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    Staying friends with your ex

    I agree with Bible Belt. Nothing wrong with being in contact with her if you are over her and you just want to be platonic etc. Realising that the romantic thing didnt work for you two. If it is recent then it maybe a little too soon for you both as the feelings and emotions are still raw...
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    Contacted After 18 months

    We talked on the phone and it was a good convo. Laughing etc. The guy she engaged to hasn't gotten her a ring yet...nor have they set a date. Plus she said she wants to be sure she was doing the right thing. But anyway. I was a bit hesitant to tell her about my girlfriend and she was like that's...
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    Contacted After 18 months

    I appreciate people's advice. I think some view points were valid. Yet some were way off base. But hey..everyone's approach to things are different. BTW I do have a girlfriend that I have been dating for a year and a half. She treats me real good. Cooks...cleans..and doesn't give me any...
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    Contacted After 18 months

    Well she texted me Saturday. Said she apologies for how she hung up on me but how her and I didn't end things on good terms and she was upset. She asked how I was. I told her I was fine and I was just saying whats up as we are supposed to be "cool" and that I haven't spoken to her in awhile...
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    2nd Date Suggestions

    Esentially I took her to a comedy club than out for dancing. She enjoyed herself but didn't give me a kiss at the end of the evening. She used an excuse that I was from out of town and she doesn't beleive in long distance relatinoships. Also that she is not down with casual sechs. I guess she...
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    2nd Date Suggestions

    Ok, So took this girl out last week Friday. Went for a small bite...drinks and dancing. An amazing date. We at the club and she dancing all over me. But at the end of the night it took a strange twist. I asked her to come up and she was like nah. She gave me the smallest peck ever and then...
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    Contacted After 18 months

    I got to think on this a little bit more and I feel that it has more to do about her than it does about me. I reached this conclusion this way: I have exes on my facebook..there is one in particular that is extremely happy. Has a good looking guy with muscles (no homo) and I am happy for her...
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    Contacted After 18 months

    i just like to examine things. trust me i am not hurt. I just had a niggling curiousity...kinda like guys who before they get married have a curiousity about their exes. But from the consensus to my posts it doesn't seem like that is a road many on this board have gone...which i agree is the...
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    Contacted After 18 months

    her email: I now have a boyfriend, that knows my value and loves and care about my feelings and is willing to be there for me with or without sex. He doesn't pressure me and he opens my door without me having to ask. He always want to hold my hand and show affection in public, cause he is proud...
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    Contacted After 18 months

    anyone have personal experiences where an ex just hung up on em?
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    Contacted After 18 months

    ok. That makes sense. I mean nothing to her.
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    Contacted After 18 months

    The reaction just seems misplaced. Exes call me. It doesn't seem creepy. It is a bit shocking and awkward. But I am at least pleasant to them etc. The only reason I would hang up on an ex is if she hurt me somehow and I was trying to make a point to hurt her by hanging up in her ear. In other...
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    Contacted After 18 months

    So I contacted this girl i was dating after about 18 months or so of no contact. In our last email correspondence she said her and i was cool and she has a new boyfriend and how i pushed her away. She wished me well that i would meet someone nice. background...
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    Doing a Squirrels

    Man. I know how it feels. You gave me some real good advice before about this chick I was dating. She was the hottest girl I ever dated. I really enjoyed myself with her. I still think about her till this day. But I realize she is long gone. We had our time and that was it for us. If she really...
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    Girl Acting Strange After I got her to pay half the rent

    Thanks everyone for the advice. I digested it all. But I think its only fair that if she is staying her all the time that she pays half the rent or we come to some kind of arrangment. Essentially we are living together. She has been acting better these past few days. I took her out to a nice...
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    Girl Acting Strange After I got her to pay half the rent

    well...i hope it is just a feeling of her seeing that much less in her account every month. I just thought i would go ahead and ask her straight out yesterday. I asked if she was cool with paying half. I also said that most marriages break up if the parties were shacking up prior. She said...
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    Girl Acting Strange After I got her to pay half the rent

    My girl and I got in a discussion about paying rent. Basically she is always over the house and has her stuff there. Also she wants me to increase cable channels (she has paid me for this)...but she has gotten in the habit of buying groceries but got upset that I wasn't forking up as much for...
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    Your opinion on when she spins plates

    A girl sleeping with other guys when you sleeping with her just messes everything up. She loses respect for you. She lies about things because she has to. She has a rating system of who she feels more affection for and the other guys get shuffled to the bottom of the deck. Can true intamicy...
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    Your opinion on when she spins plates

    I am glad you bought some reason to this thread. I don't see the appeal of dating a girl you know is sleeping with others. Can u honestly see urself having a future with her or even respect her knowing that the next day someone else sliding up in her. Cut her loose and let the other guys share...
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    Am I Too Fat To Find Love?

    In all honesty.... I think it is easier for the big girls than the big guys. If a girl is big she can find a normal looking guy that would want to be with her. Guys are desperate. But this is the scenario that is most likely to happen...she gonna hold out for the guy that is bedding multiple...
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