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    Wise Up-men And Women Are Not That Different

    Ever since I joined this site some 5 years ago, I noticed a common misperception by many, especially the newbies, that somehow women are totally alien beings apart from us that require a PHD to understand or some kind of an advanced deciphering machine to decode their behavior. Even the great...
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    From High IL to low IL-lessons learned

    Well, I called this girl this afternoon who showed all the signs that she was interested in me, i,e, proximity, puppy dog eye contact, personal questions, etc... I got the voice mail and no return call, for the second time. I suspect she screening her calls and does not want to hear from me...
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    When She Wants To Know Your Age

    I have gotten the how old are you question on various occassions soon after meeting women including several I have dated. I recently met a very attractive girl, who following the prevuious pattern, asked me the same thing after knowing her for only 30 minutes, which begs the question: Why...
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    Girl Remembers Everything-sign Of High Il?

    I have been dating this girl who seems like the shy reserve type. Therefore it has been hard gauging her IL. For those who know my posts, I am a big fan of Anti-Dump who stresses the need to determine a girls IL before expending valuable time and energy on her. The one positive is she...
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    Well My Ex Just Dropped A Bomb

    Well not literally. But, to make a long story short, my ex gf called me last week and informed me that she had just had a baby boy from a relationship she had with some guy she was living with for sometime and whom she met about a year after I broke it off with her. She dumped the guy back...
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    Talked Sexual, She Got Horny And We Went To My House...

    If you really want to get a women horny, forget your inhibitions and talk to her like she is your best friend especially concerning the subject of sex. For instance, if the subject of sex comes along, don't be afraid to tell her your intimate secrets like how many times you wack off a week or...
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    Very Discouraged-cant Seem To Find Quality Women

    I have been feeling down lately with regard to my love life. I have reached a point in my life where I just want to find a good quality woman as opposed to fycking anything that comes my way. The problem is it seems, at least where I live, that all the good stuff is taken or cant seem to...
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    When She Avoids Contact On Nights And Weekends

    What if a girl you are dealing with seems just fine in calling you or responding to your calls except at night and during the weekends? I suspect either: A) She is dating someone else/has a BF B) Playing mind games C) Plain not interested Currently applies to me even though the girl...
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    Back again...Interested in knowing what is up with this chick...(opinions welcomed)

    Wow, the last time I was here was like 3 or 4 years ago. Been very busy in the last several years, but out of curiosity, I decided to come here and revisit. Some of my favorite posters are still here why others have long gone it seems. Well anyway, while I am here I need some opinions...
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    Do chicks get pissed if you don't call within X days?

    There has been much discussion of when to call a girl and the general consensus is that you should call within 3 days of getting her number. However, this ties in on how that effects a girl's overall interest level and whether waiting beyond the norm will get her upset to the point that she...
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    What if she insists on paying? good or bad sign

    Last night I went out on a first date with some chick I met last week. What threw me off is that she insisted on paying for her drinks, not that it is unusual. The thing is most girls I have gone out with, even the ones that proved to have high IL, let me pay when I invite them out. I...
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    Is this AFC behavior or a mark of a true DJ

    I was wondering whether it is AFC or DJ behavior when you see a girl who you have gone out with but you know or suspect is just an attention wh0re and ignore her. Background: Last Saturday, I went out to a club and saw this girl I briefly dated who I have not seen in over a year. This girl...
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    Need a piece of advice fellows

    To make the long story short, there is this woman that I used to flirt with way back when I was married. I sensed that there was mutual attraction but because I was married and because she is principled, we never acted on it. That was like 4 years ago. Fast forward. Well for the last...
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    Why do women at clubs go to the bathroom so much?

    I think this has been posted before, but nonetheless I would like responses. I have noticed that when I go out on dates or go to clubs, some women have to go to the restroom like every 15 minutes. This especially true when she is with other women. The following are reasons I can think of...
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    Attention Wh0re or just insecure?

    I have known this particular girl for about 5 months and dated her maybe 5 times. She is a singlemother (red flag #1). She has 2 kids from different fathers (red flag #2). I met her at a club (red flag #3). She seems to be the party girl type, usually going out with her slutty friends to...
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    Party girls who think they are good girls: who are they kidding?

    I have been amused lately at some of the girls I have been dealing with and maybe you can shed light on it. They are girls that you know are sluts/party girls but try to portay a different image when they see/talk to you. For instance there is this girl/7.5 who I have been dating off and on...
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    How Do You Deal With C*ck Blocking Family Members?

    I don't know if any one here has dealt with this situation, but here it is: This past Saturday, I went solo to a club and ended up meeting this really sexy and pretty young Colombian chick. The problem is that she was with her brother and some uncle according to her. I ended up dancing with...
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    Need advise on how to deal with girl I met on the internet. Important.

    For the last two years or so, I have been talking to this girl on and off that I met in an internet chat room. She lives in New Jersey and I live in Florida. I have never met her in person, but she really sounded sexy on the phone. Well, the problem is that she has fallen in love me or so she...
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    She says she cums upon hearing my voice

    This old fyck buddy whom I have not seen for a while confessed to me that she gets so turned on by my voice when I talk that she can orgasm without any physical stimulation. I have been told that I have a sexy voice, but can women actually reach climax just by hearing a man's voice?
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    Convinced That Being A Challenge Will Backfire

    After being dumped twice in the last month by HB's who've shown high IL, I am convinved that playing the challenge card, acting aloof, etc. and other tricks we are taught here can have adverse effects. This is the pattern that has emerged: HB #1: I meet the girl. She shows high interest...
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