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    Texting vs. calling

    Asked for and received a girl's number from online dating site. I *called* her. During our conversation she, out of the blue, said: "By the way, I like that you actually called me, most guys don't do that these days." My point is this: if a girl gives you her number it is because she wants...
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    Brushing Teeth

    Worried about bad breath? Cavities? Gingivitis? I do this: 1) Floss 2) Brush as you normally would including the tongue 3) Swish hydrogen peroxide around your gums (between lip and gum) for 30 seconds 4) Rinse and gargle with water 5) Use a sonic care type toothbrush but instead of...
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    Dressing like you are the sh*t

    Saturday I decided to take a test. Had to run a couple errands but instead of throwing on a pair of jeans I put on a charcoal fashion striped suit, white shirt, deep cherry tie with slight texturing providing a hint of black shadow striping (very, very subtle, not an actual stripe, just a...
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    Woman I am dating has spent ZERO on me/us

    Been dating this chick for couple months. She complains she has no money yet buys clothes for herself fairly often (at discount), is taking a trip soon that will cost some $2,000, and pays for yoga etc. I don't mind paying more than she does since I know I make more than her, but at this point...
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    Delicate situation

    There are about 100 temp employees on a project at my office. One of them is super smart, in great physical shape (six-pack abs!), and very nerdy. She and I seemed to click, we talked a bit each day for a week or so, and the other day I asked given that I am technically her boss would it be...
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    Dinner date explained

    It is a different thing for men and women. For men it is a means to an end. We have to eat so it kind of accomplishes that, but mostly it's because women like it and we might get sex from doing it. Men are just as happy to see a standup comic, play basketball, grab lunch, whatever if sex...
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    I know how women feel

    So here is the situation -- I found myself with 3-1/2 opportunities. 3-1/2 because one of them I was pretty sure was going to flake and she did, so it was never four. Now it's 3. Two from online dating and one at work. Have gone on two dates with one from online and she is totally into me --...
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    Ultimate AFC/Oneitis song

    We've all been there. It sucks. This forum helps a man open his eyes and accept the reality of his situation. Many of you won't know this song but the lyrics will resonate strongly because they are about you at that point in your life. And there are even DJ lessons in the song (e.g. "He...
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    "You can take me to _____"

    I hate this statement and I try to avoid women who say it. You can take me to a ball game... You can take me to a four star restaurant... You can take me camping... You can take me to a bar or night club... It's very common with online dating to see it in a profile but you can also hear women...
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    Do most women see therapists?

    Geez. Oneitis saw/sees a therapist. Girl I had a date with tonight said she sees a therapist. A friend/colleague of mine sees one. I know of a few women who take medication for psych stuff. Is it me or is this common among women?
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    What did you do to decrease her attraction to you?

    Generally, when a girl is attracted to you, her feelings for you decrease little by little over a period of time, usually the result of various things you do or don't do. An example of something I did that falls into this category: Back in 2000 I was dating a girl and our plans for a Friday...
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    Why you should stop complaining about how you look

    Can't pull an HB 8, 9, or 10. Complaining about not being good looking enough? Just a 5 or 6 on some HB's scale? Stop b*tching: http://images.search.yahoo.com/search/images?_adv_prop=image&fr=yfp-t-701&p=facial+burns&.bcrumb=i65EBF5KuKi&save=0
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    Good advice from a woman, wow

    Was hanging out with a woman I've known for over 10 years. At one point I brought up my oneitis from the spring and mentioned how, on a couple of occasions when I wore jeans on dates with her, she would be angry and when I would go to greet her with a kiss she would shove me (hard). Not a...
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    Where I disagree with Anti-Dump

    AD provided great information and advice. But everyone is different so nothing should be taken as law. 1) AD said talk things not ideas. Keep everything light and simple. I disagree. Some girls are brainy/nerdy and really enjoy intellectual discussions and topics. If you are also like...
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    FR: all the way and then...

    Met an HB 6 online and set up a date with her. She is recently divorced and not looking for heavy stuff. Nice back and forth while we eat, it's going well, some slight suggestive verbal escalation on my part. Dinner ends and I tell her I'll give her a lift home (otherwise it's public...
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    What she wears = how she feels/wants to feel

    Over the last few months I've come to realize that, in the game of dating, you should mirror how a girl dresses. Before that I always wore very casual, comfortable clothes. Jeans, sweatshirt, etc. One can argue a man should dress how he wants, period. I did that with my oneitis back in the...
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    FR: Had a date tonight

    We meet for dessert. She's a solid HB 7.5-8 with an uber nice rack. Runner with b00bs -- I like! The conversation isn't as easy as I'd like and it's trending toward mundane, interview type stuff like school, family, etc. Stuff I hate. I prefer rambling and joking about whatever. I can...
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    You must kiss close the first date

    Competition. You are competing against any number of other guys. Sure, maybe it's 0. But maybe it's 1. Or 10. Or 100. You don't know. All you know is that women are approached constantly. Maybe the one you like has been approached. Maybe she will be tomorrow. So you have a first...
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    DJB Reflections

    Fall will soon be here and it's time for DJB to reflect on himself as the seasons have passed by this year. No serious girlfriend since March 2010 when his seven year LTR ended (mutually). Prior to splitting up, his then GF said DJB would never date another girl as pretty as her, but DJB...
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