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    Did I blow it off? Need some advice

    How the situation should have gone when she first reached out to you: Her: I've been thinking about you, and was thinking we should meet up You: Honestly, I don't think that's a good idea - unless you're wanting to meet up at my place or yours for a post-date hook up, it's probably best not to...
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    Vasectomy, Has anyone had it?

    Got a vasectomy as a present to myself the day before my 32nd birthday. Best decision I ever made. I never wanted kids (and lived around enough of them to have experienced the job at hand), and at that point I already had a serious girlfriend, who was also okay with me not wanting to reproduce...
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    Does she like me and how can I ask her out?

    Put this in your head, and embed it to your memory: UNTIL YOU TAKE A GIRL OUT, YOU DON'T ACTUALLY LIKE HER - YOU ONLY THINK YOU DO. Stop automatically falling for these chicks BEFORE taking them out. You should actually lower your opinion of women prior to taking them out so you're more...
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    Lack of Experience

    Funny the responses here. I was a virgin until I was 23, and would openly tell women I was "saving myself." The result? Just about every woman that showed me attention was giving me the strongest signals in the world that they wanted to be the one to break me, like it would be a badge of honor...
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    How Jason Sudeikis won over Olivia Wilde (PUA Stuff)

    Just saw a video on my facebook feed where actress Olivia Wilde is on Howard Stern's show talking about how comedian Jason Sudeikis (of SNL fame) won her over... ...and, having listened to it, it definitely sounds like some PUA-type stuff. At the very least, the techniques he used go against...
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    Doesnt't want to date

    Listen to the words she's saying - "No, I'm not ready yet." On average, it takes a woman about 3 months of seeing you before she feels comfortable enough to make you the boyfriend. Why? She needs that amount of time to do a thorough investigation about you to see if the version of your self...
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    Sweet girl, suddenly turns cold

    Allow me to do an analysis for you: 1. You texting her the next day after each of these meetups to check on her? No bueno - you're not the boyfriend yet. This is something that, in her head, a guy she was in a relationship would do. You're not there yet, so it makes her feel like you're already...
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    Wants to be just friends. What should I say?

    Wow... this was such a great read (all 6 pages of it so far, lol), and a lot of good advice was given... OP: for future women, you need to make sure the women you're going after are (a) past a certain age, and (b) live close to you. To be honest, even with all the mistakes you made, as soon as...
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    Am i being led in a trap? Need some though love from you guys

    I love how dudes here contradict themselves as a way of making it look like they're not falling for an ex... yet they give themselves away every time. I can't begin to count how many times on this site I've seen a guy say the same damn exact sentence: "I'm over her, I don't want her anymore...
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    I need experts opinion on this chick and situation

    Right - and that's the point: you didn't see the big deal, which is why it was the beginning of her losing interest in you. It's small mistakes like this guys make that they don't realize contributes to a girl's dwindling feelings for you. It doesn't matter if she agreed to see you or not...
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    I need experts opinion on this chick and situation

    Honestly, guy: as soon as you said you saw her the next day, I knew this thing wasn't going to last...
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    Are women more attracted to you after sex ?

    Pheromones, people, pheromones. Women can smell them coming off of you right after sex. It doesn't have a strong smell like a perfume but it works just the same: you're reeking of it (both your own and the girl you just banged) and women already have a much more heightened sense of smell than...
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    Please explain the psychology behind not being needy for me!

    Here are a few points you need to remember: 1. Most men make the mistake of assuming a girl is ready to husband them up just because they slept together. This is not the case - just because she slept with you doesn't mean she wants you as the boyfriend yet. She may LIKE you, but not at a level...
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    Hey there! Wow, I posted those WAAAAAY back a few years ago, then ended up starting my podcast...

    Hey there! Wow, I posted those WAAAAAY back a few years ago, then ended up starting my podcast and forgot to finish it up! If you could post the links to those to see where I was going with things it would be helpful. Also, if you have a direct question about your situation post it up - I may be...
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    Seeking advice on a re-approach

    Hey there, sophomore in college: Here's some dating advice for you (assuming you're trying to date this girl, or at the very least raise her interest level) that you need to remember throughout the rest of your life: 1. Group dates are the enemy of attraction 2. Party dates are the enemy of...
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    Not sure what to do..

    I won't go into the whole "LDR don't work" speech - it's pretty much a given at this point. However, even if she were to move near you or vice-versa, her attitude and mistrust of you would automatically make this a no-go. You think it's annoying having to have these convos now? Multiply that...
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    I Dumped My GF Today On Her Birthday

    Wow - I read thru this whole thing, and I swear, it reads like a perfect example of a man going through the "7 Stages of Grief/Loss". For those that don't know what that is: when something bad happens - in this case, a break up - a person will usually go through 7 stages of various emotions...
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    girl tells me about FWB situation? is this a **** test?

    Yeah... you're on the way out. I'll just save you the B.S. of "oh, it's so nice she was honest" or "it's a good thing she told you so you don't get your hopes up." What she JUST TOLD YOU, in no uncertain terms, was that she plans on spending Valentine's Day f--king another guy. So...
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    10 Steps to Winning Back Your Ex

    Hey all: Soooo... lemme start off by saying: some people are going to read the title and automatically think: "what a waste of time! Why would anyone want to get their ex-girlfriend back?!?" And believe me, I agree. In fact, since I've started giving relationship advice, the one thing I...
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    How many girls do you juggle at once?

    The most plates I ever had at one time - like, where I was legitimately hooking up with each of them on different days - was 3. One might drop off and then another would take her place, but 3 was just enough to always have someone to hook up with, yet small enough so I wasn't blowing a whole...
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