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So this is something that just happened, and I feel like this is a bad start, but I want to get your opinions. I have the big 3 dating apps; Hinge, Bumble, Tinder which I use recreationally and have minimal expectations. For those uninitiated, on Hinge you get 1 free rose per week, which you...

So, this Saturday is my birthday. Since Delaware sucks all kinds of a** I was thinking of going up to NY for the weekend to visit my brother and celebrate there. Plus he and I never go out up there, and I find it hard to believe that in the population hub of the USA there aren't some dimes...

Been "quietly quitting" my current job for a while now. I've mentioned on here before that I've been working part-time, and recently full-time at my current job for about 4 years now. There are some positives; I'm good at my job so there's no supervision and I can kinda do what I want, the pay...

Came across these videos from this guy FitXFearless recently; Right now, where I live, and what I do, I have to spend quite a bit of money and/or go out of my way to even have the chance to see women in my age range - and chances are they aren't that hot. So, with the current drought and dry...

I was relaxing and unwinding in the middle of a game before bed when I lost internet. Now that it's back, I don't have enough time to fire up that game again, but I thought I'd detail this last weekend to see if anybody knows where I might've gone wrong, and if anybody cares to weigh in on...

I'm in Wilmington, which is close to Philadelphia. Philadelphia is supposedly a lot more fun in terms of nightlife than Wilmington, but it is also a good bit further away and more expensive. I would like to test the waters and see if it's somewhere I'd want to think about moving to. The thing...

Lately I've been browsing this forum during my free time at work, and I feel like I have to chime in after reading some of the stuff I've been seeing: Guys saying they don't wear condoms because they "can tell" whether a girl is a slut and would have STDs... Guys saying it's wild to kiss women...

I know this is in my backyard, but I never go up due to not having a place to crash after the drunken night out. Got one of my old fraternity brothers living up there now who's open to going out, guy lives in Manayuk, so about a 20 minute uber to the fun part of the city. Because of this, and...

I'm surprised I'm asking this question to a bunch of randoms on a pickup forum, but somehow I imagine that's still better than getting insight from the randos at r/Advice. I need serious inquiries here, please no trolling or joking around. We have a serious family matter that I'm not sure how...

This is an ongoing situation so there might be some future updates but here's something where I asked for a friend's advice, and they were right, but I think this girl messed up more than me. Quick backstory: Went to a bar with some friends that I hadn't been to in a while, it's a little...

This post will probably be equal parts self-reflection, and asking for advice. I made this thread years ago: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/anybody-found-a-good-way-to-become-wealthy-working-for-yourself.264520/ And it's unfortunately depressing that I'm really not in a better position...

Maybe it's a result of my circumstances or the fact that I'm located in Delaware, but once the colleges all go on summer vacation the place becomes a ghost town... Everybody local is in Dewey Beach for the summer and the few friends I have down there say it's really not that great because of...

Tagging @SW15 pre-emptively because I know the holidays and time of year stuff is up his alley. I'm on the fence about the better way to spend this upcoming holiday weekend. I don't know nearly enough about the sentiment surrounding it to have a good idea of where I should spend my time and...

This will likely be another long overanalysis, but I think it's important to paint a full picture. I actually came home last night and was talking to my mom about it, asking for some input and comparing it to the advice I got from another friend of mine who is a little less successful with...

And I wanted to ask if continuing to go to a "college bar" is weird? I asked a similar question a while back because I was noticing that when I was out and a girl asked/I told my age, the conversation would quickly do a 180 and they would lose all interest because they wonder why I'm there...

So, I'm sure some of you might remember me from asking where to go in NY while getting a wide range of answers that were largely kept on the hush-hush. I come to you all once again for recommendations on where I might go in Florida or Arizona to have a good time. For context, my birthday is...

Visiting my brother up in Washington Heights for the weekend. I've never gone out in NY and he doesn't really go out either since he has a FWB that he's too comfortable with to bother. So, I asked a former plate where she recommends and she listed Somewhere Nowhere, Loosies, Marquee, and...

Some of you might remember this fun little experience from a few days back: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/anyone-ever-been-on-a-date-while-covered-in-sex-marks-from-the-night-before.277308/ Anyway, assuming I can fix her obsession with leaving hickeys and bite marks she was hot and a...

Got a bowling date tonight with a girl from Tinder. Problem is last night I met a girl out at the bar, and went home with her, and while the sex was great and all she really did a number on my neck, lips, and shoulders... Logically I would assume showing up to a date with a new girl while...

Remember the TV spot with there being baby booms in cities that won the Super Bowl that year? Well I live near Philly, and it's been a while since I've had some a**, didn't really go out during the winter break and the last time I did have sex it was with my ex. So, in the interest of breaking...