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  1. sph21

    How to come back,is this a test???

    It's not a test. It's clear that she doesn't want you. Stop overthink this situation. Don't be too nice (over text) next time with other girls. Limit your emoji usage. If she uses lots of emoji, then you reciprocate with an emoji or two.
  2. sph21

    What to do?

    Definitely do what stringpuller wrote. Don't try to win her over text. You were putting too much efforts over text messages. Ask her out. And when you go out with her, your main purpose is to have fun together and to learn more about each other. Do not be defensive and don't try to attack her...
  3. sph21

    Critique this spot: 1st OLD

    You should end the date when things were doing great. You'd want to let her think of you while you're away. When she starts asking about something negative such as, "What do you dislike more about this city", you might want to deflect it by saying, "I can't think of any on top of my head", and...
  4. sph21

    How Often Are You Approached/Stared At/Receive IOI's?

    In my country, it's still mandated to wear masks whenever we go outside. It's okay to take our masks off when eating/ drinking indoor. So, it's hard to spot any IOI's. I remember one day in 2021 I took my buddy to a nice indoor ice cream shop in another city. In it, most employees are girls...
  5. sph21

    What went wrong ??

    I agree with PWR63. OP, I believe you were too rational. I don't blame you for that. Most of us had been there. Women are moved by emotios; not logic. When a woman tells you her problem(s), most often, she just want you to really listen to her and feel what she's feeling. Don't try to solve...
  6. sph21

    Finally Discovered Why I don't get Second Dates

    What I learned these past few months: Asking for a date through text messages... Her reply: I'm busy Doesn't always mean that she's not interested. Asking for a date through text messages... Her reply: (leaving it on read and not replying back) Doesn't always mean that she is not...
  7. sph21

    How was everyone raised on here?

    It was hard for me. My father and mother wasn't around mentally. They were busy making money. This condition turned me to be socially awkward and shy. As I entered 6th grade of elementary school, my sister was borned. My father wanted a daughter for a long time and now he got what he wanted...
  8. sph21

    In bit of a situation with flatmate and in need of some advice.

    You miss understood what I wrote. I didn't say that you were blowing her off. By going too slow, you'll risk of her feeling rejected with your lack of actions. I'm trying to help you by not making the same mistake as I did. I don't have any ill intention. English is not my native...
  9. sph21

    In bit of a situation with flatmate and in need of some advice.

    Moving as quickly as possible is equivalent to courageous and bold. Think of it from her perspective: She was giving you all the signals that she's interested in you. She wants you to take a courageous leap and to escalate the relationship to next level. When you're taking it slowly, she'll...
  10. sph21

    Plate I'm spinning is growing more suspicious

    You're too predictable. She's straight forward and to the point according to female's logic. What she really meant by those sentences is that you only have the courage to talk to her when you're drunk. This is not something that you want to impress on girls.
  11. sph21

    No Social Circle, What Are My Options?

    Why Indonesia?
  12. sph21

    Not having sex with a woman because of long friendship

    Don't let your condition prevent you from enjoying the joy of living. If she wants you, then go for it.
  13. sph21

    Further Brainwashing of Society by Feminists...

    So, we're supposed to accept whales as our women? No thanks. I'd rather be single and alone
  14. sph21

    Once again the forum was right.....

    Yeah. Trusting my guts has saved me many times from wasting my time for unworthy chicks.
  15. sph21

    Dating your neighbor?

    I dated my neighbour once. It ended super bad.
  16. sph21

    Whats with my wife?

    If she hates you during pregnancy, then it's normal. Your guts is right. https://www.romper.com/p/is-it-normal-to-hate-your-partner-during-pregnancy-experts-weigh-in-77181
  17. sph21

    There Is NO Such Thing as A Busy Woman

    Women can get busy. They are people just like us. Women are more prone to many sickness/illness too. This is why how long her reply is not a good indicator of how much she's interested in us. What matter is how submissive she is to us.
  18. sph21

    27 and I’ve never dated, don’t have any friends either

    You're assuming too much. I was jobless but I could get a girlfriend or two. Your excuses is what stopping you from getting what you want. If you really want to get something, then you must do whatever is needed to achieve that. Confidence attract women. If you're not proud with what you...
  19. sph21

    What would you do here?

    You can do what women always do when they're not interested by not replying. Just ignore her and move on.
  20. sph21

    Help interpreting her actions?

    Race is not a problem. As David DeAngelo always says, attraction is not a choice. If she's attracted to you, she won't be able to resist it. It's true what other members had written. She's trying to get your attention by being near you. It's an absolute sure sign that a girl is attracted to...
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