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    Why does she turn down sex?

    When I was married, my ex-wife frequently said "no" to sex. It could be due to a variety of reasons, which I am sure most of you have seen or heard. It could include... "I'm tired" "On the rag" "Just went to the gym" "Stinky" "They could hear us" "We could get caught" Funny story, I worked in...
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    [POLL] Political stance?

    I am curious where the general political compass of the board. I am not asking who you support for president or specific policies, but just where everyone generally lines up on the scale. I know I didn't include every possible option, but I feel like I see 4 major groups generally in politics...
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    Diet and exercise advice?

    The other thread got me thinking about throwing a plan out their for the experts of SS to dissect. I will try to keep this high level and simple... Diet - this is likely my biggest problem, but here is a general plan. With kids, housework, long workdays, and a fairly spotaneous lifestyle, meal...
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    Roober growth journal

    The nice thing about writing something down is that it makes it a bit more tangible. One of the best examples is writing goals down with set deadlines. I feel it necessary to log my growth and hopefully share with others maybe as an example of what could potentially be achieved. While I do not...
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    Second date update...

    On 101.3 in the bay area, they do a brief segment called the "second date update." This is how it works... -Two people go on a date -One gets ghosted or blown off -This person calls the radio station to discover why they were ghosted/blown off. Why do I think this segment is interesting? 1...
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    The journey takes TIME

    There is an important aspect of growth that many here on SS completely ignore. By ignoring this very simple fact, you run the risk of repeating the exact same mistakes. The fact is, personal growth takes time. You cannot improve without TIME. You cannot break bad habits without TIME. And you...
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    How did you grow in 2018?

    I see SS as more of a place to grow than complain about failings in life, whether it be with women, family, career, or anything else. However, as 2018 comes to an end, i am curious as to how everyone else has improved in 2018. Its important to write things like this down because 8t makes it...
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    Vasectomies for young men?

    Just a thought... As I hear more and more about the male birth control pill, I really wonder about the long term effects. Basically, it drops testosterone levels to where sperm is no longer produced. What about just getting vasectomies at 18? It is damn near 100% effective. There is no...
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    A good quality...

    I'm not exactly sure how to explain this as an ideal quality in a partner (man or woman) or a term to define the behavior, so I will use an anecdote... My brother and I stopped talking about 6 years ago. He was upset that I had talked and spent time with his exgf (and baby mama)in order to see...
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    Sweet gesture vs. Supplication?

    Curious on everyone's feedback here. What defines an act of kindness towards a woman versus supplicating? Going out to grab coffee or donuts? Leaving work, grabbing lunch, and dropping it off? Buying something you think they might like while you are shopping? Is there a way to define it? Now...
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    Propagation of weak men?

    First of all, I would say my lady is fairly red pill aware. She doesn't identify or know what it means, but is more traditional in her mindset (submissive, understands gender roles, etc) With that said, we get in some very interesting topics of discussion at times. And last night we talked...
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    The product of feminism...

    This is long... but was an interesting experience I had on social media. This was over a week ago, and women continue to chime in and add their two cents as I still get updates. I would be lieing if it said it didn't bug me a little bit at first, but I also understand that once they labeled...
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    The Art of Mastering the First Date

    A little satire for the board, something on the lighter side. I found this and thought it was hilarious. "3. Japanese is also a good option. Saké is like a legal roofie* and if she’s good with chopsticks, you’ll know she wasn’t raised in a barn."...
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    Thoughts on Valentine's day?

    I know this is a bit late, but what's your guys thoughts on Valentine's day? I think it's a bit silly hallmark holiday. I am good about doing random acts of kindness throughout the year, so to focus on one day seems stupid. And it's not really about men... It's about what men can do for...
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    Snap out of it!

    Alright, just curious on some feedback here and curious how you guys snap out of a funk? I have tried the gym (which usually helps), relaxation, TV, videgames, etc. However, sometimes, I just get this unshakeable funk. It doesn't last long, maybe a couple hours tops, but it just doesn't feel...
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    Ugly sweater and more...

    Well, since this board serves a wide knowledge base for everything, figured I would get a feel from the other guys here... I have never been one to enjoy drawing attention to myself. I don't really like wearing elaborate Halloween costumes, don't really wear outrageous jewelry or anything, and...
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    So I have a friend...

    Could use a bit of advice here as this is a buddy I have known for over 20 years, old high school friend... Background: -Married 10 years -Found out in September that his wife had been having an affair for the last 10 months -Moved to his own place in November -Was a housedad for last 3 years...
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    What is your weakness?

    I will be the first to admit I have some things I need to work on internally. And I will be the first to point out those weaknesses. By admitting our weaknesses, we acknowledge that we still have opportunity to grow and learn. That's really what this is all about, becoming better men, better...
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    Her insecurity...

    Seeking the power of the board for some insight... A little background: -I go to bed pretty early, around 9pm -We have been dating around 9 months (exclusive for about 7) -She is 41, I am 35 Around 1115pm or so, I get the following texts... -I do admit, age hasnt been a factor for me until I...
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    Help with ex-wife?

    Let me start by saying we have two kids together, so completely removing myself is not an option. Background -Dated 5 years, married 9 years -Split in January 2016 -Two boys, 4 and 6 -223 schedule and 50% custody -I walked out and she still holds resentment -In final stages of divorce, but she...
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