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  1. J

    Your Experience Drinking Before Cold Approaching

    thanks. today I tried to approach (if you could even call it that) some girls sober. I interrupted two very hot girls in the middle of a conversation to say something like Hey how's it going!, and they just ignored me and then I said hi again to try to get them to say something and one girl just...
  2. J

    Your Experience Drinking Before Cold Approaching

    Yeah youre right, guess I have to just walk up and put myself in situations where I HAVE to say something.
  3. J

    Your Experience Drinking Before Cold Approaching

    I didn't say every time, I said temporarily i.e a few times
  4. J

    Your Experience Drinking Before Cold Approaching

    You're probably right it was creepy although they were pretty far away and I don't think they really noticed. I'll keep trying. How long did it take you to get good at approaches? Did you have a period where you had trouble starting? I think I'm kinda moving in the right direction by at least...
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    Your Experience Drinking Before Cold Approaching

    I've been struggling a lot with cold approaching sober, and so far the best I've done during the daytime is saying "hi, how's it going" to a few random hot girls. Today I walked by these two girls sitting in the grass talking (one was a 10 for sure), and I walked past them 4 times but never...
  6. J

    BRACE YOURSELF - invasion on November, 2020

    THIS is retarded...
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    I Had Covid19 Back In March.. Ask Me Anything!

    I don't want to spread any misinformation but I have a suspicion the virus is weaker now than in March. Everyone I know who has had it got it in August or September and had symptoms basically just like the common cold. In my community we peaked later and have had a survival rate between 99.7 and...
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    Getting Over Approach Anxiety

    Good stuff thanks. I'll keep trying. I guess calling myself a loser when I chicken out probably only makes things worse. I only started even seriously thinking about this stuff like a week ago, so I guess I'm doing alright.
  9. J

    Getting Over Approach Anxiety

    Hey I really appreciate that advice. Thanks for the encouragement buddy. I don't know if my mom is quite as crazy as yours or not but she's damn close. She is also extremely manipulative and emotionally abusive and tries to intentionally say things to hurt feelings. She's also kicked/kneed my...
  10. J

    Getting Over Approach Anxiety

    Anyone ever tried phenibut to decrease social anxiety? I've read it makes you lose your inhibitions like alcohol without losing any coordination or cognitive function. is it worth buying?
  11. J

    Getting Over Approach Anxiety

    Yeah, I guess. I really need to just change my mentality to just start talking before thinking I guess.
  12. J

    Getting Over Approach Anxiety

    Update: I'm really bummed out now cuz I feel like I pussied out a few times today. Today I was walking down the street and some random hot college girl yelled "hi" at me out the window of her apartment like 20 feet off the ground and I was so caught off guard I just said hi back and waved and...
  13. J

    Getting Over Approach Anxiety

    Those are some of the best ideas I've heard, especially the idea about putting myself in a position where it's worse to walk away than to introduce myself. Also the ideas about the similarity between anxiety and excitement is an interesting observation as well. Thanks Yeah I'm sure the mom...
  14. J

    Getting Over Approach Anxiety

    I'm gonna approach women before anything else. I don't expect or even intend to be successful for a long time, I just wanna get desensitized to the fear and embarrassment. But yeah thanks for the other advice too
  15. J

    Getting Over Approach Anxiety

    Thanks for taking the time to respond. I'll have to try that stuff, I'll keep you posted
  16. J

    Getting Over Approach Anxiety

    I've had bad social anxiety when it comes to talking with strangers my entire life. I don't have any anxiety around people I already know. I want to get over approach anxiety for good, and get to the point where I'm actually doing proper cold approaches, but I'm not sure about the best way to do...
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    Cold approach tips

    What I've been doing lately is just saying hi to every hot girl I see. I'm also interrupting the conversations of groups of hot girls. I know that sounds kinda retarded but I used to have majorly pathetic social anxiety so it's a big step for me. Im at the point where I can interrupt girls to...
  18. J

    Cold approach tips

    Good stuff man, lemme know how it goes
  19. J

    Cold approach tips

    They called the cops lmao what? I'm not going to be jumping in front of girls though so I'm assuming that won't happen. But I'm actually curious how many guys on here actually do daytime approaches. I'm guessing most don't especially alone... honestly I just want the practice even if they don't...
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    Cold approach tips

    I wanna hear from those of y'all who have actually done cold approaches outside on the street or in parks. How did it benefit your social skills in general? How long did it take to get good?
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