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    What do you guys think of Neil Strauss's new book, The Truth?

    I don't really post in seduction forums, but I read The Game, Mystery Method, etc several years ago, and have been intrigued by the seduction community (and have lurked here and there) ever since. I'm curious what you guys think of the new Neil Strauss book The Truth. I got it in yesterday and...
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    Exgirlfriend is dating a guy who looks just like me

    Yep! And the funny thing is that I ended up being friends with him later on. It's weird but nothing to really take offense over. She just can't get enough of you!
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    Semi-Blind Date Help

    Atta boy! Way to hop on an opportunity! Stay away from the boring movie and dinner date. You're going to be forced to work too hard to push away the awkwardness. I say pick some type of activity where you guys are doing something physical. Something at the park, skating rink, museum...
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    i failed again

    NewAndImproved has the right idea. First, stop beating yourself up. I know how you feel but it's not productive. Instead, replace the negative image with a positive one. By positive, replace it with what you should've done. Next, you were right with the whole thing about fear being...
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    Why you should stop complaining about how you look

    Wow...........point taken. lol
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    Screwed up?

    You have the right idea with her not getting away with things you don't like. But you got the right idea. Some time away would be a good idea. Just don't let too much time go by. You don't want the fire between you two to go out. When you talk again, keep it upbeat, light and fun. But no...
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    Is it wrong that I sometimes feel like instigating violence, beating up a girl's bf

    A chore? The fact that you say taking responsibility says that you have a "poor me syndrome" thing going on. It sounds like you blame everything and everyone except yourself. That's a lazy, and childish way to look at things. And that point of view will not get you girls or guy friends for that...
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    Screwed up?

    This is good advice right here. In this situation, you have two options and either one will leave you looking like a cool guy. Option 1. - You could leave and let her have time with her friend. You could make some excuse, smile, let her know you have somewhere to be, give her a kiss on the...
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    My roommate is moving out, no!!!!

    Don't beat yourself over this. This happens to everybody and I mean EVERYBODY. lol. But you already know where you went wrong. You were to available for her and moved your world for her. That's not attractive. There's nothing wrong with being a nice guy and telling her all these nice things...
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    Kill Your Competition With This Obvious Tip

    Totally agree! Anywhere outside the bar/club is practically a goldmine! I also read an article where women usually find their long term relationship during their everyday meetings as opposed to short-term relationships in the club.
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    Is it wrong that I sometimes feel like instigating violence, beating up a girl's bf

    Oh and I'm sure you probably know this but violence never leads to anything good. Make your own decisions and take it for what it's worth. We're all here to listen if you want to vent.
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    Is it wrong that I sometimes feel like instigating violence, beating up a girl's bf

    I hear you brother and I feel your pain. I'm going to tell you something, f**k what society says about men and their feelings because at the end of the day we're human beings. Having and experiencing those feelings are what makes us human. However, (not to sound cliche) but we DO have the...
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    Interesting thought I have

    These principles work on girls 14-50 years old. You poke a girl, she'll giggle. You kiss her, she'll blush. Girls essentially stay the same. But as for you my friend, you will need to continuously improve in every aspect of your life. Getting girls will be a side effect. Trust us. But for...
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    The 10's or the shy girl?

    This is true! I typically go for MY version of a 10. That 10 could be a combination of a lot of things. But let me ask you something and be honest........ Truly ask yourself, are you only going after the 7s because they are safer? I ask because 10s get a lot of attention and by...
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    Frustration, I'd like some help.

    I don't know if this is the case but from what I'm getting from it.........guys don't like new guys impeding on their girls. Primal thing I suppose. One way to go about it would be to want nothing with the girls (at first). You say you're well respected with the guys, so get in good within...
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    im confused ... nid some advice pls

    I'm sure you probably already came to this conclusion but she might have taken it negatively when you declined to go to the party but hey, you live and you learn. But all is not lost. This is what I would do. I would friend the male best friend and he'll become you're wing man in the whole...
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    Newbie here would appreciate advice

    Ehh, I'm an optimistic type of guy. I would not contact anymore until you're birthday draws near. I would send her a very short and quick text message saying "Hey, my birthday's coming up soon. Inviting (her two friends). You should come, if you want" And leave it at that. IF she doesn't...
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    little confused

    In theory, yes you would have won that "battle" but the person who is alpha is the person with the strongest frame. Sometimes looking at the person with a look of disapproval and not even responding makes you look alpha because you above his childish games.
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    Pursure or Next?

    Mixing work with pleasure usually doesn't end up well. But if this is something you want to do, the best way to go about it is to organize office outings that way you guys can get to know each other outside of work. If you feel something is about to happen, then be completely honest in what you...
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    [Rich, attractive, and failing!] HOW Do You Be Friendly, Loosen Up, and Show Rapport?

    Ok. When you talk to other people. you need to realize that there are other realities besides your own. What I mean by that is that not everyone is going to be in fraternity/sorority or see things the same way you do. And this is fine because that's the fun and easy part, when it comes to...
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