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  1. FruitLoops

    Need suggestion: Converting into potential date

    This is what i replied earlier to this question. "Correct me if i am wrong but my understanding is that mostly girls are little less interested in you when you initally talk to them, especially the 8s or 9s. Their interest level builds over time, right? I mean i dont mean that i would want to...
  2. FruitLoops

    Need suggestion: Converting into potential date

    This is what i replied earlier to this question. "Correct me if i am wrong but my understanding is that mostly girls are little less interested in you when you initally talk to them, especially the 8s or 9s. Their interest level builds over time, right? I mean i dont mean that i would want to...
  3. FruitLoops

    Need suggestion: Converting into potential date

    Correct me if i am wrong but my understanding is that mostly girls are little less interested in you when you initally talk to them, especially the 8s or 9s. Their interest level builds over time, right? I mean i dont mean that i would want to date the ones that are totally disinterested in me...
  4. FruitLoops

    Need suggestion: Converting into potential date

    That definately makes sense. Thanks
  5. FruitLoops

    Need suggestion: Converting into potential date

    I am currently interning with this girl at a law firm. The internship is only for a month and is work from home. We chat about work mostly (since we get similar assignments to do). She only texts when she needs help with something or to ask about my completion progress. Basically everything...
  6. FruitLoops

    Outer game: Confusion about two conflicting ideas.

    That clears up a lot of stuff for me. I am one of those guys for whom everything goes well at the start and then girl start to lose interest cause i have started caring for her and start giving her more attention than she deserves. Thank you for clearing this up. Cheers!!
  7. FruitLoops

    Outer game: Confusion about two conflicting ideas.

    I was reading 'The rational male' and this one sentence caught my eye where Mr. Rollo says that, keeping a woman ignorant about your intentions is the single most potent weapon a man can have. This sentence actually brought in more confusion than clearing things for me. What i have heard and...
  8. FruitLoops

    The "I have a boyfriend" rejection

    I had a sort of similar incident recently. I had a coworker who would stare at me and would smile at me from a distance. I started interacting woth her and got her number. I chatted for once or twice and just went ahead and asked her out. She replied she "kinda have a boyfriend". For me this is...
  9. FruitLoops

    Need help: Female just leaves the chat in middle and never gets back

    This makes a lot of sense. So, how did you pursue her? I mean did you resort to usual way of asking her out and eventually things worked out. Or did you pursue her somewhat differently than the common north american girls?
  10. FruitLoops

    Need help: Female just leaves the chat in middle and never gets back

    So most of you guys have suggested taking her out and i agree. This is mostly what i do, i chat a little and eventually ask for meeting in person. But here i am faced with two constraints; firstly, my city is under lockdown, so only takeout is available and i am pretty sure i cant invite her...
  11. FruitLoops

    Need help: Female just leaves the chat in middle and never gets back

    I have recently starting chatting with a Vietnamese girl from work. I am not from Vietnam, so i have zero clue about their culture. Anyways, the girl is very friendly and talks nicely and all; however, she has this weird tendency to abruptly leave the chat and just never reply back. It has...
  12. FruitLoops

    Suggestion: dealing with rejection

    I made the most dumb decision. Despite my experience stating that genuine desire cannot be negotiated, today I ended up texted this girl who was showing little to no interest in me. Before you guys just get frustrated here, just hear me out. A little background: i have been talking to this girl...
  13. FruitLoops

    Need Suggestion: Dealing with attention seeking female

    No. I am only asking in terms of old school face to face dating.
  14. FruitLoops

    Need Suggestion: Dealing with attention seeking female

    Most replies focus on $€x being on the table. So what if she makes you wait for $€x for some xyz reason; would you still be interested in waiting and try to escalate?
  15. FruitLoops

    Need Suggestion: Dealing with attention seeking female

    Many females would go out only because they like the attention they get from the man they are going out with. They specifically dont have much interest in being with that man, but its the attention he gives her that makes her go out with him. I am sure many of us must have come accross such...
  16. FruitLoops

    Females repeatedly losing interest

    I cant say that p€n!s size can be the issue here. The last girl i was with, we only kissed and the next time we were she decided to stay friends for some reason. The one before that, that one i had issues while having $€x. I couldnt figure out what all positions to go for, sometimes i would c@m...
  17. FruitLoops

    Females repeatedly losing interest

    One thing that I realised after zekko's reply here was that maybe i stay a bit too aloof and distant that it causes females to eventually lose interest. I have difficulty deciding the balance between being needy and aloof. Secondly $€xual performance is the issue. I dont know where to look up...
  18. FruitLoops

    Females repeatedly losing interest

    Yeah. Come to think about it, i am not the greatest in this area.
  19. FruitLoops

    Females repeatedly losing interest

    My concern not just getting ghosted. My concern is, getting same results over and over despite consistently improving my game strategy.
  20. FruitLoops

    Females repeatedly losing interest

    Is there some way i can learn?
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