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    Just met a neighbor in my apartment, how to proceed?

    So, lately I've been a bit off in my own world, the other day I'm waiting for the elevator and I see this girl come through the door. We don't say anything at first, but then when we get into the elevator, she spots my shaker cup and attire and goes "Just getting back from the gym?" Then we...
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    Legitimate question on dating these days...

    To me, Tinder and Bumble dry up super quick in my home state. When I go out of state for work, I'll have bumble and tinder downloaded just to meet new people or get recommendations for places. Nothing has transpired on either app since 2019, where I had previous success. It's a bit odd...
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    Feeling like things are more about luck these days...

    Or the lack there of. I'm 37, and it kind of feels like certain things in life are scarce... and I'm not sure if this is normal? I should preface that my business life is exceptional, it's bountiful, and it's abundant, I stay busy, have a ton of spending money for things that I want to buy...
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    Front desk girl at gym wants a nickname...

    So I'm pretty frequent to one particular gym and sometimes just say hi to the usual front end staff. Sometimes throw in a nickname just to brighten their day. Today I walked in and saw the two guys I usually see and said "Hey stud 1 and stud 2" And then a girl at the desk goes "And stud 3" --...
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    Women offering a hand shake?

    I finally got the cojones to talk to a girl I've been noticing in the gym. I made a sly joke about her being late to the gym as I was leaving and she responded "Sorry I was sleeping" So the next day at the gym I see her and I'm like "Oh hey you showed up early" Which lead to a small...
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    Odd behavior from a friend's new lady...

    I'm at the bar last night to see an old time friend, and one of my other friends was there with a new lady. Waved to him, and then talked to the other friend I hadn't seen in a while. Gradually making my rounds around I end up with him and notice he's got a new lady with him, but this is...
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    Does this girl like or have an interest in me?

    Let me first start off by saying the gym is my mecca, I do not **** where I eat. I come to work out, turn my mind off and leave -- that's it. That being said, I had been noticing a new trainer at my local gym with an incredible butt -- and she's young which is a deadly combo for me cus I chase...
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    Bank tellers, how do you know if they're flirty, and how to get their number?

    Every time I head to the bank to make a deposit thru the drive thru, I tend to notice one particular teller, who kind of makes eyes at me. Earlier today I went to the bank, and an older lady was there, she asked me how business was going for me, and I saw the other tell walk up. And then stood...
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    Is she still attracted but has to deattach?

    A former FWB of mine is now engaged, but we still keep in touch through text, snapchat, instagram every so often. I've been more than respectful with keeping my distance and respecting her fiancee. She was in a play earlier today, and I attended because I support her arts (as she supports my...
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    Saw a former FWB at a wedding today...

    I'm a wedding photographer and photographed a friend's wedding today. One of the wedding guests in attendance was a former FWB, a pretty consistent FWB -- last time I saw her was back in March or so I think... no bad blood. She has a boyfriend now, and throughout the wedding neither of us made...
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    Odd behavior from next door neighbor...

    I live in an apt and finally got around to meeting my neighbor, basically I'm non chalant and laid back and eventually I'd probably introduce myself. I've talked to my neighbor a few times out on her patio (next door neighbors) -- eventually fixed a small thing for her in her apt, and invited...
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    Hook up testing me?

    Matched with a girl on Tinder a few weeks ago, threw it all out on the table, said I was DTF. Comes over to my place drunk, we hook up and then again in the morning. Last week hooked up Wed & Thursday night, then had her kids so she couldn't. Snaps me this morning says that she needed coffee...
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    Ex FWB trying to "maintain friendship"

    Cliffs: Girl I used to hook up with eventually met a new guy, started dating him and claims he's her boyfriend now. She's been seeing him a few months. So I don't make it a priority to talk to her or text first, just checking my imessage and see that it was over 6 days ago that she texted me...
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    Previous FWB still coming in and out

    PREFACE: About a month ago, things came to an end, because she met someone else -- slept with her one last time. Probably went... 5/6 days without talking to her this past week (due to new interest, texting someone) We ended up having a conversation last night and found out that the reason she...
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    FWB is over, I need all the advice on what to do next.

    2 months of hooking up, never any staying over. Hanging out with one another before sex, tons of cuddling afterwards, things like sharing music with one another. Last Thursday, saw her the last time, she hugs, kisses me and I tell her a few things that lead to her crying, kissed her one last...
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    Turned the tables on the dumper last night

    6 weeks without seeing her or sex, should have been obvious, but I always give people the benefit of the doubt when it comes to being out of a nearly 4 year relationship. I went over to my FWB's apartment for the last time tonight, during after sex cuddling/kisses, she asks "When's the last...
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    FWB acting weird, but still talks to me...

    I've been in an FWB with someone for about a month, and the sex has been fantastic. There's been cuddling on her couch, passionate kisses and hugs before I leave, sometimes long hugs where she exhales. Tells me she loves kissing me, and loves the affection shown to her. She's been out of a 4...
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    Not sure if personal trainer at gym is interested...

    Long story short, I've been single for almost 2 years now, never really been interested in dating, more so just into myself and being the best version of me. Of course with this, I'm completely oblivious/not aware of the "obvious signs" from women, as like I said, just into myself. I joined a...
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    Ex girlfriend making her presence known?

    6 months ago, I got dumped. She dumped me. Since then I joined a gym (I go 3x a week and have got more serious about it), I've been hanging out with good friends and have been focusing back on my work. Lately I've been seeing my ex in public, and there are some questionable things that...
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    Got a call from the ex an hour ago...

    After about 2 weeks of not seeing each other, and no contact... I just got a call about an hour ago from my ex, I picked up, said hello, and all I could hear was background talking. After a few seconds, I hung up and sent a text saying "Not sure you mean to call me..." Question is, was this a...
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