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One thing I have been doing recently is going to book stores. And in the leadership or management section, picking up books written by or about leaders. Such as CEO's, Military Generals, U.S. Presidents, famous sports stars, ETC. General Patton is my favorite one. Learning about their state of...

True. I was scared of heights. What did I do? When I was in the Army I went to Airborne school and became a paratrooper. Now I've lost that fear. My grandfather served in the U.S. Marine Corps during World War 2. He saw major combat. Even fighting in the battle of Iwo Jima. Now, he's 84 now...

Yes. This so very true. Its subconcious. It's the same as when an angry person walks into a room. You can feel it. Or when someones walking down the street. And you can tell they are a bad azz. Even if they don't look it. With the muscles and all. You've never met this person, but just looking...

Hey. I understand. Not too much back stabbing. What thing I have experienced was. In my younger days. So-Called "friends" teased me alot. Would trash talk me in front of a hot girl I was trying to impress. Then. When I stood up for myself, they would get defensive. saying, we were only...

You know it's funny. I'm 33 now. When I was a teen, and early 20's. People thought I was kinda gay. Or at least not masculine. I guess being raised by my mother and having sister. And no real male influence. And I had a ton of female friends. Not many serious girl friends though. But then I...

Thanks for all the responses. My post was more fun than critical. But true. The young guys today have it tough in many ways. One problem today is. With all the dating guru's out there. The info can be confusing. With all the contradictions. I've read all the books by all the different Pick Up...

I was thinking about how lucky the young guys are on this board. I'm 33. When I was a teen, there was no internet. No SoSuave.com, no David Deangelo, No Ross Jefferies, No Mystery or Neil Strauss, or similar people. Hell these guys were teens when I was a teen. All us older guys really had...

I've read on the news that this is common in alot of middle eastern cultures. And in parts of Africa, I believe. It's some ancient practice thats done, so when a woman gets older and married, she won't cheat on her husband. Because she dosent desire sex. It's very controversial. The rest of...

Sarcasm is bad? No way. It has done wonders for my "game." If you know how to use it properly. And know when to turn it off. I've made alot of women blush and bust up laughing with my sarcasm. In fact, most have told me. They were attracted to my sense of humor. The key is not to be too mean...

Thanks for the responses. Alot of good info. Looking back on my experiences. I noticed. Before I asked them out. I was fun and relaxed. Then, when I was trying to set an actual date. At first I was casual. But over time, I got more and more needy and desperate. Looking back. This was...

LostAndConfused. Now that you mention it. Looking back. After they said yes. I probably came across a little desperate. Even if I didnt mean to show it. It was in my attitude. And my gestures I guess. But this is one area I have worked on.

Ok. Here is a problem I've dealt with more than once. Maybe some of you out there have as well. What did you do? Ok. Lets say, I meet a woman, at, starbucks, or wherever. Maybe she works there. I talk to her casually. Try to be as cool as possible. She seems interested. After, a few weeks, or...

I read a good book that has alot of Alpha Male/DJ Traits. It's called Way of the Wise Guy. By FBI Special Agent Joseph Pistone. Who was the Undercover for 6 years in the Mafia as Donnie Brasco. The book has chapters on how a Wiseguy acts in public, how he treats women, how he dresses. ETC...

Ok. One thing I've discovered when getting advice from others is. It's what THEY would do in a certain situation. But what works for one person might not be the best for another. Show of hands. Who has gotten advice from a friend, or here on Sosuave, and gotten 50 different answers for one...

Ok. Recently. I got asked out by this waitress that I know. I've actually known her for a year. But just as a customer. I take my grandfather to this restaurant regulary. She's a couple years younger than me. I'm 33. She's 26. Ok. Here's the problem. So far, we just go out as friends. I'm afraid...

Yeah, and its doing guy stuff. When she's at the mall buying more shoes. Guys should be out, pumping iron, going on 10 mile hikes, smashing something, or whatever.

Ok, I have a weird dilemma. Maybe it's just me, but it's caught my attention. When I was younger, I was really emotional, moody, would flip out if I spilled a glass of water. Or anything really minor. But I got tons of women. It was almost like their mothering instincts took over. And they all...

Ok, I'm having a dilemma. I'll be turning 31 on Aug 23. All of my life I've kind of been the class clown. This was ok in high school. But now, its getting a bit old. I'm not so much a joker, as someone people like to tease. I'm a quiet guy, so I guess that's a reason to poke fun at someone. I...

Me, I have to play it very carefully with women. If I try to hard I scare them off. But If I act like I dont care, they leave, thinking I'm not interested at all. I usually have a very narrow margin I have to work with when I'm interested.

cave dweller. I know what you mean. When I was at Ft. Bragg, my room mate had a friend who was a tabbed special forces soldier from 3rd. group. He got so many chicks he was able to hook other guys up with women who couldnt get one on their own. One day I was riding down Yadkin road with a...