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    Completely f*cked up with hot girl

    And despite that I bet they charge full price for entry LOL. I am not against beach dates, the issue is the journey. It would take about 1 1/2 hours to get there. So what do you do in the car? My fear is no action dates and just talking on the way there will put you into the friendzone, which...
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    Completely f*cked up with hot girl

    It was Thorpe Park or Chessington World of Adventures. Beach I think might be too much? It is an 1.5 hour drive, and It might be too full on/too much?
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    Completely f*cked up with hot girl

    One final point. Where would you suggest I invite her along to? We are in partial lockdown. Pubs are partially open, bowling alleys/pitch and putt/most action activities are closed. The only thing I can think of is a theme park not far from mine. Would that be a good suggestion?
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    Completely f*cked up with hot girl

    @samspade @HyenaPrince When I do see her from time to time, would you advise I keep it light hearted and playful? Tease her, for example? For instance, she says she is a university chemistry student, so I could tease her/poke fun at her by calling her chemistry nerd or something like that...
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    Completely f*cked up with hot girl

    No, that is the problem. She works in the supermarket where I work, I think I shall be scarce and drop in and out over the next three weeks. I used to go to the bakery before the supermarket, so I might just do that and just pop back in every now and then - randomly.
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    Completely f*cked up with hot girl

    So you suggest that I only say hello and chat every now and then to her? Or do I just hello and keep moving until three weeks times when I ask her out again?
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    Completely f*cked up with hot girl

    Maybe I am reading too much into it, but when I first asked her when she was available she said she is working six days this week, then said it would have to be next week (when we could meet up). However, when I asked for her number she said she doesn't give it out to customers. So I countered...
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    Completely f*cked up with hot girl

    She leaves work to go back to university in three weeks time, so suggested then as if to say that is when she is free.
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    Completely f*cked up with hot girl

    @samspade Thanks for all the great advice above. However, I need some fresh advice since everything has evolved. I followed advice and just went about my purpose (grocery shopping) and remained cordial with her. Today I spoke to her asking for a different sandwich to eat. We began talking...
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    cold approaching waste of time

    What are the IOIs most obvious?
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    cold approaching waste of time

    Yeah, I kind of blew that one. She is ice cold now. Ignorant of me. But I am learning. But I see your point. Do you mean don't go out approaching for the purpose of approaching and meeting women? Any tips on approaching? From my experience, ironically, when I haven't been chasing women, just...
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    cold approaching waste of time

    Genuine question: should guys approach girls to start setting up dates without any signals of interest, or do guys wait for girls to give signals before approaching. For example, you see a girl whilst out and you think is cute so you go up and chat to them, get their number and set up dates...
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    Completely f*cked up with hot girl

    Great. Thanks.
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    Completely f*cked up with hot girl

    I kind of guessed that. I only ask because some PUA say that you tell the girl whatever is on your mind that you think is good about them (e.g. eyes, smile, body, ass, that they have a sexy body etc.). They say never compliment them too much, maybe once and that is it. However, other posts I...
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    Completely f*cked up with hot girl

    Thanks for the advice. One final point: If you see a girl with who has a great ass, would you ever approach them and tell them they have a great ass before engaging them in small talk - or is that too crude? Cheers
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    Completely f*cked up with hot girl

    Or Guantanamo Bay/Greenboro. LOL.
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    Completely f*cked up with hot girl

    Thanks. I admit I was hung up on her before. But not I know she isn't interested it seems to have had a positive effect - I no longer care anymore. I am now asking myself what all the big deal was in the first place if she says no. I think reading advice on here and books have helped A LOT in this.
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    Completely f*cked up with hot girl

    I agree with being cordial. However, what if she wants small talk? Clearly she isn't interested. At this point she could be doing it for an ego boost. Would you engage with small talk or just say hello and carry on shopping, i.e. don't get sidetracked from your purpose there. Furthermore, would...
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    Completely f*cked up with hot girl

    I am not sure, probably about 20-23. As others have suggested, flirting with others there could get be a bad reputation. So not sure.
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