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    Being more assertive at work

    Many years ago when I stumbled upon this forum, it changed my dating life and how I interact with people in general drastically. Massive improvement that yielded tangible results. However, it never really transpired to the work-space, where my upbringing of “respecting your seniors” have stuck a...
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    Anyone been to Japan?

    Anyone been to Japan and can tell me what to be aware of; dos and don’t? Am in Tokyo for work and have just set up bumble. A good amount of matches already, but am wondering whether it’s worth going out on a few dates or if Japanese girls are too conservative for something casual?
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    Monogamy is the way forward

    Having gone back “into the game” after a breakup about a year ago, which saw me out of the game for quite some time, I have realized how pointless and distracting it is to “chase” tail. Why the quotation marks around ‘chase’ and not ‘tail’? Because there’s no chasing involved, it’s gotten so...
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    Miami recommendations?

    Am off to Cuba in April and have two weekend layovers in Miami on the inbound and outbound flight (Friday - Sunday). Any recommendations for good nightclubs / must go places? Want to test my game in the states to see if it’s as difficult as people say it is!
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    Dating gets infinitely easier as you get older

    To the younger guys on this forum struggling with women I just wanted to say: don’t lose hope. Invest in yourself during your teens and early 20s and getting women will be infinitely easier as you get into your mid-to-late-20s.... dating today as compared to when I was 18 is like playing tennis...
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    How to let plates go

    Would appreciate advice from members who have done this in the past, successfully. I always just let things fade out, but I am actually getting stressed from the time commitment demanded by some of my plates and want to reduce my plate count to 2, maybe 3 max. These girls are all very sweet and...
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    All girls wanting LTRs

    I have been back into the dating game for 2 months to this date, and I am having a lot of trouble keeping women on the “non-exclusive” / fun trail. They all want LTRs / exclusivity quickly and I am certain it is due to the vibes I give off. I am wondering if anyone can provide their two cents...
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    Time between dates / post date behavior

    While I continue to work on my game with hotter girls (HB9+, which I still find very intimidating), I wanted to understand what kind of post date / post lay behavior you engage in and whether you have any rules to keep you grounded to avoid coming on to strong… I recently slept with two very...
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    Dating schedule - how do you do it?

    Keen to hear some of your approaches on how you manage your dates - particularly when you’re seeing multiple people at the same time. Do you have time limits for yours dates? Do you have dedicated date nights? I am finding it extremely difficult to manage at the moment… I love the excitement...
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    IOIs - how to read them?

    I previously created a topic about how I’m always intimidated by really beautiful girls and I therefore tend to restrict myself to 8/10s and leave the ones above for someone more “dominant” / assertive. in an effort to correct this shortcoming in my game / personality, I have started to...
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    Managing OLD…

    As some of you know, I recently joined the apps for the first time in ~10 years and have had a good success rate in terms of arranging dates and sealing the deal… I am now facing an issue where the girls are literally demanding my time and getting quite agitated that I never text them / am still...
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    Intimidated by very pretty girls

    I have this issue where I get intimidated whenever I date HB9s and above (I am talking very pretty / hot girls, not the Reddit definition of a HB9). They’re obviously interested, otherwise they wouldn’t stick around for a 3rd / 4th drink and offer to split / pick up the tab. However, with these...
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    OLD just isn’t that bad as I had feared…

    Signed up last night at 8:30pm (first time back on OLD since 2013), matched some random Asian girl (I have a thing for them at the moment) at 10pm. Suggest drinks same night as I was joking it was either that or bed for me. Met her for drinks at 11pm. She is exceptionally nice, chatty and was...
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    Tips for a good OLD profile?

    Anyone successful on OLD and could share some good tips on what they found worked for their profile? Am getting some shots taken by a colleague tomorrow who’s quite good with a camera and am hoping to go live tomorrow night after being away from the apps for many years…
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    Best clubs to pull in Toronto Area?

    Flying in to Toronto for a business meeting in late august and I noticed quite a few DJs from the area on this forum. keen to hear your recommendations for the best places to pull. 29 Y.O.
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    When was the last time you closed a girl?

    When was the last time you fcked a new girl? Where did you meet her? How long did it take you?
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    Touching on OLD again

    If your general view of OLD is negative / “it doesn’t work” that’s completely fine, but I would kindly ask that you refrain from commenting on the post. Guys, after about 8-10 years away from OLD (had immense success back then, but appreciate that times have changed), I am about to get back on...
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    How to Seal the deal?

    I have been going on numerous dates lately and I think I’ve lost my touch. When I was younger, I would seal the deal 8/10 times on the first date and when it didn’t happened I just assumed low interest. More recently, I feel like I am having extreme trouble escalating and building the sexual...
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    Getting into shape - did it help?

    Anyone in the mature forum who got into significantly better shape after the age of 25 and noticed improved reactions from females? I have never had issues getting girls, but have had a dadbod since the age of ~26 (before that I wasn’t in a super shape). I have now been going to the gym...
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    Opinion - Wandering eyes

    Am keen to hear everyone’s opinion about wandering eyes… I am unable to not stare at every single girl walking past me when I am on a date and while I have had previous girlfriends complain about it, I’ve never had a date call me out on it until today… never thought of it as a big deal, but can...
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