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    Some reflection lead me to a few questions

    This might be long, it depends how long it takes for me to get my thoughts across here. The last couple days especially, i've been reflecting on a couple ideas that have to do with my entire outlook on the dating world, and women in general. First, i need to give you all a bit of background...
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    For you smokers - 18+

    For those of you who enjoy smoking (reefer's and tobacco, whatever), if you want to try something out, hit up a hooka bar. I went to one tonight and there were amazing girls everywhere. If you don't smoke, i'm sure this place would be a huge turn off for most... But for those of us who don't...
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    And just when i thought things were finally over....

    Last year i was in an ltr, lasted 6 months and through a series of events that were really just unlucky and crappy, me and her broke up. She did want to break up when it happened (by explaining the circumstances, it wouldn't help much, and it's unimportant), it was really forced on her, but she...
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    Anyone want to help me throw together an argument against the folks?

    Basically, i got caught smoking pot by my folks after like three years. I'm a senior and graduating in june. I've been tested twice by my folks, each time i passed, but one time it was fake urine and it tested too cold, teh other time it came up as watered down (i just drank a lot of fluids...
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    Got caught with the reefer...

    Just got caught smoking by my folks today, been at it since 10th grade (a senior now) and they finally caught me. Told them it was for sleeping and eating problems (Which they've seen me having in the past) Dad seemed to buy it, mom didn't. Basically i'm on house arrest until i "Find out...
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    So I got asked out...

    How do you guys react to getting asked out by a girl you actually value as a friend, but nothing more? I had this chick that is a really awesome girl, but i'm just not attracted to her in THAT way ask me out yesterday. I just said i couldn't because of some things going on with an ex of mine...
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    Some music theory help....

    Anyone here know some good sites for music theory, learning chords, all of that for guitar, piano, whatever. I've been playing a lot of guitar and have gotten pretty good, but now i need to start learning the names of all the chords, the theory behind them etc. Any help would be great, thanks.
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    A lesson and question in one...

    Tonight i was at work and this girl who i've been working on a little invited me to her house this friday... Apparently it WAS girls night out until tonight, now she wants me to bring a few friends and come. It'll be nine chicks to four guys, and these girls are all amazing. (It's the "hot...
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    I have no idea how to handle this...

    Last night a bunch of my friends and I were out n about looking for something to do, so we meet a few more people and have to go into seperate cars. In the end it was a friend of mine, and these two girls (one of who was going out with another person in the group, in a diff car). So we start...
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    Haven't screwed it up yet

    don't talk to her over AIM, not unless she IMs you.
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    The protective cousin....

    To anyone who read my other posts: I finally think i've gotten rid of the ex, with homecomming a show was that night so i just said screw homcomming and my date and I are just going to a concert that night. My new problem: A diff chick who i've really been connecting with recently is...
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    Homecomming...

    How big of a deal do you all see homecoming as as far as how much you have to be into who you go with. Basically i've been having a hard time getting over an ex, she keeps finding ways to drag me back in. But we were on the phone the other night and she says she's going to homecomming with a...
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    Get her out of your head completely

    Girl and I broke up about a week ago. It was a bad breakup for me just because I did everything right, and in the end my and her parents screwed it up (long story, unimportant). Bottom line is I know I need to get over this. I've read the breakup guides, I've done what they said. She's been...
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    Tell her about other girls?

    With my ex, I found that pretty often I'd go to the mall or something, some girl would flirt with me (i'd even approach the girls in most cases, not even on purpose, just kind of out of habit...with completely innocent intentions), and I wouldn't do anything. Well later my ex would ask me what...
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    Am I overreacting? A bit of a read.

    Alright. Basically in the last week I've been ditched three times by my girlfriend to do something with her after work. The first time she says her dad was being weird about it and she didn't want to argue with him, the second time she says her friend couldn't give her a ride back from the house...
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    Making her first time good

    What tips do you all have for making a girls first time doing anything sexual (not neccessarily sex, but fingering, oral, etc) good for her? I'm talking about girls who are ready to do that kind of thing for their first time ever with you, and if you wanted to make it a good experience for them...
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    Breakup Rant (Don't need to read, just want to get this out)

    So I just walked back from a phone call from my girlfriend, who I just broke up with. Last night we talked for about six hours and it came down to either staying together for a little while longer and seeing how it worked out, or breaking up and trying to be friends. Honestly I can't see myself...
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    Girlfriend freaked out

    Second question in a few days, this one about the first in a way.... So I was with my girl and things were heating up, basically I asked if she wanted to do anything, and she kinda freaked out. Next two days I saw her, she was kind of tired and didn't seem to enthusiastic...both days she...
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    Movin on up. A question.

    I've made a couple posts (about one a month for the last couple months) asking about moving things forward with my girl...well I'm still having a little trouble with it. Basically the advice so far has been "Get her really comfortabae around you and everything will fall into place". Well I...
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    She's into me enough, but concerns on pregnancy holding her back

    Alright, so me and my girl were getting pretty deep into what we're willing to, and not to do as far as sex goes. She said she cared about me enough to do it, but was only holding back because she was worried about pregnancy (She was the reason her parents got married due to teen pregnancy, and...
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