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    Letting other girls down/LJBF?

    Question. How do you just break it off with plates you are seeing? Especially if you have to see them a few times a week (not at work but just around)? Bring up the lets just be friends card? Or just stop contacting them all together.
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    Perfect is boring (a conversation with two girls)

    As stuff starts to open up where I'm at I decided to take a plate out to a bar down the shore, we met up with my two female cousins who reserved a table. One is in a relationship and the other is not. The one in the relationship has been in said relationship for 7 years, her boyfriend does not...
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    Good friend insists on staying/being friends with my ex-girlfriend...

    Good start to the week, I was driving home and see my friend driving down the road, shot him a text and asked him whats up, just saw you where you headed man? And he goes "Ex-GFs house to watch x with her and her sister, I hope you don't hate me for that." He's been trying to hook up with the...
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    LTR = Done, ****ed up a friendship, hows your week going?

    Whats up guys, been a long time since I started a thread, but I figure id post this here because im in need of some advice. So about 2.5 weeks ago my girlfriend of ~3 years broke up with me. It was fine, we both started to grow apart and she really didnt want to grow with me, she wanted to do...
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    Ended a 2 year relationship, red flags and insights.

    Last night my 2ish year relationship ended with one of my plates, who I made exclusive just before starting grad school. In hind-sight I think I ignored a lot of red flags that led to this relationships demise but it was also a good learning experience since it was my longest relationship so...
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    LTRs and keeping game sharp.

    I know it's been said before, you never stop gaming even if you end up gaming your LTR. I understand that. However, should you be gaming other women with no outcome involved just to keep your game sharp? Do you guys think this is "wrong" or find it harmless play. I was toying with this idea the...
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    Red Flags + Girlfriend

    I started dating this girl, after spinning her as a plate for quite some time (since March) and things have been going pretty good. No fights, cooks for me, buys me things etc. However, there have been a few instances that just spring up as red flags when they happen. First is we went to a...
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    Moving away...

    I'm heading off to school about 2.5 hours away from my hometown. First time I'll be on my own, and I'm excited to get to experience something new, as you can't stay in your hometown for ever. Now, I want some input here. I am currently spinning about 4 plates, 1 girl I regularly hang out with...
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    Dream Destroyers

    I was recently watching a documentary, Generation Iron 2, and 8x Mr. Olympia Lee Haney was interviewed on the subject of girls and chasing dreams, specifically chasing the dream of becoming a pro bodybuilder. He says that when guys are up and coming that they should not have any thing serious...
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    Thinking with your d1ck and not your head

    This is more of "I need input on my current situation " type thread. So the game has been good to me lately and I find myself being more indifferent with women because of it. One gal from my past seemed to recently pop back into my life, I NCd her about 3 months ago because she didn't want to...
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    I've been in a great mood as of late, and I don't see this train stopping any time soon. So, i've found myself giving some genuine compliments to the women around me, and they seem receptive to it. Sosuave MasterXXXDJ : " But John, compliments are for beta male phaggotzzz! " You're right...
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    what to do in a gap year?

    What's up SS, so the time as arrived where I am finally interviewing for medical schools and I am in my official gap year. So far, everything is looking great. However, I find that without any type of schooling, I find myself bored throughout the day. I work 30-40 hours a week right now at my...
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    Not sure about this one fellas..

    Whats up suavers, hope everyone is going out and killing it this weekend. My weekend starts today. So about a month ago I get invited to go to this concert by one of my friend's sister's and their mom, sister asked me first then the mom apprently wanted to go too. Turns out today is the day, I...
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    Kino: So effective, so sedddductivee

    Went out on Saturday with my buddy, his girl, and one of her friends (who I never met). We all went out and I really had no intention of gaming this chick, but that all changed. Naturally I flirt with almost everyone and anyone, why the hell not, and touching is one of the best things to do...
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    Hobbies: more or less

    So right now I have a lot of lingering hobbies and I finally have the time to pursue them, but here is the thing: do I focus on 1 or 2 hobbies or just pursue them all? My thinking is that if I try to do them all, then I will never become any good at any particular hobby because you need a lot...
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    Observations: Things that DO NOT work.

    Hai gayz (bet you read that in your gayest voice, didnt you) Anyway, I haven't posted anything relevant to pick up in awhile so here is what I have been observing lately. Asking her to be your Valentine. - What is this sh1t? Here is what I am seeing. These three guys at work, pretty good...
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    I;ve been keeping it pretty low key lately with women, doing less pick up stuff and focusing on two goals that I really want to make happen (as of late). However, this post isn't about that sh1tttt. It;s about women damn it, a woman, a female, of the opposite sex and I had a good laugh so let me...
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    I keep seeing this acronym. , what is it?
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    What do you guys think about this?

    So last Saturday I texted this girl and asked when she was free. She said she was free wednesday thru friday. So I said Great and made a date for that Thursday (definite time, date, location etc) (yesterday). I came back from the beach a bit late so I sent her a text saying I was going to be...
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    Abstaining from sex?

    Curious. Has anyone done this for let's say 30 days? 60? 90? I know this is the opposite of what SS is about and I may be seen as some insane Christian zealot, but I'm far from. I am a scientist, by degree and by nature. I enjoy manipulating variables in different situations with different...