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    Should my potential GF know about this site?

    Or more specifically I should say, me using this site? I'll admit long ago I used to be a 'woe is me' poster. Would keeping her from knowing about this site or things we've said be 'dishonest'?
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    Why do I feel women are against me?

    Not to dwell too much on the past, but I got bullied by girls at school, but 'learned' that I was powerless to do anything because of the legislated equality thing in society. I have taken some of that bitterness into my adult years, because I have understood more about attraction. Now I...
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    Why do I look the way I do?

    I have been really thinking long and hard about who and what I am. Its one thing to be bullied at school but then to go into adulthood for women to psychologically and emotionally abuse you and remind you they don't want to fukk you to your faces. This is not a ***** session. I have seen them do...
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    'We are displeased by your appearance'

    Just thinking about this this morning. Let's just take a social/public environment and a girl/clique doesn't find you attractive. In fact let's just take out the sexual attraction element. A great number of girls/women seem to be so good at dishing out abusive comments at guys they don't find...
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    What they say and what they do

    I have a real problem with this 'confidence' message. Many women will tell someone...anyone...that they love a confident guy regardless of how he looks. But do you think her friends/cliques would feel the same way? No. They get in their groups and openly insult or exclude the guy for the...
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    dating advice for a ginger guy

    I live in the UK and I recently started putting mousse in my hair, yet I feel the only reason I'm doing this because I got put down and called names/heckled from cars for years, and I'm just doing it for approval, yet surprised when someone gives a compliment. I just don't know what mindset to...
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    If you are insulted by an attractive woman/her clique...

    ...why does it hurt more than, say, a homeless man? For that matter, why is it when MOST women insult you it hurts more than if a male buddy or stranger did it?
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    Looks: women do care or don't they?

    In spite of things I'm told about how they place less importance on looks, I'd say they matter to many of both genders, but I think they come at it from a different angle. And perhaps, to a few they are not an issue at all because they aren't 'sheeple' who read the celeb magazines, and are...
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    Emotionally resented for being unattractive?

    Why do some women do this? I have noticed this a lot on forums. You have a guy who has anxieties or a venting about being rejected or neglected socially for being unattractive (or his perception), and the females just talk down to him, but unaware of the psychological implications of doing this...
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    Are guys sometimes property to girls/women?

    More specifically, 'cute' ones? Just made me think. I had an experience in a pub once, where in conversation a girl was touching my face in a weird way, making lines with her fingers. Wasn't so much that even....its what she said: 'You look like a pretty person. Not ugly or really hot. Just...
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    Women and male body image

    I've been self-conscious about my looks for a while, but I have been 'talked down to' a lot on forums by female posters. It seems to be a regular thing on forums. It takes one to throw an insensitively-written post. Why is it women support other women with BDD or think they're overweight, feel...
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    Dating for the disfigured man

    I've seen a couple of show clips about perceptions of beauty and those at the other end of the scale who struggle i.e burns victims, neurofibromatosis patients etc. Firstly I don't get the dating/attraction angle. This is always the case. Why don't the shows portray them as people with ordinary...
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    A '90210'

    I looked this up on Urban Dictionary after it was mentioned on a previous thread I made. Do some girls' expectations of men and their view of life and who they choose for their cliques really come from what they watch? I complained in the past on another board that girls' indoctinated by...
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    'It's not a woman's job to make her man feel special'

    I read this somewhere and its really bugging me. Been reading many threads/blogs usually in the area of men getting pvssed about not having access to pvssy, and the women posters rant back at them. I dunno, though. Don't you want to feel as desired/appreciated as the celebrity/hot guys she...
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    Male entitlement

    I'm really fed up of female/male posters on the 'net moralising about men not seeing the beauty in more 'average' women. Okay, perhaps its not always good to be duped by what's on the surface, because I know full well that many so-called 'attractive' women are rotten, but seeing how misandry...
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    What *they* find attractive

    One thing I noticed is cliques that people talk about. I notice in college culture how attractive a guy is depends on what the girl's group finds attractive, not what the individual in the group finds attractive. It still continues after the teens. I find this so mentally and psychologically...
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    Voting in elections

    Unless I'm missing something here, why do I notice females voting for a particular man to be prime minister/president because of how good looking/sexy they are? And why? I don't see the logic. If there are rare instances with the genders reversed, then please say. Not that its happened...
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    Telling a white lie

    I have sunken chest (pectus excavatum) and have been working on my wardrobe, but I have been really insecure at times about my chest. Is it okay to make something up to a girl about my chest got this way?
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    Can any women help you with body image issues?

    Not strictly advice on working out but rather in a better mental state and working with what you have and what you can't fix. I have seen this on numerous occasions. The guy is insecure and the majority of female posters don’t help but instead play into the insecurities more. Some may respond...
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    Why do I feel that women are 'against' me?

    I won’t ever get the body that women prefer because of my genes and I have a hole in my chest at any rate. Much female culture to me seems the sole preserve of the handsome man, and everyone else is the butt end of cruelty and exclusion. I considered not going to clubs altogether- I couldn't...
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