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    Book suggestion for the Married Man?

    Thanks, Scaramouche. I couldn't find much of a preview of the book on Amazon, but it seemed suspiciously "blue bill" (along the lines of, "if couples just talk to each other about sex enough, and their respective needs, they'll always be happy"). Is that a misinterpretation?
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    Book suggestion for the Married Man?

    Gentlemen, A friend of mine is getting married in two months. He has, as far as I am aware, never been exposed to the manosphere or explicitly to any red pill ideas elsewhere. The good news is that his wife-to-be is from a very conservative part of the country, and seems to have been...
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    The Alpha way to handle a request for exclusivity?

    SgtSplacker, MrNiceGuy23: Thanks for the advice. It's good to have your guys's perspectives as well.
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    The Alpha way to handle a request for exclusivity?

    "You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Harry Wilmington again."
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    The Alpha way to handle a request for exclusivity?

    Harry, it's great to see you back here, just when I needed good counsel. Excellent advice! I'm going to try to follow this approach when the question inevitably comes.
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    The Alpha way to handle a request for exclusivity?

    Hi everyone, Things are going well with my favorite plate, and I suspect that fairly soon she's going to ask for us to be exclusive. I'm okay with this, but I want to handle this request properly when it comes. So what is the best way to do this? I certainly don't want to come across as...
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    Movies that unknowingly negatively affected you growing up

    And what movies show good examples of game, rather than indoctrinating us with ass-kissing? "As Good As It Gets" is brought up often, and seems like a good example, since Jack Nicholson doesn't have looks on his side. What others are out there? (How about examples of guys using good game...
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    Would it be weird? We're not blood-related or anything

    I concur with the others who say that it wouldn't be "weird" to bang her, but the problem comes afterwards: if you're seeing her every 2-3 months at family gatherings, then it will be awkward after you bang her. (It seems fairly rare for a guy to bang a girl, and then have things immediately be...
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    Style question: how small/tight is too small/tight?

    4north1side2, GotED?: Thanks. I feel like with size S, I'm dangerously close to the "wet t-shirt contest" category. Perhaps I'll just have to experiment with S and M sizes, and see how the responses differ. The jeans advice is something I hadn't really thought about, but I think I need to go...
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    Style question: how small/tight is too small/tight?

    Hi everyone, I've recently decided to invest in a refresh to my wardrobe. However, there's a lot of conflicting advice on the Internet about what I should or shouldn't do. Moreover, I don't have the option of going shopping with a girl who knows a lot about men's style. The main question...
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    Girl staying over on New Years Eve

    Nice! Sounds like you had to do basically zero work on the day. Would you care to give us a little bit of the back-story as to how you cultivated this one? You must have done something in your social circle beforehand to make her decide she wants your d*ck to ring in her New Year (or something).
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    Girl staying over on New Years Eve

    Seconded. OP, how'd it go?
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    Advice of a woman: point-by-point discussion

    I'll go first: Seems legit to me. As for paying, I prefer to pay for the first date (or maybe for drinks at the first place we go to), and then let the girl pay for the next. If she doesn't even offer to pay the second time out, that's a red flag. Again, seems good to me. Except I don't...
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    Advice of a woman: point-by-point discussion

    Over at Rollo's website, a commenter posted the following as an example of the kind of bad advice women give men: http://www.xojane.com/sex/how-to-ask-out-a-woman-if-you-really-like-her-and-also-how-to-f-the-s-out-of-her-brains I'm afraid most of the points actually seemed pretty decent to...
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    Roosh wrote: women pick bartenders over heart surgeons

    It might sound perverse, but it rings true. I know a Harvard MD (not a heart surgeon, but still a doctor at one of the best hospitals in the country) who is decent-looking, but has no game: he hasn't laid a single woman in the entire time I've known him. Every date he gets (typically from...
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    Tinder openers?

    Hey RememberMoi, That sounds decent; is it field-tested though? d0g
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    Tinder openers?

    I've tried out Tinder for the past month or so, but have not been getting a great response rate by sending out "Hey" or "Hi" with my matches. Considering that on Tinder, all you really have to go on is a few photographs, and maybe a sentence or two in the description, I figured there's not...
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    Frame it as a date or not?

    pkcowboy, you've articulated something that I've been thinking about ever since I started reading SS. Pre-SS, my usual method was this: after meeting a girl at some social event, or via friends, etc., I'd get either her number or her e-mail address, and I would contact her with a message like...
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    Accused of "manipulating" a girl -- how to deal with this?

    Thanks -- that's an option I didn't consider at all. Certainly it would have been better than what I did! It's pretty bold to just ignore the concerns of a girl who's feeling emotionally compromised, but I suppose I'll have to get used to it. It's such a knee-jerk reaction built into us from...
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    Accused of "manipulating" a girl -- how to deal with this?

    Are you sure about this? This sounds like playing with fire: she's already just accused me of being too smooth, and this line just seems like the epitome of smoothness.
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