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So has anyone on here ever used any online dating sites? Any luck with them? I read an article about writing an effective profile, I don't remember the author - or the article - but it was something about how to write a profile that gets replies. Anyone have any tips or suggestions for this?

A little more advice...convo Thanks for the advice everybody. Porky, you're 100% correct, I think working out and lifting weights is the cure for about everything. Actually, I already have been doing that for some time and I'm in pretty good shape. I'd like to be able to approach women in...

Hey everybody, I've been trying to put this stuff to work, but I haven't been having any success. I can't usually get up the nerve to talk to girls I'm interested in, and when I do, I'm too nervous to make a good impression. So I've been working on this awhile, saying hi, writing down...

Pimpin' aint easy Thanks, Shadow (& other replies as well, but not quite as much), that does really help. There is just something about revealing to a girl that I am attracted to her...I guess it's the rejection thing. I mean, I know nothing overtly bad is going to happen but; for example...

2nd try Shadow, "So what if you see those women again? They will remember you as that mysterious guy who had balls to walk up to them and then brighten their day by telling them what they can't get enough of; "You are stunningly beautiful". And how many times in their life do you think...

Results... "Today, I want you to go out, alone, to a local coffee shop, mall, or anywhere where people gather to talk. As SOON as you spot a girl that you consider to be at least a 7 out of 10 in attractiveness walk straight up to her, IMMEDIATELY, and say exactly this... "Excuse me. Hi, my...

I should be a little more specific I should add just a few details so you'll know exactly where I'm at. I've had girlfriends and some limited success with women, mostly due to luck. I can make guys laugh, and I'm even funny to girls -that I'm comfortable with or uninterested in- you know how...

Good reply "I'm giving you the benefit of the doubt in thinking that you're just ACTING stupid, and aren't actually stupid. So lets go..." No, I am actually stupid, but that's why I'm here. To learn. Sometimes you have to be stupid and loud to get the right person's attention. So I'll...

So here's my current issue: This whole ****y & funny thing has not been working for me. I haven't been able to pick on a woman, or point out her flaws, without coming accross as being mean or genuinely insulting. Either that or I just have an offbeat sense of humor that most girls don't "get"...

Right on! This is one of the most on point posts I've read. And this brings up a question I've been wondering about: Does the whole ****y & funny thing only attract a certain type of woman? i.e. - immature? It just seems silly to have to constantly be using tactics and be constantly "busting...

****y & frustrated So I've seen people do the ****y & funny thing, but it seems to me that it has more to do with confidence than the ****y & funny thing. The things I've heard are more insulting than I am, yet they work. I think my problem is that I am extremely frustrated. Is there any...

****y + funny Actually, I don't remember exactly what it was I was saying to her. She rolled her eyes and laughed when she said that. After she said I was a smartass, I said Hey, it's better than being a dumbass... My question, when I think about it, really is can you really learn to be...

So I was at this party the other night and I was intoduced to this hot girl that goes to my school. We were talking for a little while and I was working on the whole ****y/funny thing, but trying not to overdo it since I'm still trying to get it down. Anyway, at one point she said I was such a...

Ok, here's a situation I need some input on. I go to the gym almost every day, around the same time. Also, at my school there are about 5 to 6 hundred people, so everyone sees everyone all the time. So I tend to run into the same girls a lot. I've approached some, doing this whole pick up...

So I'm working on doing the cold approach thing, but I tend to tense up and can't keep the conversation going, or even get it started - I'm not good at it at all just yet. What I need is a default line, something that I can say in every case. For example, suppose you approach a girl and just...

Good, but... I like this post. This is very helpful. However, I've got one question. Right now, my brain freezes up just thinking of saying "Hi," in situations like those, and that is what usually happens to me. So what did you say when you approached these women? I'm trying to think of...

Has anyone ever had this situation: You meet a girl who you get along great with, have great chemistry in bed & out and all that except, she's just what you'd call borderline on your standards. Like, if she was one point higher on the scale there would be no question, but since she isn't quite...