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    Girl keeping tabs on me

    that’s another level lmao crazy
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    Girl keeping tabs on me

    totally get that, especially watching as her posts go from happy to “I’m so much better off without you” type sh1t multiple times in a month. Looking dumb asf doing that to yourself because you can’t read the writing on the wall
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    The high score theory

    making it real obvious lol
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    The high score theory

    Search high score and you’ll see that there is actually lol
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    The high score theory

    haven’t been with her for like 10 years man lol no need for no contact when I really couldn’t care less.
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    Girl keeping tabs on me

    lol I definitely don’t act like an orbiter. Just letting her do her thing, if she reaches out then we’ll see what happens but not chasing her at all.
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    Girl keeping tabs on me

    ya 100% certain she’s trying to get her ex back, she posts kinda cryptic stuff about it but it’s very obvious. And I know that when she went silent with me it was because at the time he was giving her a chance. when I see her in person she tries to be friendly and ask me about life but I just...
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    Girl keeping tabs on me

    Dated her for a little bit a few months ago but she went ghost and started posting about how she was earning her exs trust back just very obvious with what she posts.
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    Girl keeping tabs on me

    From her fb posts she’s obviously holding on to hope that things will work out with an ex. On the other hand, anytime I’ve posted a story since we stopped talking she is pretty much guaranteed to watch it. I also posted a picture of something I was doing last weekend. Her coworker...
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    The high score theory

    lol just find it interesting. Always curious about how people think and how the mind works. Learning a lot that I can apply to other women that’s for sure
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    Are Older Women Better?

    Last year I dated a 45 year old, I’m 30 now. She’s pretty hot for her age but also nuts. Fvcked once and right after she decided to show up where I work. Cut it off right then. She stood outside my place knocking on the door telling me she wanted to talk for like an hour in the cold. Texted...
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    The high score theory

    Kinda a follow up thread to my last about my diagnosed BPD ex. Little background info, we started dating senior year of high school. She left me for a car salesman around 22. That was about 8 years ago. She adds me on FB last week to tell me about her getting a divorce, already has a bf, and...
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    Now confirmed, ex is diagnosed

    that’s for sure lol
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    Now confirmed, ex is diagnosed

    Well for one, BPD lol Was with her from about 16 to 20 years old. Didn’t know anything back then. I wasn’t trying to get her back months later, just saying in the moment I didn’t realize it was a great thing that she left me.
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    Now confirmed, ex is diagnosed

    thankfully a car salesman talked her into leaving me lol when it happened I wanted her back so badly but 10 years later I’m definitely happy with how everything has worked out
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    Now confirmed, ex is diagnosed

    Funny timing with the “think your ex is a BPD, unlikely” thread. My ex from 10 years ago added me on FB today. Last I heard she was married and has 2 kids. She starts messaging me and says she’s been trying to call me but I changed my number when I moved. I was typing a response and she...
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    Are men bailing on dating?

    i dated a 42 year old a year ago, hot for her age but crazy enough to continue texting me on a nearly daily basis with no reply for a good 3-4 months after I cut things off with her.
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    Think your woman is BPD? Unlikely...

    funny you say that lol when thinking if my ex was a BPD, among other things I always think back to one fight where she broke glass from a small picture frame with her bare hand, grabbed a knife out of the kitchen threatening to cut her wrist, and then decided to go in the bathroom and take a...
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    Talking about me but not to me

    ya just ignoring and definitely not going to reach out first
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    Think your woman is BPD? Unlikely...

    Thing is that 5% (or more) are driving men here a lot of the time so there will be a higher likelihood that men here have dealt with a BPD. Guys that are lucky enough to never come across a BPD would have no idea a forum like this exists.
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