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    The pattern I've noticed with physical escalation; does it apply to escalation in general?

    No no no, you missed much of my post. I didn't say it was like cheek first date, cheek first date. In one case the girl had flown across the country to spend the weekend with me. It was obvious we were going to have sex and we did, but she didn't make it "easy". But I wasn't even phased because...
  2. J

    Hilarious gold digger dating profile - Looking for a "REAL MAN" (who pays her bills)

    35 year old woman, divorced, with kids: What can I say about me with out adding too much cream to the coffee. Hmmm. Well I'm sweet, funny, ambitious. People consider me very outgoing and down to earth. I go to the gym at least three times a week to stay fit. Love to travel to blue waters and...
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    The pattern I've noticed with physical escalation; does it apply to escalation in general?

    The other thought that just popped into my mind is: it would make sense that women would test a man for persistence, strength and confidence. From an evolutionary perspective, the guy who gives up quickly likely won't succeed in life in general. Whereas the guy who is confident and persistent...
  4. J

    The pattern I've noticed with physical escalation; does it apply to escalation in general?

    Ain't that the truth about being tested...my brother and I grew up in separate households on separate continents. Both successful. When visiting him and having dinner with my dad overseas, they agreed with my theory that it had to be genetics. Something about the mix of my mother and fathers...
  5. J

    Why are higher quality women more interested in me than low quality women?

    Not a bad take, women don't make sense a lot of times. But I'm seeing a pattern here. This isn't a random casual occurrence. There is some kind of lesson to be learned here that I think will help me make it to the next level. Another thought I had: maybe this is all normal and to be expected...
  6. J

    The pattern I've noticed with physical escalation; does it apply to escalation in general?

    I've noticed that a surprising number of women, the more attractive the more frequent, will send mixed signals. I get invited back to their place, try to kiss, get the cheek. Try again later, cheek. Fast forward an hour or so, we are having sex. Not always the case but with the hottest chics...
  7. J

    Was this a test or creating drama on purpose?

    1) I talk to most of my exes's still, it's common... 2) Yeah, there, but he is married now. 3) Again we met on a HNW dating site and she doesn't date average guys, you generally have to travel to meet other HNW people. I've yet to find one in my own town, one of the most expensive cities in the...
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    Was this a test or creating drama on purpose?

    I think you missed a couple points here. She messaged me on the site. Spent her money and time flying to see me from the other side of the country. Her bringing up feelings of an ex then telling me in the next sentence that nothing can ever be because he is married now doesn't sound like she is...
  9. J

    Was this a test or creating drama on purpose?

    We had sex the entire time she was here. She invited me down to see her, even trying to take some of my stuff to force me to go see her. What do you mean by close this, sex happened. Relationship happened. But seems to be dying out quickly thanks to ex feelings assuming that's real.
  10. J

    Why are higher quality women more interested in me than low quality women?

    There is a guy on YouTube, 33secrets who talks about this. Don't date loser women, less is more, focus on quality not quantity. That said I think it was good to practice on lower quality girls and learn what NOT to do (be the one to bring up relationships, call or text all the time, or fail to...
  11. J

    Why are higher quality women more interested in me than low quality women?

    ****ing up how? I've reviewed my texts and messages on the sites, doing the David D C/F, not needy, etc. I don't see where I'd be fing up. I think that might just be a numbers game issue in general. I did date and have sex with attractive women on POF when I used it. Come to think of it I...
  12. J

    Why are higher quality women more interested in me than low quality women?

    I just thought of something. This isn't limited to just women and dating. I've noticed I get along better and have more friends at a similar level than lower end friends. Maybe it's a birds of a feather type of thing? Most of my friends are Dr.'s, Lawyers, business owners, CTO's, VP's, etc. I...
  13. J

    Why are higher quality women more interested in me than low quality women?

    I've found that women who sleep with you very quickly usually have some kind of personality disorder. I've commented in a few threads of others who have posted about this. Women who give it up quickly and easily usually have borderline personality disorder. They are easy, quick to form...
  14. J

    Why are higher quality women more interested in me than low quality women?

    I get that. Why have you never gotten married or had kids? It's strange for a man or woman in their late thirties to never have been married or had kids, I get it. But my response is always, why would I? The usual response from a woman is "love". I ask what a contract has to do with love. They...
  15. J

    Why are higher quality women more interested in me than low quality women?

    I use the same pictures on both profiles (though I don't use POF anymore). They are me shirtless (I'm muscular), on a Jet Ski in Hawaii, in Alaska having a good time, in Paris in front of the Eiffel tower, in London at the bridge, etc. I don't drive a fancy car, I actually drive a cheaper car...
  16. J

    Why are higher quality women more interested in me than low quality women?

    No no no, I'm not complaining. I'm trying to figure out a piece of the attraction puzzle. WHY do attractive younger or similar aged women who are worth equal or MORE money than me willing to travel and bend over backwards to meet me, sex, etc. But yet low grade middle aged trash on POF that is...
  17. J

    Why are higher quality women more interested in me than low quality women?

    I wonder if this IS it....self esteem issues? I had two lower quality but attractive girls say that to me last year: you are too good to be true. You're perfect, why would you want to be with me, etc. Because you're hot and the sex is good and I view this as temporary...lol. Maybe your theory...
  18. J

    Why are higher quality women more interested in me than low quality women?

    I didn't say they were higher quality than me, I said they are HIGH quality women. But some of these chics have more money than ME at the same age and are HOT. Nor did I say I pedestalize women or look down on myself. I asked why I do better with higher quality girls than lower quality girls...
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    Why are higher quality women more interested in me than low quality women?

    No it's a question: Why are higher quality women more interested in me than low quality women? I'm trying to figure out the dynamic in hopes of it giving me an edge or just even understanding it. It might provide insight into attraction; figuring out why some lower end women have no interest...
  20. J

    Why are higher quality women more interested in me than low quality women?

    I have an advanced degree. I'm tech management. I own multiple rentals in one of the most expensive markets in the country. I have a high net worth. I'm an 8.5 in looks, funny/playful personality. On the dating site POF, while I get dates with attractive women younger or similar age as me, it's...
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