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    Dating in the "90's"

    when i first started going out, circa 98-99, there was just a lot less AW-ing going on, you could chat with random chicks, have a dance with random chicks, bang random chicks, seemingly a lot easier. Nights out had a good vibe, people were there to just have a good time, whereas now its kind of...
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    I need insight on how I lost this girl in one day..

    It may take a little while to realise, but you had a lucky escape dude, think of it as a lesson well learnt!
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    Video Games. WTF.

    I would agree with that too. I literally wasted years between the ages of 16-22 on video games, and didn't even TOUCH a woman. Most Friday nights, Saturday nights, spent in front of the PC or Nintendo 64! I would sometimes cry myself to sleep, wondering why I was still a virgin...
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    Escalating chat flirt?

    My advice would be to definitely strike whilst the iron is hot with this one - make a date with her, at one of the zoos, within the next 2 weeks - or sooner. Try to not make yourself too available with her in the intervening time, such as spending ALL your spare time talking to her over the...
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    Getting online AW out of my mind - for good.

    1baddude, i guess you're right, it's probably because i know she's messaging other guys that i begin to see the futility of it. 8 days to reply with a closed text, when in the past she was falling over herself to reply within minutes = she views me as an orbiter = im not interested.
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    Getting online AW out of my mind - for good.

    you're so right there dude, of course she wouldnt do what she said she would, she's probably said that to dozens of guys this week. I did reply as it turns out, with basically 'well, why don't you then... i already have other women after me, so don't miss out! so let me know when you're free...
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    Getting online AW out of my mind - for good.

    UPDATE: Well, out of the blue, and about 4 days since i deleted her number, she decides to text me, basically saying 'Hi there (my name)!! Just a quick message to say I haven't forgotten you!! Love the pic you sent (i sent her a pic 8 days ago), I would definitely eat that chocolate sauce off...
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    How do you feel about bars/clubs at a "mature" age?

    i've always hated them really, mainly because on the rare occasion i go to a club now, i get flashbacks to my afc days, where i would stand on the sidelines, or dancing next to women, who totally ignored me, week in week out. So...yeah...i've kind of retired from clubs now. bars are cool...
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    What is your success rate with women?

    out of the 5 women i've tried, 4 ended in success, the last one became a 6yr LTR. she was a HB8, the rest were total swamp donkeys!
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    oneitis from hell arrrgh!!!!

    it might sound hard to do, but just forget she ever existed! Its always actions over words with pretty much all women..
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    My X is killing me...

    dude, just totally cut all contact from her, do as much as you can to be around other women, see if you can get some interest going.
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    AFC days - funny looking back

    I'd like to share a story about how I found this place in 2003 (different username) when I had just carried out some of the most AFC behaviour ever known to man!....Maybe you can learn from this, or at least laugh! I'd somehow reached the age of 21 - That's five years of high school, 2 years...
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    When the games start

    From experience, when they start going down the 'not replying for ages' route, then the games have gone from being playful and fun, to just disrespectful and ignorant. If a chick with a high enough IL is busy, she will still make the effort to get back in touch - I'm sorry, but it literally...
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    Unfortunately, BigJimbo May Be Spot On.

    It's funny, I live in the UK, and see an increasing amount of older guys in their late 40s-60s with these younger Thai models - and they are so hot! Always make an effort to look nice and wear smart sexy clothes. And you can bet that when the guy comes home after a long day at work, she'll be...
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    Getting online AW out of my mind - for good.

    Yeah, the messages range from the overly sexual (creepy middle aged men who haven't had it in years) to desperate (young guys after poon they can never have), and she responds to them all equally, leading them down the garden path with messages and photos (I know she's sent other guys photos...
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    Getting online AW out of my mind - for good.

    yeah i mean thats a good point too. However, i need to move on from the forum, its actually getting to a point where unrelated threads always end up discussing HER - its embarassing to see grown men acting in such an afc way. I dont expect to hear from her again really..
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    Getting online AW out of my mind - for good.

    yeah, she won't be hearing from me again. She may contact me again, i'll probably be civilized with her, but as far as this one goes, I dont want to be friends, or just chat with her about random, inane sh1t, I just wanted to nail her. Her AW-ing online is the equivalent of a chick you like...
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    Getting online AW out of my mind - for good.

    Thanks fella - I can't say how much this place has helped - if it wasn't for here, I'd be sending 3 texts a day asking her if she's ok, and seeing if she wants to meet up 'sometime' - the sight of the other guys on there fawning over her is absolutely pitiful aswell - she laps it up and promises...
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    Getting online AW out of my mind - for good.

    I think I will - then disappear from there forever - great idea fella!:cool:
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    new to online dating - a few observations

    What is it with some ugly women and these dating sites? They look like Ernest Borgnine in a dress yet they think they have a god given right to a Brad Pitt/George Clooney/'Mr Right' Hybrid- WTF?!
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