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Not seriously but in fun. Have you ever? Would you? And what was the end result?

It's been an interesting last year or so. It was around this time last year where the same occurred as I knuckled down on my studies. While others passed out and had 'the time of their lives' I'd ended up writing down the plans for my year and luckily made it through this year. Spent this...

Yesterday I went for a check up that I have been putting off for a while. Hey, why do I need to? I'm keeping on top of my study, my body has never been better, I am starting to get some local recognition for my hobbies and brushing off girls throwing themselves at me as I enjoy a large social...

Tips guys? He's been friend zoned and obsessed with this HB for a year or so now but the doors still closed on him. Bloke doesn't like me much because I will chat to anyone and have funand this girl responds lots. Lately I've noticed if I'm at a social gathering and if we strike up a...

Recently: bad run with woman and watching female friends cheat on their boyfriends have left a sour taste in woman in me. Set some goals over the summer holidays I want to achieve; ambitions of getting a super ripped body, excelling at my hobbies etc. Basically my thought is if I don't love...

With the end of study I've hit the gym hard. My program essentially is 1 day upper and next day lower then a rest and repeat. Throughout, I'm lifting my max without losing form. Nutrition wise, I'm eating A LOT of calories - avoiding junk food but although I let myself have the occasional treat...

Social game; where you've made a good grounding of yourself with a good core group of male friends. Yet you're not really part of them i.e. not part of their group chat groups and the likes but you're still invited to social events and a significant voice in the group. Part of that social group...

I am hitting a critical period of study; the hardest/ peak of my degree where I need to put my priorities right and that is into study. I know my good years are to come. At the same time, I messed up a first date and am bordering slight oneitis due to the amount of time I am spending alone to...

As you guys know, I've been out of the game a bit so rusty skills need some help from you wise lot haha. By no means do I lack confidence. I'm doing alright for the party night out hook ups; it's just everything else I am not sure with. I just do not know how to go abouts this situation. Were it...

I've been wanting to give back to this site that has given me so much. I am not sure how'd best to do it because I'm no perfect DJ but to date I hope to outline how my journey has gone for others starting out to see and give another insight to the many of the roads to success. You may have heard...

Hey guys, sorry have not visited this site in a while. Things have been good as I try to live my DJ life. Everythings going smooth. Shout out to all those getting their life sorted, it's a great feeling to raise eye brows when you're out and about and have woman mentally undressing you for once...

It's been about two weeks since I started to really throw myself into my fitness and diet. Basically I'm sitting at about 2 hrs give or take each day of pretty intense workouts - gym, running, swimming, sports, hobbies etc on top of the mental stimulation that is a hard medical related degree...

Bit of self reflection for the night... I've watched a friend over this last year and am trying to figure out if how he is going. On a side note, happy to take bets from the SS crew to see where this goes. He's your typical college football jock type bloke thats fallen head over heels for a...

'I like you, but not in that way' and the typical talk that followed was what I got as all guys get in this situation. I did what was taught on here and have been on NC for a couple weeks. In this time, I've really lifted my game in regards to the gym, study, sports etc and I'm feeling...

Media blasts the adage we get told to never change who we are. Open question. What are your thoughts? Even after stumbling upon this site have you found yourself more or less still the same person? Maybe if you have changed, have you found yourself that many times reverting back to your old self...

Bear with me guys. She turned me down before break and that was the last chick in a string of late that made me reassess myself. I realised I may have all the confidence in the world but elsewhere, I was lacking. So over the holidays, I've really hit the gym, bulked up, increased my drive in...

I think it comes from my personality and who I am. I am too carefree, wishy washy and laid back. I lack that aggression and decisiveness you see in people who are more competitive and driven. Anyone know how I can work on this? I know it is a mindset thing but I continue to struggle to warp my...

I've been out of pick up for a while guys so bear with me. I work in a shop front on a busy street so we get lots of customers coming through. Today, I had a customer compliment me on my glasses and I did not know how to reply so I made up some crap. How would you guys go about this scenario...

Lately I've been really upping my self-improvement regime and with the coming of winter have felt more comfortable being less social. Every weekend I find myself invited to parties but I am finding myself more and more incline to relax at home; especially having finished a month internship at a...

If a HB is being cosy - grabbing you, hugging you; but avoids looking at your face and eye contact, how do you get around this if you are trying to go for the kiss close? Or don't you because it is a sign she is not interested?