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As you grow as aperson, so will your tastes! Are you the same person you were when you were 17? 21? 30? I would hope not! You grow and mature as a person! I am glad I am not the same person I was as I was when I was 17, 21, and 30. My taste in people, food, friends, women, etc...

Maybe I am one of the few to suggest this! Have you tried conselling? If you are worried about your boys and being there for them until they are old enough, why would you want to set a bad example for them having a relationship outside of your marriage? Even though you may have been given...

Some relationships are just not meant to be Hey 49, It is very easy to over annalyze every detail of "WHY" your relationship with her failed. Yes you made mistakes but so did she. The thing to remember is if your relationship was meant to be, you could make a ton of mistakes, and overall...

Hey Danger, Who do you clear through? Best Regards, TS

Hey Aimchase, I hope you have a digital recorder and are taping all contact with her. Save everything; including email, text, voicemails, etc. That really shouldn't be your concern anymore. You're biggest concern should be your kids. Accept the fact that she is going to screw x number of...

Agree with all said! I live in the city where the radio show is. I listened to the show once. It wasn't my cup of tea. It wasn't surprised to see the radio show on the link because of how they are on the show. St. Louis is not a very big city. It is a mid size city. There are so many...

Since he is a recovering AFC, his goal shouldn't be to bang her. His goal is to build a backbone. He has none. He knows the right answer to give her. If he is looking for short-term success, by all means cave in. Let her drive his car! If he is looking for long-term success and confidence going...

Talking to girls anytime of day is fine. Obviously if she is on the phone, I wouldn't approach. If she is not doing anything, by all means approach. Your approach may need a little work. I wouldn't jump into do you want to go to my place after your opener. You haven't built any rapport with...

Your Welcome Jayer! There is nothing wrong with being immature at 30. I know I wouldn't have been ready to get married at 30 either. In some ways I am glad I waited, but on the other hand, if I had all of my stuff together (which I didn't) and had met my wife at 30, I probably would have...

Hey Jayer, After being in a couple of bad relationships, a good friend of mine told me to write down every quality I was looking for woman I would want to marry. I started writing them down on a ****tail napkin at a bar that very night and came up with 20 or so qualities with her help. I add...

Wait a cotton picking minute.....Are you telling me that doesn't work? :D

For me, it was that I was just about burnt out of doing the same things with the same people and getting the same results. You start to realize that your life maybe not as fillfulling as you want and that you want someone to share your life with that has alot that you can relate to on all...

There is a lot of ways Today is Tomorrow could have handled it. A fun way would to act like nothing happened and take the 40 dollars short. The next time she bought something promise her to pay your half and short change her. It is a very petty thing to do, but let her learn the hard way. If she...

This is the issue you will have to deal with if you would ever take it to the next level. 6 years in a relationship! What is holding you back from taking this to the next level with this girl? If that would have been me, I would have just told her about the tournament and given her my flight...

Don't go to a friend! Go to someone you don't know! You won't be able to fully speak your mind with a good friend. You want an objective view from someone that doesn't you. I know this because I can speak from expierence. I was going through a huge rut in my life that I kept doing the same...

Hey Str8up! Have you ever thought of talking to life coach/counselor? They can really help you focus what you want out of your life with an objective view that isn't biased.

How do I know? I know because I lived it! I used to make every excuse in the book as to why I couldn't talk to a girl. She dancing with friends, she is talking to guys in her group, she is with her mom, etc... Those are all excuses! You can face up to reality head on that you are nervous to...

Edger, It seems all of your frustration and mistakes at pickup are outside of yourself. The truth is that all of this could be cured by yourself. I used to make make excuses of why I didn't approach, make a move, make a commitment, etc... The end result was many years of frustration and...

It's been that way for me since I was 21. I am now 37. Everyone comes home from college and sees their old friends. It has always been my favorite night out, even more so than New Year's. If you have a favorite bar, get there early. Be safe! TS

Hey Str8up, I hope this is not the case. I like your posts. Your posts are very honest about how you feel and gives the me a clear description on the situation that helps me when I encounter similiar situations myself. Now I may not have as wild of a social life as you, but I am working on...