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  1. SamTheHobit

    How has dating changed in the past 10 years?

    I've been in a relationship for almost 7 years so I'm pretty out of touch. Just curious how dating has changed in the past 10 years? What's your experience from dating women 10 years ago to dating women in this day and age?
  2. SamTheHobit

    Ex girlfriend - Had a good laugh and got back a little sef respect.

    Hi Guys I haven't posted here in probably a year or two, I just thought I would share this experience I had with an ex girlfriend. I'm going to cut this short as possible because I could go on for hours about this women and all her nonsense, I've posted tons of stories looking for help with...
  3. SamTheHobit

    You have authority over your girlfrend / wife.

    Quick story. Was at a new years eve party with my gf family and cousins. She was drinking quite a bit, I just let her because I thought it was funny. I was relaxed drinking away myself. Anyway took her back to my place after, we relaxed if you know what i mean.. So when we woke up she was...
  4. SamTheHobit

    Being with a girl that wasn't a virgin is eating me up inside.

    Background: We've been together 4 - 5 months this is the girl I lost my virginity to. I'm not really to sure what to do. I've always maintained that I'd never settle for a non virgin. It pretty much feels like I've swallowed my standards, and I'm honestly quite unhappy being with a girl that's...
  5. SamTheHobit

    Pretty accurate personallity test to help understand yourself.

    I came across this personality test from a friend and I found it pretty accurate. Hopefully it might help you guys understand yourselves a bit better. www.16personalities.com Please post your results and thoughts on the results etc.
  6. SamTheHobit

    Finally lost my virginity.

    Any way so I finally decided to give a seemingly worthwhile girl my virginity last night. Been seeing her for about 3 and a half months and shes 18. My thoughts - Well I promised myself I would only lose my virginity to another virgin, she wasn't a virgin which kinda sucked, but I guess life...
  7. SamTheHobit

    What are some signs you're being led on by a female?

    Post your stories! Post signs of being led on. Post what action you took when you found out. Should be interesting.
  8. SamTheHobit

    Why is trying to actually communicate with women frowned upon here?

    Is communicating with women really that bad? I mean personally I don't do this as I'm scared it might come of as whinny or needy but I'm not sure. I read quite often that communication is the most important part of a relationship, and this makes sense, how is your partner supposed to know...
  9. SamTheHobit

    Why is neediness so unattractive?

    So why is it unattractive? Thoughts?
  10. SamTheHobit

    Make plans with a women, then flake on her?

    Have any of you guys tried this, what were the results for you? Good or negative? Her emotional response, conscious and subconscious? I'm talking about women you've been seeing for a while, obviously this is not a good idea the first meet up. I've been reading The art of seduction by Robert...
  11. SamTheHobit

    Simple UX improvment.

    I think home and the logo should re - direct to http://www.sosuave.net/forum/ and not http://www.sosuave.com/ I think this is quite important change that needs to be made.
  12. SamTheHobit

    Should women ever be the ones to make plans?

    Just want to get your guys opinion on something. Should the guy always be making plans? Or should the women at least making plans occasionally? I'm i that situation where I am always making plans to see her, which seems a bit unfair. IDK Thought??
  13. SamTheHobit

    Signs that a women is mentally unstable?

    What are some sings that you should stay away from her? I think this is important to save a lot of you guys from pain. So I will start. If she cheats with you while she is with another guy, that's a huge sign there is something wrong with her.
  14. SamTheHobit

    How do you maintain a relationship these days?

    I've never really had any luck with relationships, my longest being four months. And I've never really been somebody the fvcks around with lots of women, I just don't have the energy for that. So what are some tips to maintain a relationship?
  15. SamTheHobit

    Is walking power really the only power we have over women?

    If so it's actually quite sad, I mean 90% percent of the women won't even give a fvck so that power kinda flies out the door. Do you guys have any other idea's of having power over women? I mean it's not fair that they always hold the cards.
  16. SamTheHobit

    What are some things that break your self confidence?

    What are things that break your self confidence with women and in life. Also if other members have a way to overcome them. I'll start off. Although it's something I'm starting to overcome with age, seeing a girl you use to be with that left you, with a guy that's not half the person you...
  17. SamTheHobit

    Field Report - Being drunk can mess up your chances.

    Was at a bar where bands and sh1t play. Here's what happens. HB7 - (Signals me over) Hey don't I know you? Drunk Me - Uhm, I don't think so? maybe you know me from around here. HB7 - blah blah blah (forgot this part) Drunk Me - (I notice she's wearing an upside down cross) Why are...
  18. SamTheHobit

    How to Treat a women.

    http://elitedaily.com/dating/he-treats-like-truly-deserve/1007416/
  19. SamTheHobit

    Flat out rejected a girl tonight.

    Some random chick came up to me and asked to make out with me so I rejected her, and said no. Honestly was such a huge ego boost. It actually felt really good to be on the other end and see things from a different perspective.
  20. SamTheHobit

    Going out to clubs/bars alone.

    I've become so sick of relying on other people to do things with, so alas I had two Smirnoff drinks and said fvck it and off I went. And I can tell you I had the best night in years! I didn't have to listen to any friends complaining, I didn't have to drag people out with me. And more...
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