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    How to become a DJ - (my most enlightened post yet)

    Wow, good post man. Even though I don't have some alternate persona to pick up women, and usually just go with the flow. I still periodically find myself worrying about interest level! That is part of an ego problem, definitly, things have to be natural and easy, not a constant battle.
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    Worried about sex

    I think sometimes people forget that as biological creatures we have a natural instinct to procreate for the simple reason of perpetuating the species. Somewhere within you, within all of us is this animal sex instinct, except our minds in this modern world cancel it out by overthinking every...
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    At the end of the day..

    Exactly, not caring was the greatest thing I ever did. Not only do I feel better, but women are also drawn to that for some reason. Probably because its the opposite of desperate lol.
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    At the end of the day..

    And to add more, if a girl want's to go I just let her go man. I don't fight, I don't game, I just say good bye and look for someone else. You can't force/trick anyone into staying with you if they truly don't want to. There is another girl out there who would stay with you, without putting you...
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    At the end of the day..

    I think the most important thing I learned from this site is to develop a more active life of my own, build more confidence, and just "talk" to more girls about anything. Before I was doing nothing about the woman situation, I wouldn't even say a simple freaking hello or initiate eye contact...
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    What I suck at

    I haven't posted on here in months, but I think I remember replying to you in the past Becker! I haven't been here often because I felt like I had learned all I could learn from this site and it was time to just go out and wing it. However, I have experienced many of the same problems. First...
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    I don't drink alcohol, so...

    I don't drink at all, but I don't mind if the girls out with me do, some of them are prudes and they loosen up after a few drinks. I'm pretty relaxed and open all of the time so I don't need alcohol for that effect.
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    Fifteen Lessons

    I gave up on this forum months ago, I went out into the world without any guide, things went well for a long time, but in the last year I had hit a wall with everything except college. College, the one thing I had down, and would go to, and go home. I had opportunities with women, with jobs, I...
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    Feast or Famine

    Life is a roller coaster ride full of extreme highs and lows and women just a part of it. You'll always hit high's and low's with women. Right now I'm in a famine and I don't know why? At the end of last year into the beginning of this year I had hooked in 4 girls all with high interest! The...
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    crying, and embarressment

    Why are you being threatened and punched so much? I trained in Ninjutsu for two years and lesson number one was to avoid a place where someone wants to kill/hit/stab you. Even if you know how to fight you do not want to be in one every week. Can you avoid this situation or is it happening at...
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    Oneitis and the parable of the mustard seed.

    That is my most favorite Buddhist parable, I hadn't read it in a while, but I needed to see it again, thanks for posting it. I really don't participate in any religion, but at one time I had studied Buddhism quite extensively and adpated bits of it into my life, mostly those passages about...
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    Side Effects of Becoming a MAN

    Learn to dance huh? I've thought in the past this might be a valuable skill as women seem to like dancing for whatever unknown reason. I've never danced in my entire life, jumping around at a punk concert yes, but real dancing no! My mind really began to change on this topic just 5 short...
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    Confirmed batchlors...

    I'm 21, but I have always said, since I was 14 or so that I would not get married untill I was 28 or older. Now that doesn't mean I'm getting married at 28, just means I will absolutely not consider it untill I am that age or older. I have a lot of things I need to do, and I need to be single to...
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    Main DJ board has gone south ...

    LOL, I'm 21 so I'm not sure if my age qualifies for the mature man board. But honestly I get tired of the main board up there with the same repetitive questions. Everytime I see one of those novel length posts I click the back button, and when I read one of those "banged 250 chicks last year...
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    What The Hell Am I Doing -- You Ever Get Like This?

    Yes, I get like this sometimes including right now and I don't know what causes it? Sometimes I'm on the prowl, see a hot girl and go and try to pick her up. If I get the date I'm excited about the possibilities and so on. But then there are the times like now. Just a few days ago I actually...
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    Light or Dark side of the DJ force

    LOL :D :D That was hillarious. Besides women ARE an evil invasion force that need to be delt with lol :p Man the walls, here come the blondes with high heels and designer purses!
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    HB: "I'll give you my number, but I have a boyfriend"

    It's not always cut and dry. Sometimes the cute girl has a "boyfriend" who is just a seat warmer and is actually looking for something better. Other times they are more serious but still give out there numbers. Why? I think it's an ego boost like "hey, this guy likes me but he can't have me."...
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    First Date Cancelled

    I'd give up on this one. A cancellation and an excuse not to go out with you? In my experience if a girl is truly interested she would make every attempt to accomodate you and try and get on that date. Someone else hit the nail on the head, don't make excuses for the wrong people. I did this...
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    Highschool, the easiest/best time to DJ? I missed my chance lol

    High School - 0 Girlfriends and 1 case of friend zone oneitus College - Gone out with 7 for varying amounts of times so far :D I'm not into bagging 20 chicks a month, but man, it is really easy to get college girls! I've literally had to dodge a few that liked me, but I didn't. Sometimes I...
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    Most Important Thing You've Learned?

    Derived from Pook, don't be embarrassed or sorry about asking out or making a move on a women. You are a man, and that's what you are suppossed to do! Do things to make your own life better, don't do it for women. Then a woman only becomes a compliment to an already great life. Don't fear...
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