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  1. Lotus Effect

    Help on killing the nice guy - How to man up?

    Hey guys, after long days of thinking it finally hit me. I’ve became a nice guy. I wasn’t, I was rebellious and carefree. some backstory: I dated a chick for five years, and she took my balls away. The breakup happened Jan/22. 2022 was hands down the worst year of my life, but by Sep/22...
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    Random: Ted Lasso is based on the Book of Pook

    Well, the title says it all. I jsut finished watching the show, and despite a lot o feminism being thrown left and right, especially at the last (3rd) season, the whole show, especially the first season, just pretty much throw all the fifteen lessons. They seriously go up onto the point of...
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    Should I apologize a former lover for pumping and dumping? (I have no feelings for her)

    Hi guys. As the title says, should I do it? backstory Met this chick Adri in early February, and kept a mini relationship with her up until end of March. in the beginning I kind displayed some affection towards her, strung her along for the time being, but then I’ve begun to lose attraction...
  4. Lotus Effect

    On Being Friends: Different perspective, from different framings

    Hey guys, Disclaimer: - - - - - - - - - - - - I know my way around chicks, but, Recently I have some life changing events, that got me into a completely different position from where I was before, confort wise. If some of you followed my latest posts, earlier this year I've met with my...
  5. Lotus Effect

    Here we go again (Or how do I always end up at the same place)

    Hi guys, ---Disclaimer: This post is NOT seeking help on how to get a girl back. This post is seeking help on how to get MYSELF back--- Backstory: Had one-itis for this Carla girl back 2001 (22 years ago). Got over her in 2009, and then got her in 2010 (No s&x) and again in 2014(Again no...
  6. Lotus Effect

    Gone cold

    Hey guys I’m having a hard time figuring this one out. had a great time with a chick from the past. she came to Brazil, we stayed together throughout her whole stay. Mid April. About 15 days. She got amazed then she went back to Portugal no strings attached she asked me to go there. So...
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    I don’t now how to act with my ex that keeps coming back

    Hey guys I’ll try to be concise. a month ago she dumped me I asked for us to try, but she declined so I did the right thing and walked away. she texted me one week later saying let’s talk I went she said she loved and missed me and all that stuff. And then I asked: ‘alright, wanna get...
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    Help! Awkward situation: Job interview in my Ex's company!! What should I do?

    Hey guys. This is a quick one. I have a job interview in about an hour at the same company that one of my exes work. She is financial assistant over there, so I might not run into her. But if I do? What to do!? Backstory: Dated for about 6 months. Then I got bored and droped from the...
  9. Lotus Effect

    Why does Good news always come with Bad ones?

    Hey guys! I have an awesome good news. At least for me, or for anyone else that know who the F am I, and what is my backstory. Anyway, I am finally over my ex! :cheer: After 11 months of NC, and a year and 4 months of the breakup, I've begun to like another woman. This is great...
  10. Lotus Effect

    F*ck this sh!t: Stop talking/Start doing Journal by Lotus

    Let's start from where it should be... It has been over a year since I've been dumped. And it is has been almost a year since I've joined SoSuave. It took me a while to accept the fact that she was just another girl. In fact, I'm still trying to accept. I keep fooling myself with the idea...
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    Tinder Surfing - Ran into my Ex (Comments)

    Hey guys! This just happened right now, and I need to share this with you guys. Not that anything will change at all. Just like to share that I was browsing "meat" and I've saw her. The one who got me here in the first place about a year ago! It was the first time I saw her image in...
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    Went full blown retard'o AFC! (A year later rant...)

    Hey guys! I'm feeling really off these days. Ever since I've heard news from the ex, all those past feelings woken up again. For you who don't know what I'm talking about, she ramdomly met a friend of mine last week, they talked a bit, she asked about me, then she left... Only to return a...
  13. Lotus Effect

    One year later - The report (aka Why I'm Back!)

    Hey guys! Long time no see heh!bWell, and there is a reason why is this. I've got better. That is it. Plain and simple! And so there was not much of a need to come back here that often. Although the one year anniversary of No Contact is yet to come, I'm here celebrating the Break up...
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    Want to fully grasp the Blue Pill? TED Talk: How Movies teach Manhood (Mangina Alert)

    There ain't much to say! After watching this clip that people have been spreading all over facebook I can only say that we men, as a species, are endangered! I don't know if you guys had the chance of watching this, but this is one of the saddest examples on how many man are blindfolded to...
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    Feeling Sad, Depressed or Unworthy: Lotus' Keys to Happiness and Self Love!

    Hey guys, due to recent threads from dudes who are not very happy with theirselfs, I've decided to share my 2 cents on it! This was an answer I've given a dude on his thread, and since it is, well, very complete, and it is what I actually did in order to become a happy man and what I trully...
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    How to Handle a Flake For Dummies: The Fool Proof, 4 Steps Guide!

    Hello boys and girls. Every now and then when you log onto this website you come across a dude asking on how to deal with this particular girl, that flaked on him. This said dude, decides to make a post, because he has this idea in his head that with said girl or situation, general rules...
  17. Lotus Effect

    GFTOW (Go F*ck Ten Other Women) is really freeing!

    It is 3AM and I just f*cked the 7th chick! Just wanted to share this with you guys! Not much into the details! Just happy I'm on my way to the 8th now, and there is only 3 more to "complete" the challenge! It is the the 7th since I decided to get over the cold hearted ex, that was in...
  18. Lotus Effect

    Got Dumped? Why Breaking up is the BEST SH*T that can Ever happen in your Life!

    Hey Guys!! Long time no see huh? So anyway, this is going to be a long and most likely harsh post, but I'm guessing it maybe helpfull, so cope with me! First of all, I just want you guys to know that I'm only writing this because I've been reading the last posts on the NC thread, and they...
  19. Lotus Effect

    You're only taking Bullsh*t 'cause you Lack an Abundance Mindset *Extra: Pain = Fuel*

    Hey guys! It has been a while since I don't post here, and the main reason is because I slacked. The holidays came over, and going to the beach with no sole purpose but to party kind of killed the flame I had inside of me. I'm still not sure if I just got of my day to day routine and so the...
  20. Lotus Effect

    Flakiness: How to proceed? And how much I hate it! (No One-itis BS!!!)

    Flakiness: How to proceed? And how much I hate it *UPDATE* B*tch flaked again > NEXT Hey guys! Just to get things straight, this is not a case of One-itis, before anyone else come here and tell me to spin plates, and GFTOW! I just want to know how can I proceed with a girl who flaked on...
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