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I've noticed a bit of a trend when looking at my dating history. There is a particular type of date that I always screw up. Generally what happens is that as early as the first date I am getting a lot of IOIs and it is obvious there is a lot of sexual tension and both of us are a bit...

I'm very lazy about doing cardio. Love doing weights. But always finding an excuse to skip my morning jog and any longer than twenty minutes and im bored out of my mind even with the best music etc. I watch a lot of TV so it occurred to me that if I got a spin bike or something and parked it...

I was reading a Pook post where he adds thirty pounds of muscle and goes from dating average looking girls to dating hotties. OK it is a nice story and Pook is prone to exaggeration and embellishment. But from what I gather he was good looking to begin with and it was being underweight that was...

I've been eating way too many ready meals, junk food, sandwiches and restaurant meals and it is hurting my health and my budget. But cooking is really not something I enjoy and I have to eat a lot of meals on the go. Also I am really not a morning person so breakfast is a particularly tough meal...

This is a scenario that has come up quite a few times as in London people are coming and going and the foreign girls are often visiting home. Anyway how the situation usually goes you are in the early stages of dating and it is not official and neither party is totally sure how they feel...

Something I read from Doc Love a while ago is to give the girl the chance to break the physical touch barrier first because it is a good sign she is interested. Furthermore it does not have to be blatant, many times it will seem accidental, but because girls are very aware of their bodies, she...

Went on a date with this girl. East European, tall and leggy, just my type. Took her to a Latin gig in a blues bar. She was quite passive but smiling and did not seem to mind when I put my hand round her waist or played with her hair. She also asked me if I wanted to dance and was all smiles...

As we all know contraception is not 100% and increasingly girls seem to be put off pills and injections because of the links with breast cancer and other side effects (can't really say I blame them). Ive seen quite a few acquaintances who even using condoms accidentally knocked girls up and get...

A friend showed me the free e-book Paul Janka wrote on meeting girls during the day in New York. He stops them in the street and has a one minute conversation then goes for the number. This sounds amazing but coming from London I am very much schooled in a "Don't talk to strangers outside of...

Social drinking is commonly accepted and being teetotal usually gets frowned upon. The government is always making out that there is nothing wrong with a few drinks. But I was reading a piece by a doctor saying he didn't drink and he believed that it was the cumulative effects of alcohol...

I turned 26 yesterday. According to this site I am a Mature Man. But I certainly do not feel like one. I had a pretty miserable teenage and college years. No girls. No friends. So since graduating Ive devoted most of my time to trying to recreate those lost years and have fun, hook up...

I recently had a bust up with my girlfriend. She had a haircut and I was teasing her about it and she got really upset and said I don't appreciate her and am just insulting and broke up with me on the spot. We have a pretty volatile relationship. One of us gets angry, breaks up with the...

Ive been chatting online recently to this girl. She is in her late 20s like me. She is really successful in her career, already a manager. She seems to have an active social life with lots of friends and in her words "doesn't need a man". She complained that men tend to be either too...

I was on a business trip this week and my girlfriend asked if she could go to a house party. I said "Sure" and didn't think anything about it. Around midnight she calls me in tears and said she loves me and I am an angel. I say "What is the matter?" She said "I hate parties". I said "What...

Something you see in many cultures is this double standard where men try to sleep with as many women as possible and have no qualms of cheating on their girlfriends/wives. But want to marry a girl who is as sexually inexperienced as possible (virgins in many traditional cultures) and are...

I've read the nomarriage.com thread and I agree with the sentiments. Modern marriage in a western society has little to recommend it. With a one in two divorce rate men face the prospect of alienation from their children and financial ruin. Even the marriages that do "work" usually involve some...

Ever since being a kid I always used to prefer my own company: reading, playing piano, writing stories etc. At school and college it was pretty much impossible to avoid some degree of social contact so I had plenty of acquaintances and that made up for not having any close friends. Since...

I've had a bad run of first dates lately. So I was thinking of an alternative approach using a first date as a priming date: just coffee and conversation for up to an hour. I like the idea in theory. In general I pick up girls during the day in cafes, galleries, etc. or meet them online-so...

I hit up a girl I met a while ago. Turns out she had a boyfriend. I saw pictures of the boyfriend and he is really homely. She is a sexy, model good looking girl. I asked her what she saw in him. She replied "he works hard to keep me happy". My immediate reaction to think to myself: that...

I've been playing a field a fair bit and had my fair share of pregnancy scares and I do not want the hassle. I also like really cheap women and I dread to think about the kind of kids Id produce with them, worst case scenario. I have no desire for kids. I like to spend my money on myself and...