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    "You're not romantic enough"....

    I'm at the point in a relationship where I need to be more romantic besides the wining and dining. What are some of your thoughtful/romantic gestures that could be used by fellow DJs? One time I broke into my GF's house (didnt have a key) and replaced a vase full of dying flowers with a...
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    Something I have been pondering about women and their appearance after a LTR/marraige

    I have been pondering this for a while. Do you guys think that a woman is more likely to stay in shape and keep thin if her boyfriend/husband is very strict (on himself) about working out, eating right, and keeping a great body? It seems like so many women these days are lazy when it comes to...
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    Getting involved with a married woman, big mistake? (PART 2, continuation)

    The whole story starts in this thread from back in March http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=47886 Well it's been about 2 and a half months since that thread and there is a lot to update and vent about here. After that thread died off I continued to see this married...
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    How do you be Romantic?

    I have been told that I am everything a girl wants but I am not romantic enough (more like not romantic at all, only sweet). Besides flowers, what are good ways to be romantic and spontaneous/surprising? Some examples would be wonderful. Thanks.
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    Getting involved with a married woman, big mistake? (Vent)

    Well I have a broken heart for the first time in my life, my chest actually aches and I think I may puke. Part of me feels like a pathetic chump for letting myself develope feelings but I also am happy for meeting her. I met this woman through work and never in a million years would have...
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    Mixed signals! (friend or date) NEED HELP.

    This post sorta flows off another thread I started last night about a girl I work with found here: http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=47197 But basically there's this (new) girl I work with, went to a midnight movie with her V-day after work because neither of us had...
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    Going to the movies for first and second dates??? (bad?)

    Well on Vday this (new) girl I work with and I went to a midnight movie after we got out of work. It was sort of a spur of the moment thing because neither of us had dates/plans. We hit it off pretty well so the next day at work I told her we should go out again and she agreed enthusiastically...
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    So I'm flying across country to see a girl I was friends with as a kid (10 yrs ago).

    10 years ago I lived across the street from this girl and we were best friends for 2 years until we both moved away (military parents). We did everything together every day (we were like 11-13 yrs. old). We lost each others contact info about 6 years ago and since then we've been trying to find...
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    So she says (about me) "His girlfriend must have him whipped" (IL?)

    I've been training this new girl at work (bartending) and she's a real cutey, single. I've been very C&F with her for the 2 shifts I've worked with her and always have her smiling/giggling. So as I am leaving work last night one of the other girls I work with asks me if I was going to stay and...
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    sooooo...this 16 y/o gave me her number...

    Yea, she's only 16 and I'm 22. I'd never consider dating her, way too young but I really do need to get laid and she's good looking. I work with her ex-bf, he's 20 and he's been with her for 2 years, he actually lived with her and her mom (and he's very happy to be rid of her). It's not...
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    This B*tch at work played me for an ego stroke and I'm PISSED.

    So there's this married woman at work, she's very good looking for a 29 y/o with 2 kids, very pettite, NICE ass, b-cups but getting a boob job shortly for Cs...I'd say she's a solid 7-8. So her and I have flirted heavily at work but she's always insisted she'd never cheat on her husband but...
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    Lose my virginity to a girl a friend is basically offerring to me or wait & earn it?

    So someone is offerring to set me up with a "cute, but not hot" girl. No-dating-or-phone-calls-afterwards-sex. Just sex to lose my virginity. I've never seen her, I have pretty high standards as far as looks go and I dont want to have sex with a girl I am not physically attracted to. And a big...
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    I have not asked for advice in a while, but I have a lot going on Saturday night!!

    Ok so saturday night is kind of a big night for a couple reasons that I'll delve into here. I'm going to downtown Boston to a strip with lots of bars/clubs with this chick. We've had this planned for the past month, original plan was for just the 2 of us to go. Dont know if anyone remembers but...
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    Field Report: My fourth night out with Matt ala Casanova.

    Ok this is becoming more like a journel of my progression and this field report is not going to be too long because I am starting to stagnate. Matt and I went out again last night to a place crawling with women and I still p*ssied out with cold approaches. Watched Matt do a couple though and he...
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    Field Report: My Third Night Out With Matt ala Casanova.

    First field report in this series. Second field report. Alright, so tonight Matt and I go to a brewery on a college campus that neither of us had been to before; but we've heard nothing but good things. I had a hunch that the college students had not arrived for this year yet and I was...
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    Field Report: My Second Night Out With Matt ala Casanova

    This is my second report in what will be a series of reports about Matt and I going out together. We met through this very web page. He's the master DJ and I'm the AFC transitioning into a DJ with his help. You can read the first field report here Now tonight was sort of a spur of the moment...
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    Field Report: My first night out with Matt ala Casanova.

    Well I'm sure many of you are familiar with Matt ala Casanova. He's a certified mack that has graced the board for a while now with his knowledge of the "game." It just so happens that I live close to Matt and we met through this very message board just recently. Here's the story: I am trying...
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    "Shoes are soooooo important" She says...

    What is the big deal on shoes? I am talking to this girl I work with yesterday and we are watching TV and some fashion thing comes on the news and it shows all these different guys with designer clothes and SHOES on. These guys are definately not great looking, average at best but this girl I am...
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    What in bloody-hell is going on here!!

    De-zy, Jake Steed and a few others will know about this girl that I am going to bring up again. First, this is NOT a oneitis. I could care less whether this girl was my friend or more than. I am just frustrated trying to decide what it is she wants. I'd like to hang out with her either way...
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    Help me DJs. Is she a friend or does she want more?

    Here is my dilema. I made a post about this girl about a week ago but I'm going to start from scratch with more updated info. I am the type of guy who is completely oblivious to women and their feelings. I cannot help it, I just cannot decifer them unless they throw themselves on me so I REALLY...
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