with clear interest

    Have a customer that I’ve seen twice now, she’s a little older than me fresh out of a divorce. Both times I’ve seen her she’s stood out in the cold to talk to me (most customers just go inside and I let them know when I’m done), she’s grabbed my arm after a joke both times, and today...
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    Girl keeping tabs on me

    From her fb posts she’s obviously holding on to hope that things will work out with an ex. On the other hand, anytime I’ve posted a story since we stopped talking she is pretty much guaranteed to watch it. I also posted a picture of something I was doing last weekend. Her coworker...
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    The high score theory

    Kinda a follow up thread to my last about my diagnosed BPD ex. Little background info, we started dating senior year of high school. She left me for a car salesman around 22. That was about 8 years ago. She adds me on FB last week to tell me about her getting a divorce, already has a bf, and...
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    Now confirmed, ex is diagnosed

    Funny timing with the “think your ex is a BPD, unlikely” thread. My ex from 10 years ago added me on FB today. Last I heard she was married and has 2 kids. She starts messaging me and says she’s been trying to call me but I changed my number when I moved. I was typing a response and she...
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    Talking about me but not to me

    I realize this is small but has me curious. My bday was a few days ago, she doesn’t say anything on fb. That day I go to where she works to deliver paperwork to the guy that works next to her and he tells me happy bday, but I’m not friends with him on fb or anything so only way he’d know it...
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    Hittin that wall

    Girl I know posted this today. She’s lucky she looks a lot younger than she is but still catching up to her.
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    Anyone know what the deal is here?

    First off I know swipe apps are trash, only used as a supplement lol matched with a chick on tinder last night. Few messages back and forth and around 10 she goes to bed. Nurse so crazy hours. Wakes up at 6 and messaged back this morning. I’m getting ready for my day so don’t respond right away...
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    Follow up to last thread

    Just to recap, chick from a place I do work at randomly adds me on fb. Talk a little, go out and make out that night, she messages as soon as she got home saying she had a great time then next day she goes silent. Thursday I saw her working and she looked very depressed or disappointed. Sent...
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    Next?

    Went out with this chick Sunday night, I know her from a business I do work for regularly. Had a great dinner, we were the last customers in the place at about 9:20 then went out to her car and made out for about 10 min before I went to my truck and went home for the night. Was fine with that...
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    Disgusting

    Wouldn’t pay her a penny. Crazy times
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    Self inflicted transformation

    Just crazy to see what a woman can do to herself in about 10 years. Facial and butt surgery. Never met her in real life just seen her pictures on FB through a mustang group Can’t imagine committing to a woman that ends up changing so much. Not trying to be cruel, just a sad reality.
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    Girl hung up on ex that died

    Friend of mine wants me to meet this chick, says we’d get along really well. But I looked at her FB and definitely seems like she’s still hung up on her ex that died about a year or two ago. Still has him in the background picture on her page (him sitting on a hill facing away). Probably...
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    “can tell you anything”

    Is it a good thing or a bad thing when a woman you’ve been seeing says she feels like she can tell you anything? Seems good at first but then thinking about it could be bad if she thinks there’s nothing she can say that will cause you to judge her and lose interest
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    Birthday text from LJBF girl a few months back

    Got this message from a girl I was seeing a few months ago. Posted about her before, things were going good and then one night she said “the attraction was still there but she has too much going on in her life so we should just be friends” Didn’t really talk to her much after that, she paid me...
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