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I've had lots of women in my life over the years but nothing that has left an impact like this one. It didn't even last long. A six month whirlwind in early 2018. A situation where you meet someone and instantly click. But she was fiercely hot and cold. Disappeared twice without explanation...

Last January to June I was hanging out with this girl, we really clicked but it was six months of pretty extreme hot and cold. She would make bold statements like "I've never felt like this about a guy before" while keeping me at arms length with excuses like "been single so long don't know if I...

Last January to June I was hanging out with this girl, we really clicked but it was six months of pretty extreme hot and cold. She would make bold statements like "I've never felt like this about another guy before" but kept me at arms length with excuses like "been single so long don't know if...

Met this girl in January. We really clicked and had fun but she blew hot and cold much of the time. Claimed to be a late 20's virgin wanting to take things slow so I was respectful and attributed that to her reserved/conflicted behavior. We saw each other 15-20 times total. She went cold...

Met this girl back in January. We really clicked and had fun together, plus I was super attracted to her, but she was hot and cold, mixed messages, hard to read, etc. She disappeared without explanation for a few weeks in March-April. Crawled back again and we danced around the idea of a...

I normally wouldn't but this situation might be different? Been hanging out with this girl for about 3-4 months. We click great and have loads of fun together but she resisted getting too physical saying she moves slow, doesn't like to be touched, and hasn't been with someone in a long time. I...

I got this girl's number last weekend. Early 30's. We clicked well over text. It escalated to sexting and talking dirty for the last couple nights leading up to our date. We went out Thursday. Within 10 minutes she had moved to the seat next to me in our booth and we were touching, kissing and...

So I feel like I'm getting into a bad spot that's not unhealthy. I've been dating this girl the past few months. I'm a pretty seasoned dater but that first date we clicked like I haven't experienced in years. Our following dates retained the same connection. Fun playful texts and phone calls...

Dated this girl for two years, we broke up last fall due to lack of commitment on my part - but we have remained close - with her calling everyday like when we were dating. We obviously still have feelings and there has always been "fix our relationship" talk and undertones to our conversations...

So let's say you've been with a girl for a long time, established a comfortable pattern of communications, she calls you daily, say once in the afternoon and maybe once in the evening before bed. Her interest level starts to fluctuate, not as interested in seeing you as often, not quite as...

Two year relationship ended a month ago, as things weren't progressing fast enough for her. Admittingly she did give me plenty of warnings and chances. She still called several times per day like nothing had changed, always wanted to know my whereabouts and if I was talking to other girls, like...

So my 2 year LTR ended last Thursday, basically on our 2 year anniversary, because the relationship wasn't progressing fast enough for her (she's 31, enough said). Said she promised herself to end it if things hadn't improved by that point. We've been on borrowed time over this for the past six...

I'm reflecting back on my 17 month relationship that ended a week ago, and while I think BPD gets thrown around too much, this is a good candidate: The first 6-8 months were bliss; she moved fast right out of the gate but treated me amazing. Smothered me with positive attention, gifts...