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    Try and leave your comfort zone as much as you can....

    You have heard the saying "The comfort zone is great, but nothing ever grows there" Continue to push yourself and put yourself in "awkward" situations (e.g. going to meetup.com by yourself) or challenging yourself to run a race, take an archery class (or any class), toastmasters' class for...
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    Are women even still open to meeting men the old-fashioned way anymore?

    Was talking to my friend about online dating and the swipe apps (Bumble, Hinge, Tinder, etc.) and how they are frustrating. He lives in a major city, gets a decent amount of dates and is even frustrated with it. I said "I would still rather meet a woman in person the old-fashioned way" and he...
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    Avoiding eye contact means she doesn't want you talk to her?

    Saw a cute girl at a conference today that I met maybe 8 years ago. She was married at the time when I met her, but she was still flirty. I saw her today (at same type conference only 8-9 years later) and saw her sitting down for the next presentation. I said hello to her (I initiated) and...
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    Having a woman you love and kids DOES matter

    We constantly say on here that finding a woman you connect with should NOT be your priority or that a finding a woman you want to get to know better will NOT make you happier. I think deep down know we are deluding ourselves in saying finding a good woman won't drastically increase your...
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    Don't beat yourself up or get upset when she seems friendlier to "lesser" men

    She could be a little intimidated=attracted Case in point tonight: I belong to one of those meetup groups that is quite large, but the one event I go to is the monthly meet/greet located in a hip town about 35 minutes north of me. Usually, the guy to gal ratio is not good (about 70/30 or...
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    5K runs and meeting women

    I have probably done about 30+ races over the last 15 years (5K's, 4 milers, 5 miles) etc. and I have never met a woman through one. The most IOI's I have gotten is the occasional glance. What has been your experience with these races? My experience with these races (at least in NJ) 1.) They...
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    Meetup.com experience

    Don't bet on these groups to meet cool people or meet cute chicks. There is one group I belong to that meets up at a bar once a month so I usually go. The guy to girl ratio is 5 to 1 and most of the people are average to below average looking and socially awkward. I'm about a 7 in looks and...
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    Where are these other guys meeting these attractive women?

    We've all seen plenty of other men walking around with cute dates, girlfriends and wives. We constantly ask ourselves, why do these other men (half of them who are uglier than ourselves) have these women and we don't? Why him and not me? And yes, I know a man's good looks mean nothing if he...
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    Dating is rigged against men (just the way it is)

    If you are top 20% in looks, famous or have an amazing social circle (most don't) then this post doesn't apply to you. This is not a rant or a negative post, just telling it like it is. Where are the three main places where you will spend most of your time looking for women? (Bars/Clubs...
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    Is it worth dating a very attractive woman?

    This is not my current situation right now, but it just got me wondering. I live in an area where the dating scene is not great. There are attractive women around, but not too many stunners that are more commonplace in the cities or in the surrounding areas. If you are an attractive guy...
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    Iowa or Kansas

    Looking to travel to the middle of the country and go to a Big 12 Football matchup and do other things as well. Would you choose Oklahoma State at Iowa State in Ames, Iowa or BYU @ Kansas in Lawrence, Kansas? Both games are in late September
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    Women at New York (or any large city) museums

    I took a bus trip to the MET this past weekend and oh my, my. I think I saw about 500 attractive women (no exaggeration) in the 5 hours I was inside. I think large museums (especially NYC) would be a great place to meet an attractive and educated/cultured woman. Anybody have any luck in the...
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    Online dating and younger women

    I am a 37 year old male and like a lot of guys 30+, I am not interested in dating women from 34 to my age and older. I know women like older men since I get looks from younger women in public and I know a dozen couples off the top of my head (not Hollywood either) that have anywhere from a...
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    Dating women "better looking than you"

    I am 37 (can pass for 30-32) 6 feet tall, in shape and have full head of hair. :D As far as facial aesthetics are concerned, I lean more towards the average. :o However, with the height, build and hair, I give myself a 7 to 7.5. :) I met a girl the other night in NYC who was a solid 8 to...
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    Women dont want to meet men in bars?

    I cant tell you how many times I have met a woman at a bar who seemed interested at the time and this even includes women I have danced with/made out with. ill get there number and even Man up and call them instead of texting them, only to have,most of them flake out on,me before first date,is...
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    The ten year rule

    I am starting to become convinced, most women, unless they have "daddy issues" or you atre loaded want NOTHING to do with a guy more than ten years older even if the guy IS good looking. I know plenty of couples who have 7 to 10 year age difference but very very few over that
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    23 year old triple date.

    Went out the other night.....i pretty much got three negative vibe....s from her the whole night.....including her not asking me one personal question the whole night. The only good vibe was she busted my balls a few times. At end of night we were back at guys house. All three couples...
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    More confidence in your 30's Than 20's?

    Any other mature don juans feel this way? In my twenties I wasnt established in my career and wasnt really making a decent salary. Anyone else feel more confident early, mid to late thirties,than they did years ago? You getting more attention from the ladies?
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    19 year old in gym class

    First off I am 35 but look 30. This tasty 19 year old in class has done the following. Told me I look good for my age and responded another time boldly in class "your not old"! When I called myself old. She also gave me a big smile once when she was in her car and I looked in her...
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    More attractive to younger women in your 30's?

    I am thirty five.......tall...pretty good shape and still have all my hair...lol. I have noticed I now seem to get more looks from girls 18 to 24 alot more now then I did while I was in my twenties. Any other guys in their 30's experiencing this?
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