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    Girl called me a douchebag to my face. I think she's partially right.

    This is an important post!! It's important to think about this a little bit. I'm basing my opinion on this from high school and college. Women don't really care if they're hooking up with a douchebag. They don't. Douchebags can be funny and attractive too. The thing is, they have to be...
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    Nite's Journal

    Everyone's freshman year is different but here's basically what you do. Go to class. Hopefully you enjoy your major cause many hours will be spent in class. Be there on time every day. If you get a big lecture class with over 100 people, sit next to a girl every day. Join a club. Some...
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    ponyboys journal

    When your braces come off wear your retainer every night. If you don't your teeth shift and it sucks to put on, then your parents wasted a lot of money. If you use the retainer your teeth will be perfect when you're 60. What kind of career would you like to have someday?
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    The return of a new BEAST!

    You are good at joking and being forceful (as in making other people feel the mood you're feeling). Don't take it the wrong way, because you are doing a great job stretching your courage, but here's some advice. Don't say you're training your wing. No one wants to be trained. He will...
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    Advice?

    Ok 2 things. For incremental escalation, google "escalation ladder" Basically the theory of that is "if you can hold her hand, you can also have sex with her" Remember that holding her hand is making a move. If it isn't obvious and intentional, you aren't doing it right. Next, you are...
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    Soft Lips

    The problem you are having is the planning vs doing problem. That problem is the fundamental core of this website. Write all you want, in fact, the writing is a form of doing, but mostly you need to do the things you write about. When action is necessary, and that action offers no immediate...
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    What should I do next with her?

    This is kind of an awkward way to get laid. It's not so strange for 15 or 16 year olds to be talking this way, but you need to understand that this isn't how it goes when you get older. You've become verbally committed to losing your virginity without any sexual physical contact with this...
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    I'm too jokey. I want to be SMOOTH.

    Good job! To answer your question to me, no I'm not quiet in the opening. I always talk about myself from some angle that reveals one cool thing about me, but not who I am entirely. Keep trying these bold moves. Mindgamez does that stuff all the time. I've tried kissing a couple girls on cold...
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    I messed up and I need help

    Unfortunately there is no perfect answer. I have been in this situation a few times. It is unlikely that your texting changed very much about her opinion of you. What is more likely is that she met someone else or started talking to her ex boyfriend. She doesn't want to be mean to you, but is...
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    I'm too jokey. I want to be SMOOTH.

    Be more quiet, especially when you interact with groups of girls. Don't talk to one girl over the others, always make eye contact with the person speaking. When you see openings to speak, go ahead, but if someone interrupts your story, let them talk, laugh, then keep going. It's about being...
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    defensiveend96 JOURNAL

    So here's the thing with Crystal. You weren't texting with a purpose, you were using small talk. My best advice with texting is, make it something that will change reality. Express a way you want her to act, or ask her on a date. For example, tell her you like how jeans/dresses/leggings look...
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    Journal - Approaches on street, at mall, etc.

    Dude I missed the best HB9 on Thursday. Sat next to her in class, good conversation with names and all, just got stuck handing out work sheets at the end of class and couldn't get her number. Maybe I'll see her this Thursday night but jeez this one was hot.
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    Jack Wealthy's Journal of Beasting

    I have a strange situation that's similar. I keep to myself in my dorm at school, except for one guy down the hall I've partied with and one girl the other direction I've hit on. But because they can't control their voices, I know they've found my twitter and look at it. At least one girl has...
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    Asking Her for "Advice"

    NDJ is right. Like if she says to just ask her out to dinner, you leave a big note on her car or locker asking her to dinner, something like that. This has to be a game a confident person plays, not a game a scared person plays.
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    Once there was a Musician - JOURNAL

    Pacing. Kiss slowly, tease her by maintaining space between you. Kiss bottom and top lips. Open your mouth as much as she does, check each other for cues on open mouth and tongue. Bite with discretion. Be gentle and slow. Passion can be paced slowly.
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    A Letter to my friends on SoSuave

    Yes and no. Yes, have other focuses in your life. See the track you are creating and the future you will have. Anticipate your successes and failures. Work hard and have multiple hobbies. BUT don't worry so much! When you count your lays, your salary, and your parties/experiences/cool photos...
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    I need some tips!

    Ok 2 things. 1st, the slower you go, the more scared you look. Your best bet is to act like it just occurred to you on a Wednesday to ask her out, and you immediately went and asked her out that day. All of this other BS is so that you can be slow and scared and give her more time to reject...
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    Yungstiller's Journal of LOVE <3

    Something to remember: when you hook up in high school, especially at a private school, people find out about it. Is this girl the best you could get? Are you the best she could get? By doing nothing except with the best ones you can establish your high standards and everyone will...
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    Online meet ups?

    There's a website called meetup that my sister uses. That and another site called couch surfing. There's a lot of events on meetup for my city, maybe for yours too. Not endorsing it, just showing the option.
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    Milk's Journal

    About approaching in a mall, there's a game from simple pick up that does the trick. The Go game is simple. When one friend picks a girl and tells the other friend to go, they have to, or else they get on the ground and do push ups in the middle of the mall. Apply for college. Doing that...
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