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    Is it really this easy for Chads in NYC using Tinder?

    Seriously? I do okay and emphasis on OKAY. Over 6 years ive smashed bout 40 chicks off on OLD and none were easy. I'm pretty much average looking (someone women say i'm pretty cute) with an average job. Black and about 5'10-11 Live in Brooklyn near Manhattan. What do you attribute your success...
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    Date with HOT Black girl

    Is this in nyc? Is she fresh from Africa? where did you meet her? I'll try and offer perspective because I am her age and I do find myself dating lots of African chicks. African chicks (especially Nigerians) can either be on two extremes: super submissive or super hardened and super independent...
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    Personality disorders

    How should he have reacted in those situations and how does one break that cycle ?
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    Going from boy-ish to man-ish/masculine

    I’m not saying that’s the height but I’m sure it would help in getting more lays
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    Going from boy-ish to man-ish/masculine

    So I have realized something about the energy I have been giving off. Thx to this site over the years I've done fairly decently in dating but not up to the standards that I want. I do ok in attracting women and going on dates but not all of the dates translate into lays, and most of the lays I...
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    Saw some crazy stuff about me in my plates messages

    long time atom ! that makes sense. I guess I still have to drill it in my mind that their words should be taken with a grain of salt. its so hard to remember that because I always assume people in general will behave the way I do. Do you think I should fall back a little ? this siuation is...
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    Saw some crazy stuff about me in my plates messages

    well im not bragging, I've admitted that i'm feeling her the most so yeah I obviously like her, but im trying not to jump into something serious with her just yet. I wanted to continue this 80/20 situation that we have just letting her show her quality to me for the possibility of making her my...
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    Saw some crazy stuff about me in my plates messages

    yea I understand. and yea she does invest way more into me. I am seeing other girls but this one stands out. she has the least red flags, least trauma and her insecurities are the most tolerable/ least problematic.Literally everything is in my court and I control most of the interaction. I...
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    Saw some crazy stuff about me in my plates messages

    So I was at my main plates house . We’ve been talking and banging for like 6 months now . Really like her and for the most part I’ve been doing things right . Here’s the confusing part . While at her house I was using her laptop to do some school work and I decided to go through messages with...
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    Hormones are getting out of control

    I'm fairly young (22) so Idk if this is normal or not, but I think I'm addicted to sex . My hormones are getting out of control and it's been like this for a while . I do get laid a decent amount of times a month or two but it just seems likes it's never enough . My main source of talking to...
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    Is it now considered "creepy" to be a "nice guy"?

    Makes sense .. I think I need to do both . But the ironic thing is that I give off a nice guy vibe too . I've had multiples girls say I seem like a sweet nice guy but they still didn't wanna talk to me . Whst do I do about the vibe ?
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    Is it now considered "creepy" to be a "nice guy"?

    I low key have this problem, and girls have told me the same thing, and i do feel that same frustration and butthurt feelings. How do you think dudes like this can change ? and stop being fake nice?
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    What can I do with my body (pictures)

    Hey guys I want to know what program or workout I can do to get a better body . I want to cut body fat and look muscular . I want a wider back and big shoulder , nice arms and big chest . (Think David otunga from WWE) or even look athletic like a NFL wide receiver . My legs are also extremely...
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    What can I do with my body (pictures)

    Hey guys I want to know what program or workout I can do to get a better body . I want to cut body fat and look muscular . I want a wider back and big shoulder , nice arms and big chest . (Think David otunga from WWE) or even look athletic like a NFL wide receiver . My legs are also extremely...
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    Anyone selling an infiniti? (tri-state)

    is there anyone in the tri state area or not too far from NYC selling an Infiniti? Preferably a G35
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    Showing our women this forum?

    Yes yes, i was never going to show any female this, lol. It was a question. I like to question things and get perspective. This leads to my next question, how do we accept the female imperative? Their nature? The fact that they are selfish, manipulative, apathetic and incapable of actual love...
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    Showing our women this forum?

    What do you guys think about sending our plates/Gfs/wives this forum? Showing them the material on here, and having them linger around the forums, analyzing things we go through and red pill theory? Do you think this can be effective in having them improve their behaviors and actions towards us...
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    My aptitude test.. Lost..No motivation

    I took an online aptitude test(don't know how accurate it was) , but it basically gave me my top 5 strengths and my bottom 1 weakness. strengths : 1. Innovation 2.faith 3.salesmanship 4.visionary 5.focus. Weakness: Risk taking I realized that some of these are semi true being...
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    Dating conscious females

    Awesome awesome replies . All were insightful. It's really a sad reality . Atom : you say the best girls are the ones who have an awareness of how crazy they are , which to me means that they will be more likely to have that under control versus their opposites. Meister: you're definitely...
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    Dating conscious females

    Was taking a sh1t and a thought came to mind. This isn't well thought out or anything , but what if we date conscious chicks? Conscious meaning women that are aware of their emotional issues and are working towards becoming a better female and becoming a woman who men can respect .For me , it...
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