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in a couple days i'm going to meet up with this chick that i met over the net. we're just going to lunch and then to this 4-story tall bookstore. we've emailed quite a few times and talked on the phone once. should i offer to pay for the lunch? i'm leaning towards splitting the bill...

there's this girl i was kind of seeing. her IL was SKY-HIGH for about a month. she would call multiple times a day, etc. we went out quite a few times. then, suddenly and unexplainably, her IL died. so, what did i do? i called her up today and said, "hey xxx hope your weekened is going...

i was seeing this girl for a while...things were going well. she was calling or texting me multiple times a day for a solid month. then suddenly she went cold on me. she hasn't contacted me in over a week now. so what should i do? write her off completely and move on, or call her up...

all right, in a previous post i talked about a girl that i asked out about a month ago. she said she wanted to but wasn't ready for the commitment yet. however, she showed high IL by calling me all the time and accepting dates. we hung out a lot. then suddenly she went cold on me for...

here's the situation: asked a girl out, she was trying to get over a past relationship--she didn't want to get hurt again because of past experiences. she said she was like half-way there but somehting was still holding her back. she just wanted to take it slow and see where it took us...

i've got a date tonight (first one) with a girl i've casually known for a few months. here's how the date came about: i asked her out for last weekend, but she was already busy and had to counter-offer for this weekend. that's fine. then early last week she said she wanted to talk about...

i'm going out on a first date with a girl this weekend. i wanted to do something fun, so i chose ice skating. afterwards, i was going to grab some ice cream. problem is that the ice skating rink and ice cream place have different times of operation and i would only be able to get ice...

before winter break i got together with this girl. we went out to dinner and she paid for me. the next day i left for home. she called and we talked a couple times over break. i got back from break and knew that i wanted to act on my gut feeling of asking her out-- your gut is nearly never...

there's a girl i hung out with a couple times before just before winter break. i felt like we were clicking pretty well before i left. we'll both be back in town for school this coming weekend. i'm ready to make a move on her so she knows exactly where i stand. should i: a) make a...

There are 2 girls that I'm currently interested in but I'm only going to be able to ask one of them out because they're friends with each other. So, I'm trying to gauge each of their interest in me. The first girl (Maggie) is 2 months removed from a two year relationship. She's hot, cool...

is it possible for a girl to not want to go out with you--by that i mean, she hasn't really considered it because she has no idea of your interest in her. but as soon as you show interest by asking her out, her mindset changes and she can now see you as someone she would date?? i know it's...

I went to a college 'formal' with this girl that i've been hanging out with a lot lately. We mainly study together among other things. At the dance of course there was A LOT of kino...some really good stuff on the dance floor and off. Afterwards i went back to her apartment for a little...

i think i finally figured out the crux of my ongoing problems with the ladies, and hopefully you guys, and gals, can help me out... i have absolutely no problem with interacting with people. generally, people like me...girls and guys. i have quite a few social circles i can hang in. i...

NOTHING! as many people here are so thoughtfully explained...here's there proof in the pudding: a girl i know just gave her number to 2 different guys in the past couple days and she promptly explained that "i would never, ever date either one of them, but i gave them my number". she was...

i'm sure a lot of you guys have been here, but this is my first time...here's the situation: i see this girl nearly every day. we've gone out plenty of times in a group-type setting. a couple times it was just me, her and another friend. we've even done some leisure activities together...

Is there anyway to increase the probablity of having the girl make the first move... here's the situation: i know this girl. we see each other often in a professional setting. she just recently aquired an AFC bf. but i can tell that there is the possibility of something there between...

here's the deal: i met this girl about a month ago. about one week before we met she started dating this dude. sucks, huh? the thing is that when we're together she is always using "me too" statements in regards to things i say, and she holds eye contact with a smile for a looong time...

what is up with this situation?? i am happy to say that i am not an AFC in any way, shape or form. so i've been talking to this girl lately and she is dating this dude. while we're talking and stuff she is telling me about the current guy she's dating and her most recent ex, and all the...

what is the most effective way to approach getting a girl with a 'friend'. as she said, they just started kinda seeing each other. from what she's said, he sounds like your typical afc. so, it's not like they're bf/gf. so, what are some good tips to show i'm interested while still being...

here's the deal... yeah, being obserative, inquiring, interested, nouning...they're all great ideas. my problem is that when i'm in a one-on-one convo, it just seems to die...and rather quickly. i use all those strategies, but they just seem to fall short. i don't really know what i can...