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  1. Thorninmyside

    (re)Plating a girl with a supposed LDR

    I used to casually date and bang a lovely Thai girl. She turned exclusive with another dude. No harm, no foul. I've been aloof but polite since in the last 8 or 9 months when paths crossed. Her Euro-dude went back to his own country a 27-hour flight away from here a month or so ago and she...
  2. Thorninmyside

    Can't remember the feeling

    Have you reached a point of truly not caring whether a girl is in your life or not, if she replies to your messages or not, drops off the face of the earth or not? I haven't had an exclusive relationship in a year, and anyone since then I've been 100% DGAF. I can't remember what it feels like...
  3. Thorninmyside

    It's not juggling if you're only holding one ball

    We get a lot of threads where a poster's only girl is referred to as a plate. He's worried about losing her. He screens her every text for possible **** tests. He considers every word he sends back as though it may cause a catastrophic turn of events that might dry up the plate's ***** (tip: you...
  4. Thorninmyside

    Being uncut and having no feeling with rubbers

    40 years old, having sex since early 20s and for the life of me I still haven't enjoyed a single lay with a rubber. I'm uncut, which I'm happy to be, but for ONS or beginning of relationships I cannot get sensation and either give up after pleasing the lady, or asking her to finish me with...
  5. Thorninmyside

    Resisting the urge to smack down GF's orbiters

    I've gone official/exclusive with one of a few girls I've been dating, a real stunner who despite being quite shy in the real world, relies to a certain extent on social media for her profile as a model, car rally girl, tv extra... you know, pretty face for hire. Her facebook and instagram show...
  6. Thorninmyside

    Thai bar girl giving freebies and day dates = interest?

    I'm in thailand for a work thing at the moment, and it's the first time in a while that I haven't had a couple of plates here to call upon, so I decided to take a wander down Soi Coyboy, a street in bangkok where the girls dance, encourage you to buy them drinks which they get a commission on...
  7. Thorninmyside

    When does the abundance mindset become too important?

    Ive currently got two plates that I'm banging but another two I'm trying to get there with and always trying to meet new girls. Of the two I'm intimate with, one is of lower attractiveness and status than the other three, but treats me like a frikkin king. Cooks, massages me, genuinely cares for...
  8. Thorninmyside

    Double standards now sells books

    Excerpt from new book: http://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/relationships/robin-rinaldi-i-bedded-12-strangers-in-a-year-with-my-husbands-permission/story-fnet0gt3-1227265537001 Synopsis: Bored middle aged married woman wants new c0ck, sets up a "project" with husband's permission to sleep with...
  9. Thorninmyside

    Picking your battles during period time

    Been seeing a girl for six months and it's been exclusive for the last two. I'm 40 and she's 32. She's a quality girl, sex is great and often, and she's a smart and funny woman. Gaming her was fun and the game goes on. I stay on my toes and try not to beta backslide. The only time we have...
  10. Thorninmyside

    She wants to visit her ex's mom

    I have a plate overseas whom I visit regularly on business and when I do she takes time off from work so we can date, bang a lot etc. Neither of us have pushed for any titles for what we are, but we have talked about marriage our and have gradually dropped other plates we might have had...
  11. Thorninmyside

    Moving ahead but avoiding cultural faux paus

    I'm stopping into Bangkok next month and have made plans to catch up with a gorgeous 9 I found on Instagram late last year and later Facebook. She has shown some signs of interest despite the common cards to the chest approach of good Thai girls, has thrown me a possible **** test, and has...
  12. Thorninmyside

    Sh!t test, low IL, or genuine confusion?

    Yesterday I hit on a girl I already knew, who just left a guy after finding out she was one of a few things he had going on, and after setting up a date I got a text that reads like this: "Don't book it just yet. I really WANT to see you, but I CAN'T see you atm, I don't mean that in a bad...
  13. Thorninmyside

    Would you seek revenge if it fell in your lap?

    Found out my ex SO's new guy is chatting up other girls on facebook and I have screen shots to prove it. If you were me, would you ruin it for this dude by passing the info on? He did work on my fiancee after all and I feel that returning the favour would be fair to say the least. I know a lot...
  14. Thorninmyside

    Getting LDR to invest in relationship

    Recently I had a LDR end when my SO went back to a previous LDR. Huge surprise as IL was extreme, but it occurred to me that I've been the one investing most in the relationship. Total chump move on my part. It occurred to me today that the the edge that the other dude had was investment...
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