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  1. J

    Is she too emotionally damaged to date right now or was it more than that?

    Met on a dating app (both in our mid 30's) and went on what I can only describe briefly as a very nice first (coffee) date. For the full 2.5 hours she was fun, friendly, mature, attractive and all the good stuff that I'm looking for at this point in my life. The only "red flag" that was obvious...
  2. J

    Is she not into ME or just not into dating?

    38 here went out with an attractive 37 yr old woman last week and in my honest opinion we had a kick ass time. Definitely one of the few dates in recent memory where the convo flowed well and you could sense solid chemistry. The problem however is that I picked up a bit of an odd vibe from her...
  3. J

    Anyone ever change her mind after she blew you off?

    I'm talking specifically in the early stages of dating. First couple of dates. Just curious if anyone has any stories. Like maybe she seemed a bit uncertain when she blew you off or she told you something about you that made her think you guys weren't a great match, but after doing some leg work...
  4. J

    Low Interest or Just Weird? You decide

    Just following up on a plate I've been working with over the last month or so. Went out several times already, however I've always gone to her. She lives 45 minutes away from me. Due to the pandemic she's nervous about taking public transportation and meeting me what would be halfway in the...
  5. J

    When She Never Asks You Out

    Been dating this chick for over a month now. Been on 5 good dates. She's 29 and a tad inexperienced in my opinion. Something that's really started to get to me though now that we're on the horizon of the 6th date (sex likely coming very soon but she's super conservative with it) is what seems...
  6. J

    Hair Systems

    For all you thinning/bald guys out there I'm curious what your take on them are. Of course I'm not talking about circa 1980's hairpieces here but instead the modern day hair "systems" that look completely realistic that actors also wear for appearances. You may have seen videos on YouTube...
  7. J

    Should I Ask Her Out One Last Time?

    We hit it off on Okcupid, talked for a good bit before the date, and the date itself went very well, so I thought. Afterwards I began sensing low interest and late responses. I kept it cool though and went in for a second date invite a couple days later. I asked for a specific day (a Thursday)...
  8. J

    How Badly Did I Screw This Up?

    Got a message from a girl on Match.com Saw she was a single mom and have always had zero interest in them aside from potential hit and quits. I quickly went the flirty route to try and feel her out, not directly mentioning sex, but calling her gorgeous, saying we can go back to my place for a...
  9. J

    When She's Still Friends with Her Ex on Social Media

    Long story short a girl who was casually dating me last year went back to her ex and now she's back in my life. We reconnected while out this past weekend with some friends and she has been sending me positive signals via text ever since. SHE suggested talking more sometime when we were out, and...
  10. J

    I Screwed Up?

    Dated a girl for a little over 3 months. Never official, although our online dating profiles were deleted after 2 months. Great sex. Great chemistry. Everything was beautiful. Then she left me for her ex of 2 years bc of history she said she needed to figure out. It was terrible. Then she texts...
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