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    Field Report - Thank you SoSuave & The Red Pill Community!!

    Hey guys! so i've posted several times on this forum about my experience so far with my "girlfriend". I was warned and given so much great advice on here! and along with reading heartiste and rollo tomassi, I have understood so much and amazed at how accurate this information is. It's like you...
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    Reviving a flagging relationship

    Hey DJs! I have been dating this girl for 7 months already, and we've had our fair share of ups and downs! however, I have noticed some red flags lately; she no longer calls or texts me with the same frequency as she use to she is online on WhatsApp sometimes all day or late at night and not...
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    Mixed Signals

    Hey DJs, so last weekend I spent it with the girl I've been dating for 4 months. I've been reading heartiste and the rational male for a couple of months now - and I've noticed how many things have worked with "game". However, I'm aware of the fact that I take game a little too far sometimes...
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    Indifferent & Aloof or Soften Up?

    Hey DJs, back for some more A game advice! So this past weekend the girl I've been dating for 4 months and I went to a northern part of our country. We were having a good time. However I started drinking heavily, and even consumed a substance I shouldn't have. Anyway, I already had plans to...
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    How to handle ex boyfriend coming back into the picture?

    Hey DJs, I've had a lot of great advice given to me over the past couple weeks and I am grateful that I have this community to expand my mind. I am going over Rollo Tomassi's Rational Male again, and reading over some fundamentals on heartiste (Roissy). Now, I've been dating this girl for...
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    Being too much of a cold fish

    hey DJs, I've enjoyed the time on here and reading some very insightful advice that has really opened my mind up to dating and "game" and of course, frame. This is long but there are several things I wanted to put together so that you can analyze and let me know your thoughts and advice going...
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    When she tries to run game on you?

    Hi DJs, coming back for some more solid advice! this is long but I needed to add the details for you to get a better picture. here's what happened: I spent the past weekend with a girl I've been dating for the past 3 months. She came by friday evening and we went down to spend the night in...
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    She's caught up with an ex?

    Hey DJs, I've been seeing this girl for the past 3 months. Humble, sweet, loving, and giving - treats me very well and is always compliant. However, she has admitted to having serious insecurity issues (which she has been working on to resolve) and also anxiety issues. I have been trying to...
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    Is Dread Game Called For Here?

    Hey DJs, coming back for some more great advice! a bit lengthy but needed to add details, Been seeing this girl for 3 months already, seeing each other almost every weekend (with peppering in about 2 or 3 unexplained absences as recommended by 16 commandments of poon). I understand that it's...
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    Tell-Tell Signs She's Not Over Her Ex?

    Hi DJs, thanks very much for all your great advice over the past couple of weeks! This one is a bit long but felt the more details the better it would be for your to send your opinions and advice on the situation. Been hanging out with this girl for the past 3 months on weekends. (with 2 or 3...
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    She's mad because I don't chase?

    Hey DJs, looking for some more great advice here - I've been dating this girl for the past 3 months and we've been seeing each other for almost every weekend (except about 2 or 3) where I peppered in some unexplained absences and went radio silent with her as per 16 commandments of poon)...
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    Dating a girl with jerkboy past

    Hey DJs, curious to know - been hanging out with this plate for past 3 months (almost every weekend except for 2 or 3 absences where I go no contact) and it's now reaching the level where she is constantly texting or calling me and doing most of the pursuing (I backed off after she started...
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    How to discuss finances if thinking LTR?

    Hey DJs! been reading the forum for about 3 months now - and there's hardly much content about finances when it relates to dates/plates/trying LTRs. as much as i've read re finances it would be something along the lines of "she either paid for me / we split the bill" I'm seeing this plate for...
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    Subliminal Messages - Help Decoding?

    Hey DJs, Been hanging out with this plate for almost 3 months every weekend - seems she wants something steady but doesn't have much dating experience and history and she is 28 years old. Whenever we spend the weekends together we typically have sex 2 to 5 times. She enjoys it and so do I. She...
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    Testing her for congruence?

    This is a bit long but I keep coming back to the master DJs for master advice - So I've been seeing this girl for 2 months and a half and we've spent almost all weekends together (with some weekends where I go missing and hang out with other women of my choice). The girl I am seeing is...
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    Testing for congruence?

    This is a bit long but I keep coming back to the master DJs for master advice - So I've been seeing this girl for 2 months and a half and we've spent almost all weekends together (with some weekends where I go missing and hang out with other women of my choice). The girl I am seeing is...
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    How to spot a user?

    this is a little long but would love your DJs comments and experience, Hey DJs! so I''ve been seeing this girl for 2 months and so far we've been on 6 dates, this past weekend being one of them (all overnight dates). so far - lots of sex, she has been doing a LOT of chasing as many of her...
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    Dropping Interest Level or Sh!t Test?

    Hey guys! I've been reading a lot on the Don Juan forums and learning some great stuff from the true DJs! thanks a bunch for the great advice. I've been seeing this girl for 2 months now and we've been on 6 dates (all overnight trips). She's done much of the chasing - contacting me even though...
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    How to continue building attraction after successful dates?

    Hey folks! I started my Red Pill Journey (leaving home, family, etc. with no money and basically started with nothing - skip to 6 years now and very known in my country for what I do and head of a tourism organization in my destination etc...on the way to being self made!) I came across TRP on...
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